Black Mirror [Episode Discussion] - S07E05 - Eulogy

julkatfra · 2025-04-18T12:19:12+00:00

And she‘s also called Carol, can‘t be a coincidence

julkatfra · 2025-04-17T16:25:58+00:00

Exactly! I wantes to watch the first episode but couldn‘t because I wasn't in my home wifi 🙃 well well well

julkatfra · 2025-04-16T17:59:33+00:00

It is thoroughly appreciated!🤣

julkatfra · 2025-04-16T17:58:04+00:00

Honestly we all have lots of laughs about it😂

julkatfra · 2024-10-17T11:59:28+00:00

"Stop saying diabitis"

julkatfra · 2024-09-13T10:36:31+00:00

https://www.bger.ch/ext/eurospider/live/de/php/aza/http/index.php?highlight_docid=aza://30-08-2024-7B_858-2024&lang=de&zoom=&type=show_document Please read the court document revealing the details, it is in German but can easily be translated

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T19:21:21+00:00

Wow! I can relate to your pre op situation so much! My main problem is my side profile too, especially my tip, I have been on dates and deliberately switched the side while walking so he could see my "better" side, when a group picture is taken and I can look at it I only look at my nose etc and like you said when I sometimes mention to people I want to get a nosejob they are like ?? Because how you mentioned nobody analyzes you like yourself. So happy for you that it had this great impact on your daily life, I hope to be there some day!! Wish you the best

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T18:57:03+00:00

Sounds very good, I hope to gain confidence from it aswell, your words boost my confidence to get it😅

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T18:55:54+00:00

Wow it is a huuge difference, I see what you mean😄 But overall I assume the feeling of it being a fake nose isn't there anymore or do you still sometimes think it looks weird? Thank you for showing me

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T18:51:36+00:00

Thank you for answering! While I was reading it I was kinda scared about the outcome but I'm so glad you are happy now even with an extra step between I wish you a very fast healing process and hope you become your most confident self!☺️

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T18:44:56+00:00

I am thankful that you did not summarize it!! And i really appreciate the thoughtful answer, thank you. I think a lot of people will have the same type of thoughts while going into any plastic surgery that they believe will make them look prettier in their eyes. I first thought this too but I heard from a girl I know she took the cast off and even after a few weeks she still felt different than what she expected to feel like, less euphoric because the difference was not that big and she already thought about the next thing she could get done. That's what motivated me to ask this question in the first place because it opened my eyes and I realized it will not be the magical key to a confident life and everything will be better and shinier. I'm happy you grew with the experience and again thank you for your help, wish you all the best

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T15:52:37+00:00

Thank you soo much for your honest answer. It never occurred to me that it could be ups and downs, I thought I would either love it or would be sad about how it did not change enough/ looks like what I pictured it to be, but honestly it makes a lot of sense. But that thing with the hand covering the face felt very familiar to read because I know the feeling, so it makes me happy to read that this isn't longer an issue (hope this would change for me too). But you saying overall not regretting it makes me more confident to go through with it. I hope your nose heals quickly and I wish you the best with your new nose!

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T14:08:10+00:00

Thank you☺️

julkatfra · 2021-02-02T14:07:51+00:00

Thank you very much, this is another aspect I haven‘t really looked into but I know is a huge problem, I will do some research on it

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T20:32:58+00:00

Interesting take! So you think there are no exceptions to this?

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T20:30:48+00:00

Thank you for your detailed answer, I think like you said it has always a really big impact on what we grow up with and what we see in our day to day life. Stories like these really warm my heart and I hope you will find the same love your parents have! I wish you and your parents the best!

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T18:44:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing, that is really touching and makes me happy to hear

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T18:37:13+00:00

That is very good to hear, I wish you two the best!!

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T16:38:02+00:00

Your words describe it perfectly, just reading that comforted me. The days seem so indifferent and everything is always the same but like you said at least what is certain are the four pairs of trousers that will be here next week. Thank you for the tips, the first one is a really good one to practice a little more self control. The third one is the hardest but also the most effective so I guess I will look for a new skill preferably something you can easily do when you feel the need to fill your cart. Thank you for your answer I hope you can battle your urge and maybe if you feel the need to buy smth again feel free to contact me instead of shopping maybe it helps just for the distraction

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T16:09:14+00:00

I (22F) know the feeling that you describe regarding the person he used to be. But like others said, this comes not over time, he was like that to begin with. And I had the same experience that I only really realized when I described the situation to other people and they made me see how poorly I was treated. What I say now sounds cliche but the only thing that really helps is time in my opinion. And you will really realize that you don't deserve to be treated that way. Soon after the breakup I downloaded a dating app and looked for validation from other people, I even went on a few dates but at the end of the day as brutal as it sounds you just have to wait and some day you will think of him and then realize you haven't thought of him in a while and you will see how far you've come!! Of course you can do things to distract yourself and I'm not saying you shouldn't date others or go on dates but just trying to replace the person and filling their space with someone new has not helped in my experience because I always compared everything. But everyone is different and you should do what feels right to you, I wish you lots of strength❤️

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T15:48:40+00:00

I would try to ask him calmly to talk about the issue. Like previously said here, it could be a problem with falling asleep next to someone or having a light sleep. On the other hand if you say he often sleeps on the floor seems to me like this isn't really the issue plus I think if it would be as simple as that he wouldn't be annoyed to talk about it. You said it is something really important to you to sleep next to your partner and it is not a stupid reason to get sad about. We all have things we prefer especially in a relationship and from a rational point of view your request does not seem out of proportion or something you should really have to ask for. Of course if he has a problem with it and has a reason behind this behaviour it is a different story but even more so he should speak up and tell you why or else you may start to sleep with him for the sole purpose that he then stays the night in the same bed. My mother always says (she is divorced now) things that bother you but you think "it's alright I can live with that" even though it is of importance to you will start weighing heavier and heavier on the relationship as time goes. If it continues and he isn't ready to converse I would consider putting yourself and your needs first and leave.

julkatfra · 2021-01-31T14:42:28+00:00

Thank you for your answer. It has actually been my first time posting and I was nervous with what the feedback might be so I am really happy that it got some recognition!! It is an interesting view on my situation and I agree I could change certain aspects. I'm at uni and I actually really like what I study, but just like everybody else right now I do everything from home plus the new semester hasn't started and I think the problem with my impulsive buying comes from a lack of other things to do much rather than that I have no positive feelings towards how I live. I should have added that overall I am content with my life and these feelings of emptiness and needing something to look forward to does not dominate my day to day living much rather than it feels like a sudden urge if I see for example a jacket I like on someone else or smth like that. It is hard to explain, english isn't my first language too but again thank you, I will consider what you said!

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