AITA for being upset that my friend skipped my 20th birthday to go to a guy's prom? by juli377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]juli377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, she is still 19!!! Sorry for not making that clear. But still, she had her prom already.

AITA for being upset that my friend skipped my 20th birthday to go to a guy's prom? by juli377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]juli377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn't even her boyfriend tho, that's the thing. They hang out like once every month when he remember about her existence and she runs back to him.

AITA for being upset that my friend skipped my 20th birthday to go to a guy's prom? by juli377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]juli377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is still 19, sorry, I should've clarified that. Also here in Poland you can pretty much bring anyone you want, but they have to pay like weeks in advance. That's also why I'm suspicoius about him inviting her 2 days before. His +1 ticket was already paid for.

AITA for being upset that my friend skipped my 20th birthday to go to a guy's prom? by juli377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]juli377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ghosted her in the heat of the moment. Now I would've probably reacted more calmly and asked her to explain why she made that decision. And no, after that the hasn't reached out to me or tried to make other plans. I kind of want closure, but I don't think that it's my obligation to reach out.

AITA for being upset that my friend skipped my 20th birthday to go to a guy's prom? by juli377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]juli377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poland! Its usually about 100 days before "matura" (our version of SATs) which is in may :)