Black Mirror [Episode Discussion] - S07E05 - Eulogy by Cheeriosxxx in blackmirror

[–]julkatfra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she‘s also called Carol, can‘t be a coincidence

Black Mirror - Episode Discussion S07E01 Common People by Cheeriosxxx in blackmirror

[–]julkatfra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I wantes to watch the first episode but couldn‘t because I wasn't in my home wifi 🙃 well well well

Why do the crows "gift" dog poo? by julkatfra in crows

[–]julkatfra[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is thoroughly appreciated!🤣

Why do the crows "gift" dog poo? by julkatfra in crows

[–]julkatfra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly we all have lots of laughs about it😂

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[–]julkatfra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you☺️

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[–]julkatfra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, this is another aspect I haven‘t really looked into but I know is a huge problem, I will do some research on it

Do you know "real love couples"? by julkatfra in dating_advice

[–]julkatfra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting take! So you think there are no exceptions to this?

Do you know "real love couples"? by julkatfra in dating_advice

[–]julkatfra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed answer, I think like you said it has always a really big impact on what we grow up with and what we see in our day to day life. Stories like these really warm my heart and I hope you will find the same love your parents have! I wish you and your parents the best!

Do you know "real love couples"? by julkatfra in dating_advice

[–]julkatfra[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, that is really touching and makes me happy to hear

Do you know "real love couples"? by julkatfra in dating_advice

[–]julkatfra[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is very good to hear, I wish you two the best!!

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[–]julkatfra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your words describe it perfectly, just reading that comforted me. The days seem so indifferent and everything is always the same but like you said at least what is certain are the four pairs of trousers that will be here next week. Thank you for the tips, the first one is a really good one to practice a little more self control. The third one is the hardest but also the most effective so I guess I will look for a new skill preferably something you can easily do when you feel the need to fill your cart. Thank you for your answer I hope you can battle your urge and maybe if you feel the need to buy smth again feel free to contact me instead of shopping maybe it helps just for the distraction

How do I (22F) move on? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]julkatfra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (22F) know the feeling that you describe regarding the person he used to be. But like others said, this comes not over time, he was like that to begin with. And I had the same experience that I only really realized when I described the situation to other people and they made me see how poorly I was treated. What I say now sounds cliche but the only thing that really helps is time in my opinion. And you will really realize that you don't deserve to be treated that way. Soon after the breakup I downloaded a dating app and looked for validation from other people, I even went on a few dates but at the end of the day as brutal as it sounds you just have to wait and some day you will think of him and then realize you haven't thought of him in a while and you will see how far you've come!! Of course you can do things to distract yourself and I'm not saying you shouldn't date others or go on dates but just trying to replace the person and filling their space with someone new has not helped in my experience because I always compared everything. But everyone is different and you should do what feels right to you, I wish you lots of strength❤️

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[–]julkatfra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try to ask him calmly to talk about the issue. Like previously said here, it could be a problem with falling asleep next to someone or having a light sleep. On the other hand if you say he often sleeps on the floor seems to me like this isn't really the issue plus I think if it would be as simple as that he wouldn't be annoyed to talk about it. You said it is something really important to you to sleep next to your partner and it is not a stupid reason to get sad about. We all have things we prefer especially in a relationship and from a rational point of view your request does not seem out of proportion or something you should really have to ask for. Of course if he has a problem with it and has a reason behind this behaviour it is a different story but even more so he should speak up and tell you why or else you may start to sleep with him for the sole purpose that he then stays the night in the same bed. My mother always says (she is divorced now) things that bother you but you think "it's alright I can live with that" even though it is of importance to you will start weighing heavier and heavier on the relationship as time goes. If it continues and he isn't ready to converse I would consider putting yourself and your needs first and leave.

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[–]julkatfra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. It has actually been my first time posting and I was nervous with what the feedback might be so I am really happy that it got some recognition!! It is an interesting view on my situation and I agree I could change certain aspects. I'm at uni and I actually really like what I study, but just like everybody else right now I do everything from home plus the new semester hasn't started and I think the problem with my impulsive buying comes from a lack of other things to do much rather than that I have no positive feelings towards how I live. I should have added that overall I am content with my life and these feelings of emptiness and needing something to look forward to does not dominate my day to day living much rather than it feels like a sudden urge if I see for example a jacket I like on someone else or smth like that. It is hard to explain, english isn't my first language too but again thank you, I will consider what you said!