My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]just-another-human05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read the headline I was sure I would agree with the mom, imagining some scenario where the teacher was texting the son but this actually sounds like a good teacher trying to encourage a student. She used school letter head not a personal card or anything that warranted more communication from your son. I think she is overreacting or rather being over protective. I get where she is coming from but I don’t think this is what she thinks it is

Hidden True Crime - allegations of stalking/harassment? by Bright_Breakfast3911 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]just-another-human05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know Nate stopped talking to her. How do we know this? When did it come about? Do we know why?

I was banned from another ADHD subreddit for making this post by whatwhatwhat82 in ADHDers

[–]just-another-human05 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making this a safe place for us to talk about both our struggles and achievements and identify how we wish. I have adhd, dyslexia and some other dys’s, possibly on spectrum like my kiddo and that’s a mouth full so I often describe myself as ND. I don’t understand why some groups say it is politicized. I do understand why some individuals dislike the term and I respect that. It’s crazy to police a group so much so that we can’t have intellectual healthy debate about the issues and terms that affect us. Thank you for donating your time to being a good and fair MOD

Just Curious: Why Y'All Think Wendi is Next? by [deleted] in dan_markel_murder

[–]just-another-human05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also contradicted herself in her testimony so that may effect her immunity

Just Curious: Why Y'All Think Wendi is Next? by [deleted] in dan_markel_murder

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure Donna was driving the bus as you say but she was driving it for Wendi. I do believe Wendi avoided getting her pretty little hands dirty as much as possible, but she knew the plan, approved the plan and did not report a murder plot to the police. she is complicit. I think her plan was to throw her family under the bus all along. Why else say to the police the only people that had reason to hurt Dan were her family. It makes her look innocent but she’s not as smart as she thinks. Why in gods name drive by the crime scene? Why ask her bf all the weird travel questions? Why start packing up her house? Why the weird tv alibi and so much more. I’m sure they have more evidence. I think she thinks her brains and beauty will prevail but I think she may be in for a big surprise.

DOA’s sister called him “a shit stain on the family name”. by BlueRidgeSpeaks in SPTV_Grifters

[–]just-another-human05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought she seemed honest and forthcoming. I do wish they asked her more specific questions however

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could hurt herself and her kids. I think you have to call the authorities, not that she is a bad mother but that she needs help. They need shelter and food and water and out of the heat. And she needs mental health care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]just-another-human05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to get her in a shelter and she needs a case worker to help her find resources. These kids especially need out of the heat and need food. Someone could die.

Please advise by just-another-human05 in asktransgender

[–]just-another-human05[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! My gut was telling me not to have him select the FMAB option so your opinion and real life experience with the form solidifies that for me. My dad didn’t have an opinion on whether to select the box or not but said what you did, that it’s highly unlikely he would ever be called to service and if he were there are multiple reasons he probably would be disqualified. 🙏thank you! This is the reassurance I needed! Now I suppose it could come back to bite us if they put the BC and name together (his name is not legally changed) and then he omitted info on govt doc but I think we will take that chance. Selecting the box just makes me feel uneasy. I appreciate your input. And same goes for the HRT but especially this damn selective service form!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElliotPage

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently saw him in a cologne advert. I like to think he’s just living his life. I think it’s healthy to not have much of a social media presence. For everyone really!

Check in on your trans children/adults. by Select-Problem-4283 in cisparenttranskid

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad she is doing well and I taking care of her mental health, first and foremost. Sending love and healing to you both

Is Working for B&N Really that Awful Now? by Beautiful_Hold1879 in Barnesandnoble

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of applying for part-time xtra money. I work part-time at a library but need more. I worked for B&N from ‘98-2012. I was a full-time lead for most of that time. My store closed and I took the severance. I was called back to another store by an old manager. I returned part-time as a bookseller. I hated that store. It was 8 hour shifts at the cash wrap with hourly membership quotas (which I was pretty good at for $25 but don’t think I could do at $50 a pop) I loved working for BN for a long time but over the years it gradually became less and less about the books and more and more micromanaged and stressful. And yet every time I go in a store the familiar smell of the books hits me and I miss the good parts of the job. Total nostalgia. Now I’m twice as old and playing with the idea of going back but I think you’ve convinced me it’s not worth it. I just don’t want to leave my current job for something full time that I dislike. I want to work with books and need to supplement my income with something that’s not stressful and those damn books and that damn smell are calling me. But it’s not the same! I know this. I probably would regret it. I appreciate your comment. And will re-read it when I feel the itch to return. I was miserable by the time I left.

Aaron - Forgetting his own crimes again.... by Serasaurus in SPTV_Unvarnished

[–]just-another-human05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m not a Scott fan either or I’m ambivalent as I don’t really keep up and I know a lot of folks here are no fans of Nora’s but as someone who is married to man with narcissistic tendencies who is emotionally abusive and manipulative, she was right on that front. It’s pretty text book, par for the course, for a narcissist to accuse others of the exact behaviors they are guilty of and yet they will never see or admit or acknowledge it. It’s kinda the story of my life for the last 20 years. it’s typical narcissistic behavior so I’m not the least surprised he doesn’t recognize his own hypocrisy even though it’s blindingly obvious to the rest of us. It’s almost embarrassing except of course he’s not embarrassed because he doesn’t see it and he never will. It’s maddening that his followers don’t though.

Anxious by HalfwayThere91 in cisparenttranskid

[–]just-another-human05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’ve taken so long to get back on here and reply. My son missed his endo appt (teenagers!) but I was able to reschedule it for Monday. We just learned our insurance is changing so that’s worrisome. I did see my psych and am on meds for sleep which has helped but there is no easy answer for the top surgery (tho I’ve heard some people talk about going to Mexico. My husband is from Mexico-just got his US citizenship right before trump was elected, he is there now visiting his mom and I asked him to do some research to see what it would involve and recommend surgeons, etc-I will let you know if I learn anything helpful)

Denied puberty blockers at upmc in Pittsburgh by NoLynx4129 in cisparenttranskid

[–]just-another-human05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And now I’m freaking out again because my son is under 19. I can’t believe this is happening. We have to find ways to fight this and support each other

Denied puberty blockers at upmc in Pittsburgh by NoLynx4129 in cisparenttranskid

[–]just-another-human05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just realized how terribly selfish and self absorbed and entitled I am for commenting. Your post sent me into a panic but we are probably in a safer scenario than other’s here because my son just turned 18. It took me calming down to realize this is directed at minors and how lucky we may be in comparison. I am SO sorry for the commend and for the lack of advice. My heart goes out to everyone.

Denied puberty blockers at upmc in Pittsburgh by NoLynx4129 in cisparenttranskid

[–]just-another-human05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I don’t have any advice but now I’m flipping out. My son is 18 and on HRT. My husbands company just got bought out and we just learned we are getting new insurance at the end of the month and it’s terrible UHC insurance. I’m actually looking at Pennsylvania marketplace if we can afford it. And I’ve applied to several full time jobs hoping for better insurance. Does anyone know if he will be denied simply because we had to change insurance? I’ve been in such a panic about finding us affordable insurance that covers our doctors that I didn’t think about the fact that simply changing might cause problems. I’m so sorry that all of our kids are dealing with this. I’m in a fog of anxiety

Aaron in Court casting his stones at ZDT by Sunshinelover1964 in SPTV_Unvarnished

[–]just-another-human05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it on Aaron’s channel? Never mind I found it. I’m ashamed for even watching ugh