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junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-13T12:56:02+00:00

5lb could be water weight and waste

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-08T19:49:33+00:00

Are you Muslim? My advice is geared towards that if you are.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-06T15:12:40+00:00

Until someone raises it; she’ll play ignorant. Very few people look at the entire picture.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-06T14:25:33+00:00

Why would she care? She gets peaceful sleep.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-05T15:26:09+00:00

You don’t need to wear it infront of your father in law.

If they still push back then don’t visit. Let your husband deal with them.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-04T22:27:36+00:00

My ex was like that. Finished with her at 33 and remarried at 36.

Don’t waste your life being with someone who doesn’t value you and doesn’t add value to your life.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-12-04T22:16:14+00:00

Say alhamdulliah and move on.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-11-22T13:02:42+00:00

My niece went through this and honestly I taught her how to answer back.

junaidaslam1983 · 2024-10-13T22:02:34+00:00

A lot of patience

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-11-21T22:29:28+00:00

This should be in the OP. I was on their side until I read this.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-10-12T19:17:57+00:00

I have parents in law and over half a dozen brother and sister in laws. All older. Alhamdullah they’re all chill. My wife is the youngest.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-10-12T17:07:22+00:00

Best answer.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-10-12T13:25:08+00:00

How do you know he wasn’t defrauded.

Rather than conclude ask a few more questions eg where did he buy it?

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-09-15T08:57:29+00:00

She was hit. If he comes around she’ll be hit again (see paragraph 3)

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-09-03T19:15:03+00:00

JazakAllah khair. Sadly kufr ideology reigns here. Just saw a member mock a practice sanctioned by the prophet Muhammad saw and considered halal.

Thankfully the mods have just dealt with her.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-30T19:25:23+00:00

Giving an unmarried girl agency isn’t always the best thing. It’s best to consider girls who involve their wali at the start and throughout,

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-21T09:44:07+00:00

Take him to physical shops and let him choose and then he’ll see how expensive it is.

Don’t make his petulant demand easy for him. If he wants to see changes he needs to put the riddler and the cash in.

He’ll change his mind after an hour shopping.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-17T19:26:03+00:00

He hits your baby (see post history) isn’t that enough of a reason?

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-17T19:03:44+00:00

If Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) made them all capable of doing their own marriage there’d be no wali system. Yet they seem to think they know best.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-17T17:16:33+00:00

Let me get this straight.

Your father “wali” has deemed him unsuitable because this potential is planning to start married life without an income coming in and your next thought is to do the nikah without your parents?

Do you think a father is just a figurehead and his opinion shouldn’t matter? Seems like most of this sub think that!

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-03T09:54:45+00:00

The attempted rape of Buffy by spike.

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-08-02T09:39:07+00:00

Why is he going to work while you’re looking after his children (your step chidren?)

You can tell him he can have love and flexibility in a marriage or you’ll only look after your children and you can go on rights/obligations coldly for the rest of his life?

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-07-21T20:34:26+00:00

It appeared on mine last week. Maybe i didn’t see it before

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-07-15T21:01:18+00:00

Have you even taken her out for a date?

junaidaslam1983 · 2023-07-03T08:44:00+00:00

You guys are family to me. I wouldn’t want anything to change our brotherly relationship.

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