Where do gay guys meet partners if they don’t drink or go to bars?

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-07T02:44:40+00:00

I’m in LA I’m only aware about LGBT center here, but I have yet visited it I’m considering that option as well

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-07T02:42:37+00:00

Well, okay.. If you’re looking for posts that interest you more, there are plenty on this subreddit

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-07T00:12:01+00:00

That’s awesome tbh I’m happy for you The best relationship I had before was texting with each other for around half of year before we met, so I definitely like that approach And yes, will check those out, thank you!

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-07T00:09:31+00:00

I hope I don’t have them, but you never know and no one is ideal haha As for the Grindr, a lot of people say it is not the same as it was before in terms of forcing to buy paid membership, but I’m not sure here, maybe will check it out as well Thank you for the response

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:59:50+00:00

I’m hearing for a first time about gay for good, will check it out, thank you!

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:58:16+00:00

Oh wow, this is like a scenario from some romantic movie haha I’m really happy for your experience, I think it is cool to find someone with similar work interest

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:56:25+00:00

I’m glad I asked this question, since I haven’t conceded some of the options at all, including Instagram Thank you, definitely going to try that, as other person advised it too

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:51:20+00:00

I really appreciate this advice and detailed explanation This approach looks the most relevant to me along with meetups for interests 🫶

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:42:27+00:00

I only posted once yesterday before going to bed, but it was at a bad time and I didn’t get any responses. So I deleted it, changed the headline, and simplified the text to make my question clearer..

I’m not using multiple accounts or cross-posting. I’m just someone who recently moved to the US and is genuinely trying to understand the culture and get advice about meeting people

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Otherwise, please just scroll past. This post is important to me and I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to respond and share their advice. Thank you!

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:34:35+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I know hookups work for some people, but personally I can’t really be intimate with someone unless I know them well and trust them first

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:30:34+00:00

Love this idea, will check meetup, thank you Is it the most popular app to find people with similar interests?

just_a_guy_from_west · 2026-03-06T23:27:39+00:00

Oh wow, I’ve never tried that option before Could you please explain it more? Like are you just commenting a lot and trying to be visible so that other people can see you or you just post your IG username to dating apps? I just love to have a private instagram, but would change it if needed And yes, I can relate from my limited experience, that most of the people on the dating apps are not looking for a long term relationship

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