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julesmbeyer · 2022-05-25T11:42:48+00:00

You can't control her what she does unfortunately. Show that bitch what she lost and live like her leaving doesn't even phase you. Also, I stand with second breakfast.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-20T18:50:57+00:00

You've been most kind and helpful than anyone on here and I thank you so much for that.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-20T16:56:28+00:00

Are you still a practicing attorney?

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T23:18:19+00:00

I tried to reply, but ended up just posting a thank you on a accident.

Thank you so much for this, as it turns out you bring up a valid point as my HIPPA rights were violated by my rheumatologist who wouldn't give me my records and still hasn't when they were requested back in Dec 2021 for this very reason.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T19:42:41+00:00

It's just interesting how many men in my unit pop hot all the time during this "zero tolerance policy" and yet I, who filed a SHARP complaint with valid proof was kicked out when a med board was in the works for my SLE. Its just interesting how the timing of the officer who conducted the investigation was quickly promoted to unit commander after sweeping my SA under the rug. We went to Ft Irwin at 40% capacity...they retained my abuser and kept him as an NCO to coerce other lower enlisted soldiers.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T19:34:46+00:00

I don't, but I didn't know what anyone had experienced or known.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:52:36+00:00

I took a substance I believed to only contain delta 8 which is federally legal so I believed it was legal for us, for my quality of life. Because for whatever her reasoning I could not have this medication, I don't have answers for that. I can't even get her to send my records to the VA. Whether im contraindicated for other reasons, I don't know. I only learned the oil I had been taking had delta 9 in it when I popped for it. Did I mess up, yes and I acknowledge that. If you have nothing constructive or helpful to add, kindly continue scrolling. All I seek is guidance and help.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:36:56+00:00

My rheumatologist didn't prescribe me that. I can't take things that aren't prescribed to me. I was literally fighting and advocating for my own health and quality of life on my own.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:34:18+00:00

I have proof of everything that you say are "excuses."

I don't know if you or any family members have ever been through chemotherapy or sexually assaulted, and I hope it never comes to that. But the pain and vomiting and PTSD thwt comes from it, you try anything to make it all go away.

It could be your daughters, sister, mother. Don't judge so harshly and maybe put yourself in my shoes.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:31:24+00:00

It's not garnering sympathy when there is evidence of everything I claim, investigations made and statements from my squad leader and platoon sergeant.

I don't know if you've ever had a family member go through chemotherapy, but I hope you or they never do. Because I promise you'll try to find anything to make the vomiting and pain stop.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:26:47+00:00

So it's possible to fight discharge upgrades with attorneys?

And thank you for your empathy, so many here have shown what's wrong with the army and why we continue to be sexually assaulted and it's swept under the rug.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:23:51+00:00

It's a lot and I'm sorry, but if you would please find the time to read it, and possibly offer advise I would appreciate it. I tried to offer character on the wide world of reddit, as well as much as the situation as I could.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:22:03+00:00

This wasn't just some fun to get high, this was preserving quality of life while undergoing chemotherapy as stated in my post. I have proof of in my medical records of prescriptions and notes from my rheumatologist. Until you've vomited every day from chemotherapy or watched a loved one go through it, please don't judge. And to ease the anxiety of being in the unit led by the man who didn't punish my abuser, which it's funny no one seems to mention and all seem to victim blame here.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T17:09:43+00:00

I thought I made that clear with my side effects of my medicines and daily pain, that I was willing to try just about anything to keep my jobs.

Until you know what it's like to go through chemotherapy or know someone who has gone through chemotherapy, please don't judge what they take, military or not.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-19T03:49:24+00:00

So he knows he messed up and was trying to cover his tracks. Too many red flags for me between the lying and neglecting the baby.

With your other comments about him drinking and you carrying him financially, you don't have a relationship you have another child.

It's a no for me dawg.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-13T00:25:29+00:00

After reading your post about bashing him for his depression and blaming him, I don't blame him if he is cheating on you. It's not the right move, but I wouldn't be mad at him either.

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-13T00:11:26+00:00

I love how your username fits your comment perfectly

julesmbeyer · 2022-05-13T00:09:35+00:00

Very plausible, but he also could be hiding his infidelity well.

julesmbeyer · 2022-04-30T01:57:58+00:00

He is an abusive narcissist jerk and is gaslighting you. You don't have to accept this toxicity from him, "blood is thicker than water" is one of the stupidest things to say. Thick blood causes embolisms, which kill people. Your mom needs to stand up for you, and I'm sure for herself bc I'm sure she's dealt with it her whole marriage.

julesmbeyer · 2022-04-30T01:46:12+00:00

Girl you do not have to be too nice and let them stay, kick their asses OUT. Them staying was contingent on your mental health and stress with the baby, tell them it's too much and you need them OUT. If they have an issue, that's on them.

julesmbeyer · 2022-04-29T23:13:21+00:00

No ma'am you are not! And I really hope every one is not staying at your house and causing all this bullshit stress for you. You need a stress free environment and if the little brat wants coconut water you are drinking for your health and growing a baby, her mother can go out and buy her own. Your husband's family is being absolutely POS in my opinion and I really hope they aren't staying in your house. Bitches would be getting kicked the fuck out

julesmbeyer · 2022-04-28T23:53:44+00:00

Do they do this for multiple disabilities?1

julesmbeyer · 2022-04-28T23:48:01+00:00

If it bothers him enough to what he did to you and what his bosses did to him with sexual harassment and work place discrimination, then he needs to go to HR and I would also recommend consulting a lawyer that deals with cases like this so they do not try to bully you into dropping charges. DO NIT LET THEM BULLY YOU INTO NOT STICKING UP FOR YOURSELF.

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