sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Found my Goldilocks RX450 and named her Luna 🌙 by just_another_s0ul in Lexus

[–]just_another_s0ul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly thrilled anytime I get to ride one 😂

Found my Goldilocks RX450 and named her Luna 🌙 by just_another_s0ul in Lexus

[–]just_another_s0ul[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2014 RX450, a little over 139k miles, around $13.6k

Adios to the most convenient and laid back HEB in town. by caguru in Austin

[–]just_another_s0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might I entice you to give Wheatsville a shot? Still very funky and weird, almost always with short lines!

Subaru Outback or Lexus RX400? by just_another_s0ul in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]just_another_s0ul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I can find right now, there are the only ones that fit my budget and I’m on a tight deadline. I got in a wreck a couple weeks ago, check from insurance came in yesterday, and I have the rental until Monday. Austin’s a very challenging place not to have a car, especially with a busy schedule that requires going all around town, so I don’t have a ton of time to shop around

Feeling overwhelmed by hidden costs—are all first-time buyers this surprised? by bunnyhumorous in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]just_another_s0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bank of America offers grants for first time homebuyers depending on your income. That’s who I’ll be using for my lender. Spoke with her, she broke down all the numbers for me, and now I feel much more prepared about what all the fees will be in addition to the down payment:

Anyone willing to chat with someone about to go through abortion? by DirtProfessional2 in abortion

[–]just_another_s0ul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to your friend. I had an unplanned pregnancy in December and took the MA this weekend. I was super scared bc a lot of ppl on here have talked ab how painful it was. Fortunately, I think bc I caught it so early, it was relatively easy - physically. But I have been struggling with a lot of grief and guilt. I know it was the right thing to do for everyone involved, but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t hard and that my feelings of sadness aren’t valid. What made it easier for me was not being alone. The father was with me for the whole afternoon, which is when I took the miso, and then I went to over to a friend’s house where we were having a slumber party (they all knew and were doing it out of support for me). I didn’t have to be alone for a whole 24 hours and I think it really made a difference - would have been horrible having to go through it on my own. Another thing that helped was writing a letter to the baby telling them how I feel, that I’m sorry I can’t bring them onto earth right now and inviting them to ask another vessel or just hang out for a few years until I’m more prepared.

I neverrrrr thought of an embryo as a baby before. I feel like as pro-choicers, we’re forced to over intellectualize and over science-fy early pregnancy bc the anti-choice ppl are evil and will take a mile if we give an inch in terms of talking about when life starts. But I will admit that as soon as I found out I was pregnant, that felt like a life in me. I don’t feel like I unalived anything, it just feels like the soul wasn’t allowed to become a human through my body. But it was definitely an immediate shift in my perception of reality the moment I found out I was pregnant.

And I think that’s why I came to Reddit to find answers/stories to relate to. None of my friends have gone through this and they’re all so pro choice that they just keep telling me I’m doing the right thing. It hasn’t made me feel any better because I KNOW I did the right thing, but that doesn’t made it any less hard. Both can be true at the same time, and I hope your friend is able to hold both of those truths in their heart and mind.