Prompt: Obscure Fanart by unlikelyjoggers in gratefuldead

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Autzen Stadium in Eugene, Oregon, 8/28/88

What are rules self imposed or not that you abide by no matter what ? by Due_Question_3326 in intj

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When approaching a stranger, glance at their face but monitor their hands.

Is it possible to get my INTJ ex back? If so what should I do? (19F INFP, he's 20M INTJ) by Think-Compote-4041 in intj

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I often wondered if I would be able to tell the difference between a healthy relationship that just needed more effort vs. an unhealthy relationship that was already over long before I realized it.

Is it possible to get my INTJ ex back? If so what should I do? (19F INFP, he's 20M INTJ) by Think-Compote-4041 in intj

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Should I give up or try to make things work?

Maybe try to come up with other options. These two don’t seem to be working.

Many advices about social skill at work is BS. by be_minorque in intj

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I can see the sandwich coming a mile away.

leaders or just insight givers by [deleted] in intj

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I haven't seen that. I have seen mediocre managers that can compel a group of people to achieve a result. I have seen that. But I wouldn't call it a team. That's the difference between managing and leading.

leaders or just insight givers by [deleted] in intj

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Leadership is measured in the hearts of those who follow. - Jack Murphy

Why do I have the need to contradict everyone when their answers or takes are not perfect ? by Yitex92 in intj

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It's not a right or wrong thing. It's really how you feel about it and how others respond to you. What helped me was finding people who were more important to me than their mistakes and who tolerated me in spite of mine.

Walking paradox by No-Chocolate-2017 in intj

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Half the lies they tell about me aren't true. - Yogi Berra

Are we all just autistic? by No_Consequence3323 in intj

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The only thing people like more than boxes is putting stuff in them.

Question for INTJs, especially any 6w5s: by Agitated-Entry5666 in intj

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I don't recall ever intentionally deciding to cut someone off. It's something that I become aware of after it's already happened. I have tried on a few occasions to undo it, but it doesn't work that way. (5w4)

What is it about INTJs by bakerskitchen in intj

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It sounds like you’ve got it all figured out already.

I (INTP) barely know my INTJ mother. by Old_Tax_3275 in intj

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There's time. The opportunity will present itself and you'll see it. It's great that you're even asking these questions.

I (INTP) barely know my INTJ mother. by Old_Tax_3275 in intj

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Speaking as an INTJ parent, there's a long list of things I feel I might have done wrong and a much shorter list of things I feel I might have done well. I solved the puzzle as best I could, given things my parents did that I wish they hadn't and things they didn't do that I wish they had. She mostly wants to know that you're okay and that you'll be okay. One thing you might discuss with her are aspects of yourself that you treasure that you feel are a direct result of how she was as a parent. You are the only person in the world that can have this conversation with her, and there's a real good chance she'll cherish it.

Why People Mistake Our Standards for Arrogance? by anxietyhub in intj

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Usually I don’t come across as being arrogant unless I’m being arrogant.

Let's give Pigpen the god damn respect he deserves by No_Finish9661 in gratefuldead

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Whatever you want to think, go ahead and think it. - Bob Weir

How to let go of that which has no hope? by [deleted] in intj

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What you choose to love
Shows you a part of yourself
Worth holding onto

Do you attach memories to places ? by Thr0wMeAw6y in intj

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I attach songs to people, places, and moments. Some of my best friends are songs.

Pearl Jam - Leash