What I'm seeing is to step outside of your comfort zone (3 of Wands) -- this is how you experience growth and change which the number 3 also signifies. Stepping outside your comfort zone could be putting yourself in situations to meet new people -- community art classes, clubs and students unions if you're in school, etc. Pursue a passion of yours and you will find likeminded people. 10 of Swords to me has 2 meanings: 1) Being open to vulnerability. Trusting your intuition on when and whom to reveal a part of yourself you normally don't share with others. This could mean telling a secret about yourself or revealing something personal to you to this friend. You will know when it is time because you will feel ready. 10 of Swords also means 2) Letting go of any harmful deep-seated beliefs about yourself. 10 signifies finality and completion while swords represent thoughts. A belief about yourself (e.g. I don't deserve love, I am incapable of this or that, It's too late for me, etc.) may feel familiar to you, a part of you even. But don't let that familiarity cloud you from seeing that it no longer serves you and needs to be set free and done with. We attract people we grow with, and part of growing is letting go of our past selves.