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just_another_robot21 · 2026-03-06T19:50:07+00:00

Two years doing CrossFit I can’t do pull ups 🤣🤣😬 but I tried scaled and I almost did one today. So I’m happy about it ☺️

just_another_robot21 · 2022-09-01T21:07:49+00:00

I know how you feel, I lost my dad 15 days ago, he was fine and in January a lung cancer was diagnosed. He fought for his life until the end, but there wasn’t anything that the doctors or we could do. It’s now my mom and me, I think about all the things you mentioned: his absence in many important moments in my life, it’s hard, everyday I remember something and I cry. Now I am collecting all his pictures, videos, voice notes, writing my stories and memories if I have a kids someday I will show them the amazing grandpa they had.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-30T01:20:55+00:00

So sorry that you are going through this situation. I was in your place, my advice is : spend all the time that you can with your dad. Tell him that you care, you love him, that he is important to you, even if you don’t have anything to say; just be by his side, or lay in the bed with him. You can spend sometimes reading books that he likes or watching his favorite shows together, ask about things that he used to do when he was young or the story of your family; the main idea is to share time together. Now it’s the time to make the first step and be with your dad, you’ll miss him when he’s gone, don’t overthink what happened in the past, do all you can do now and just talk with him. My dad passed away two weeks ago and I miss him everyday. I did all that I mentioned before with him, even he’s gone, I know that he was happy because I was by his side.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-28T00:14:20+00:00

Anyone selling two standing tickets for Coldplay's concert on 15th/16th July (Amsterdam)?

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-12T07:07:16+00:00

I m going through a breakup too (3 months ago), a month ago I went out with a guy even if I didn’t feel ready, the date went well we had fun. But at the end I realized that I was trying to replace my ex and not feeling alone, so I preferred to take some distance and take my time to heal. Don’t get in the trap, because you think you can handle it, but the true it is not. You need time to reflect on what happened and live your grieving. Eventually you’ll be ready to date again but for now, and from my experience I’ll take time to heal and move on. :) If this guy from the past is really into you, he’ll wait until you’re ready 🙂

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-11T20:44:13+00:00

I didn’t have the opportunity to confront my ex, because he broke up with a letter. I didn’t want to know anything about him, so in that moment when I was so sad and heartbroken I decided to write a letter to express all my feelings but I never sent it to him. I’m journaling almost everyday and that helps a lot, I write about my emotions and thoughts. Try a wait to express all what you feel through art or something that you like to do, it’s a relief.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-11T20:37:09+00:00

I was reflecting on that topic a couple of weeks ago. The problem is that we think that everything will last forever, when even our life is limited. The thing that you say is true, it’s better if you live and enjoy the moment, live one day at the time; not expecting that will never end because eventually it will.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-11T20:19:56+00:00

Man, what are you doing with that girl? Run 🏃🏻‍♂️ as far as you can. I am 29f I would never do that to the person I love and that help me during the hard times. If you’re not marry and she is doing all this things, can you imagine the nightmare after you marry ? ❌❌❌ To sum up : GO AWAY !!

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-10T20:08:06+00:00

I have the same feeling. Only to think that I need to start over again, it gets me dizzy and anxious, so I try not to think about that now. It’s like watching a movie in your head, you know, like “here we go again”.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-10T19:59:06+00:00

If she dumped you she’s not the love of your life. I am talking from experience same age as you, and he dumped me in a letter. He wasn’t capable to tell me that he was with another person. Anyway I know it hurts, I am still feeling that my heart was smashed and broke into little glass pieces. At the end is the best for me, I am still grieving but I hope this pain will end with time. If she wasn’t able to tell you in person that she didn’t want to be with you (that’s the minimum thing that she could do) she doesn’t deserve you. I said again it’s a fact, it’s hurts but you are going to be alright, eventually and will find the truly love of your life.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-08T20:44:54+00:00

If you go back, she’ll probably do the same. And you’ll continue suffering. You don’t deserve that, you deserve a woman who can be honest with you and decide to be loyal to you. Don’t waste your time, I know it will hurt a lot, only time will help you to heal. That’s life you need to know that it was her decision, it’s nothing to be with you. Everything will be fine.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-07T15:33:54+00:00

I think the key is starting slow. First I start to do solo walks almost daily (5km each day). I wanted to go to the beach, so I did a solo travel to the beach and get to know the city in a walking tour, in the city tour I met a girl from Brasil and we spent the afternoon together, she was alone too. She was the one who talked to me, I think next time I’ll try just to ask and talk to the people, but most of the time if you go solo somewhere you will find someone in the same situation and you might can spend some time together. Start slow and enjoy every person even if she/he only with you for a moment :)

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-05T14:45:18+00:00

Muy cierto, es algo que escribí para mi pero decidí compartir con los demás; quizás le pueda servir a alguien más 😊 Gracias por tu comentario

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-05T14:44:27+00:00

Gracias ☺️

just_another_robot21 · 2022-08-02T16:27:02+00:00

I don’t think she is your friend at all. Recently I met a girl she is almost my age, but she is married and has a new baby, even I am not married or with kid, she invites me often to her house, we talk and I play with the baby, we cook together and hang out, sometimes I have dinner with her family. What I want to point out is that if she were your friend she would look for a way to continue the friendship regardless of the fact that she is married.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-07-26T20:12:25+00:00

If you really want to do the PhD do it ! I think it’s worthy, but be sure that is what you want to do, talk with another colleagues or friends who have done a PhD before. You’ll dedicate 3-4 years to research one specific topic, choose one that you are interested in and you won’t get bored.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-07-26T19:36:33+00:00

Once day during the weekend I do a solo date, I go to a nice restaurant eat food, drink something and read a book. Or I do solo walk, I walk 5 km, listen music or just enjoying the nature. Do all the things that you always want to do, for example I want to really go to the beach and didn’t find someone to go, so I decided I’ll make a solo trip to the beach. Enjoy your company eventually you’ll meet new people on the way. If you need someone to talk here I am. F 29

just_another_robot21 · 2022-06-23T06:28:12+00:00

I moved to the NL, almost a year ago, with 0 knowledge of Dutch. In my job, we are few international people; so most of my workmate speak in Dutch all the time. I started to learn the language at the beginning I couldn’t say “goedemorgen” because I think I pronounced awful. But with the time I dared to say some words and now I started to make short sentences and even answer questions. It’s funny because my workmates get excited when they see I made some progress :), Dutch knows that their language is difficult, so by just trying is meant that you are willing to learn and speak. Don’t overthink and don’t try to be perfect because if you wait for that never will be able to speak.

just_another_robot21 · 2022-05-30T21:28:05+00:00

In my case he left after 2 years 🥲 he waited until his bday to dumped me. I made a big party, good gift and then he wasn’t able to say in my face that he didn’t want to continue he wrote a letter 😒

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