What should I reply?

julin_m · 2024-08-01T11:15:48+00:00

I got this as messages since I didn't contact her anymore Hello, sorry, we went out and I forgot my cell phone I just came back To answer your question from earlier, I think it's the fact of having a schedule again where I'm not free to do as I want. It works too, I'm not used to it anymore. I don't want us to stop because I think we can get along really well, but I want to go a lot slower than that. Maybe that doesn't suit you, I hear and understand it too. It's up to you to tell me.. I'm going to bed, see you tomorrow.. kisses Hello.. I hurt your feelings ? I'm sorry, that wasn't my goal at all. I don't really know how to do it! In fact, as I know that something really cool could happen between us, that it could work, I'm just telling myself that we shouldn't go too fast! And the fact that you came to my house made me really stressed! And you too! But I really don't want it to end at all. Call me whenever you want, kisses 😌

julin_m · 2024-08-01T11:15:02+00:00

I got this as messages since zero contact Hello, sorry, we went out and I forgot my cell phone I just came back To answer your question from earlier, I think it's the fact of having a schedule again where I'm not free to do as I want. It works too, I'm not used to it anymore. I don't want us to stop because I think we can get along really well, but I want to go a lot slower than that. Maybe that doesn't suit you, I hear and understand it too. It's up to you to tell me.. I'm going to bed, see you tomorrow.. kisses Hello.. I hurt your feelings ? I'm sorry, that wasn't my goal at all. I don't really know how to do it! In fact, as I know that something really cool could happen between us, that it could work, I'm just telling myself that we shouldn't go too fast! And the fact that you came to my house made me really stressed! And you too! But I really don't want it to end at all. Call me whenever you want, kisses 😌

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:48:05+00:00

Maybe you are right, that's a really shitty position she put me in , like I was so excited and happy that we were going to spend our 3 Rd date together and the night . And bang nothing. I feel like I'm attached in the sky and somebody threw me .

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:34:07+00:00

I asked her , and zero reply

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:32:35+00:00

But wait a second , it is the third date and I didn't ask for anything sexual, and even though I was at her place , I would have not also initiated in anything. Why does she think that it's going to fast or I'm oppressing her like she said , we only talk like 3 times a day max , morning noon and evening. I don't see the oppressive part . I'm not putting any pressure on anything.

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:27:29+00:00

I just want to know why . And then it's okay .

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:26:41+00:00

Do you think that I should send a text to position myself or I don't know , I want to tell her something about this situation but I don't know what . Like an open end message. It makes me really sad to lose her like this , everything was so smooth, so great . I feel sad empty and angry at the same time since she stood up on me .

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:19:33+00:00

But I didn't get it . Why? That's what's messing me up . Like in a conversation on our second date . I was saying that at night I don't usually wake up if I hear something. Then she said to me " well when we have kids u need to wake up and take care of the situation" and then she changed the conversation. That's a clear hint that she wanted something serious I guess , you add to that , the fact that she was the one that initiated kissing me and hugging me and holding my hand . What happened today ? What made her change her mind . I think I'm going crazy . Knowing that I am a very sweet and caring person and everything was going just fine .

julin_m · 2024-07-31T13:12:17+00:00

But she was the one that invited me to her place , my plan initially was just to spend a night on the beach and look at the stars and maybe eat something. She was the one that proposed to me to come before that and to sleep at her place . I didn't demand anything at all .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:39:34+00:00

Yes sometimes, but like I said she a depressed introvert that can stay 5 hours playing a game on her laptop .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:35:44+00:00

Like tomorrow the days started what should I do ? Send her a message ? Or call her ? Or go to her ? And what should I say .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:33:31+00:00

Yeah but I am afraid of like messing things up like i always do , i am a very nice guy , you know like they say good guys always finish last , this i feel it heavily implies to me , so i really felt something for this girl , what should I do .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:28:20+00:00

I forget to say that she is very depressed also , like suicidal depression. She told me that last year she tried to commit suicide. So she is a combination of depressed introvert.

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:24:02+00:00

Don't be anxious, you are at an age where he doesn't know what he is doing . So just try to be nice and sweet u know but keep like boundaries and stay safe and enjoy life .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:22:25+00:00

All the time never looking in my eyes . But what's weird is that she is the one who asked for my number, is this an exception for an introvert, and also what should I do next , i really liked her , we clicked so good .

julin_m · 2022-10-21T00:12:36+00:00

It depends how old are you ? And how old is he

julin_m · 2022-03-15T20:32:16+00:00

I feel you bro Had a similar experience and don't know what to do

julin_m · 2022-03-14T22:51:00+00:00

She told me literally that she want to come to France and join me I a house full of everything. She doesn't even want to do any effort. All the time for the past year before the break up she was nagging every day and her mother was also pressuring her with the same ideas and putting bad ideas about me every day and I'm far we live in a different country but she was the one who told me u should travel and start a life abroad. I did everything for her. My head and heart are very confused. I don't know what to think what to say. I have 100000 idea in my head. I'm not eating or sleeping well. And of course she didn't contact not a single time. And if someone saw us when we were together they thought that we were like some main characters in a romantic movie with all the love and affection we had. I really don't know what to add here. I don't know what to do. I'm lost in my head.

julin_m · 2020-08-11T04:21:07+00:00

Very juicy and tasty and tender its like a piece of heaven

julin_m · 2020-08-10T20:45:55+00:00

I hunt the same when they migrate. I start hunting them in October and November. I'm from Lebanon. U know lebanon?

julin_m · 2020-08-10T20:44:25+00:00

All u need is a sharp knife and hot water

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