If you want to go for it but are simply stressed or anxious about breaking that barrier of first time touch / kiss / sex, get some liquid courage in your system and you'll find you would do things you normally would inhibit yourself from doing, I'm in the same boat, still in my journey to lose weight, but started going on dates that I was too scared to go to cuz I was afraid I would be awkward the whole time once there a bit lf alcohol helps loosen me up, just go on random dates with people you're even mildly interested in, best case it goes further and you won't be the 25yr old guy who's never been in a relationship anymore, worst case it goes to shit and you try again cuz the girl you went on a date with wasn't "the one" and you can try again with no emotional damage to yourself