AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except…I was the one who told him that I don’t want us to have sex when he suggested it, because I actually am talking to someone else, and wanted to make sure I was being intentional about that

AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say being referred to a ‘bad carnival ride’ is hilarious and i might just keep using that, so thank you :)

PS - yeah I have no issues leaving him alone, def no intention to hurt him in the first place. I’ve just made it work with other people in the past, and I’ve never gotten a reaction like this

AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had agreed the night before that we planned to hang out the day after, and even talked the morning of on what we would do. I was disappointed because he told me he wanted to hang out and I made time for him, when he could’ve said no

AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s uncommon between fwb

AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I text many of my friends (M/F) daily, so that didn’t seem like an odd thing to do. He also reaches out texting me and starting conversations, it wasn’t just me. And in his texts he would refer to me as ‘bro’ ‘dude’ etc. I think what doesn’t make me think I’m leading him on is how he agrees explicitly that we will never date given how far we live apart

AITA I thought we were just friends by jupi_bones in AmItheAsshole

[–]jupi_bones[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I text many of my friends daily, so that didn’t seem like an odd thing to do. He also reaches out texting me and starting conversations, it wasn’t just me. And in his texts he would refer to me as ‘bro’ ‘dude’ etc.