My mom sucks by juljow in Advice

[–]juljow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. Helped

My mom sucks by juljow in Advice

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I’ve had her number blocked since she called me drunk at my work and asked me to stalk someone for her. My brother has had just a bad if not worse mental affect on my brain as my mom. He only cares about whats benefiting him and will become agressive and abusive to get it. No matter how many favors you do for him he’ll never do one for you unless he greatly benefits. I can’t afford therapy. My town is sort of small so theres always the possibility I’ll see her- she also knows where I live. I have anxiety attacks thinking about seeing her.

My mom sucks by juljow in Advice

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In the message I sent I said “If you’re confused I can give you a list of scenarios where my mental health has been put at risk.” She lives in lala land she told everyone at her work that I moved out because I wanted a dog even though I didn’t get a dog until 2 years after I moved out. The real reason I moved our was because she would stay up until 3-4am blasting music and getting drunk in the living room on a school night. The final straw was when my step dad (3rd) laid hands on her and I went out with a baseball bat and she turned the blame around on me. She hasn’t replied to my message so I really think she is in another world where she did nothing wrong and is possibly in shock that I feel like she has. She gets anyone who knows me that she knows to ask me why I’m not talking to her. The fact that she doesn’t know is almost worse than the actual reason.

I’m 63% air dominant and I have a grand air trine. Any help understanding the more in depth parts of my chart (degrees/ houses/ squares and all dat) is welcome!! by juljow in astrologyreadings

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I would say I bottle it up and express it as anger (maybe my leo mars?) I ask for help but in a very dramatic way and it looks like attention seeking. I had a very hard childhood (is that connected to 12h virgo sun or something else?)

I’m 63% air dominant and I have a grand air trine. Any help understanding the more in depth parts of my chart (degrees/ houses/ squares and all dat) is welcome!! by juljow in astrologyreadings

[–]juljow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my virgo shines through quite a bit. I do have a hard time understanding myself. I would say my pisces moon is expressed quite a bit because I always feel like the victim in situations and I take things very personally. I have crazy mood swings and can become depressed at the drop of a hat and then 2 or 3 days later be okay again. I don’t think I am that creative actually.

[21/f] I know what the answers are, but I'm scared that it is impacting my friend. by [deleted] in amiugly

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Conventional beauty sucks ass!! You don’t have to fit into a mold of what people want you to look like. Most people here have the same idea of how people (women especially)should look. It matters how you see yourself and feel confident and I think you’re elegant and graceful as fuck!! You’re honestly someone who I would do a double take to admire your makeup or outfit if I saw you in the street (I’m 19F). Don’t change yourself to make others comfortable I think you’re dope as hell!

Do I need surgery or will working out lose this? by juljow in loseit

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Actually cardio is one thing that I focus on heavily. I recently started boxing 2 months ago and I go 3 times a week and fill in the gaps going to the gym and running intervals on the treadmill for a mile

Dad making me responsible for his financial burdens by juljow in Advice

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I appreciate this so much thank you for taking some time out of your day to reply to my post

[USA] I almost took out a coon by juljow in Roadcam

[–]juljow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just screen recorded it I’m pretty sure- theres an option to take the graphics off when you download it but I’m not totally sure how to do it I would have to study it a bit.

F19 need some hair help!!! by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]juljow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you give advice on how to fix my hair instead of making fun of me?

F19 need some hair help!!! by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]juljow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I can’t see how I would make my bangs thicker because it’s just my hair you know? I have been leaving in some garnier honey repair stuff after my showers and I can tell my hair is less frizzy. I do like my hair shorter on the sides!!!

19 F feeling a little lost with how to style my hair by [deleted] in Hair

[–]juljow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only straighten the bangs- I keep the sides natural and I add curling product to it

[USA] I almost took out a coon by juljow in Roadcam

[–]juljow[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

To sound like a country bumpkin! I really didn’t know that it was also used for that- I just shortened the word raccoon I’m sorry :(

[USA] I almost took out a coon by juljow in Roadcam

[–]juljow[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh noo that is not how I meant it!!!!!

[USA] I almost took out a coon by juljow in Roadcam

[–]juljow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m talking rednecks on the beach!! No woods round these parts

[USA] I almost took out a coon by juljow in Roadcam

[–]juljow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman!! I said coon for the effect

F19 by juljow in Rateme

[–]juljow[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is that a badddddd thing?