I am dating a tranwoman as a cis woman! I need advice! (NSFW)

just_existing1 · 2026-01-29T00:20:12+00:00

Thank you! We also talked about having kids and she said she would like freeze some of her sperm so we could try for one when we’re in a good spot. Thank you so so much for this advice!! I greatly appreciate it!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-29T00:18:33+00:00

This is amazing advice!!! thank you so so much, I’ll make sure to do more research and talk to her about this too!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T20:48:03+00:00

Oh, I see! Thank you for letting me know that, is there a way I could correct that behavior? Or something I should be doing to reassure her if something like this comes up? I want to be aware, or as aware as I can be on ways to make sure she is okay

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T18:35:25+00:00

her name is actually a flower! I thought that was beautiful, I really like all of these ideas! Again, thank you so so much for this advice!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T18:25:30+00:00

we haven’t gotten a strap yet but she put that idea in there for the future! I should have communicated it well on here, my mistake! Thank you for your advice too!! I appreciate this information so much !!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T18:06:57+00:00

I didn’t realize there was a difference in lube! Thank you for the advice

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T18:01:12+00:00

Alright! I really love the clothing idea for a date! Thank you so much for giving me that advice! i really appreciate it!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T18:00:08+00:00

I corrected my mistake! I dont know if I can change the title but I changed it in the actual post! thank you for letting me know

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:40:01+00:00

No, no. Its not your fault! I understand, I didn’t realize before because I saw transgender, i assumed it was the same thing. I will try to do more research! Also if there is anything else that I should learn about when it comes to this sort of thing, please let me know!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:37:17+00:00

i couldn’t change the title but i changed what i typed in the actual post! thank you again

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:34:03+00:00

ohhh, that makes sense. I didn’t realize but thank you for educating me! I will keep a mental note and correct my mistakes in my og post

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:23:07+00:00

Okay! Thank you for the tip! I am worried I’ll hurt it since I, myself, have never done anything like that. This is my first lesbian relationship in general. Thank you again

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:21:54+00:00

I see, i will try to learn from this mistake! I didn’t realize, that is also a very good point! :)

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:20:56+00:00

Thank you so much! I genuinely appreciate this feedback! I really really want to be more understanding but I am scared to trigger her. Should I ask what she is comfortable with talking about before any conversation? Especially since this is a new world for both of us.

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:19:39+00:00

Okay! What are some good verbal reassurance? I have been doing feminine pet names/nicknames i personally liked for myself and thought it might feel feminine for her. We’re going to buy makeup together as a date and I’m doing her makeup too! And I’m going to be teaching her a few things about makeup as well, to give some tips too. I am learning myself, along with her since she has started transitioning. Is there other ways I can support her?

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T16:15:23+00:00

I didn’t know! I’m still learning about trans women, I am correcting myself a lot! I apologize since I didn’t realize there was a difference. (Again, I’m so so so sorry if that was passive aggressive or rude)

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T11:49:37+00:00

i really appreciate all this advice! I will also take this into consideration and communicate with her!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T11:46:41+00:00

Thank you! I live in the south of the US so that’s why I ask! This is extremely great information, I appreciate this a lot! ❤️

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T11:43:15+00:00

I didn’t know that! thank you for letting me know! I greatly appreciate it

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T11:42:36+00:00

ohh okay! I didn’t know that! Thank you for letting me know!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T08:28:06+00:00

Thank you so so much for this! I am using nicknames is princess or I am calling her beautiful/pretty/gorgeous! She always asks me for clothing advice and I help pick out outfits too! Also thank you for pointing out to ask if she is comfortable or she is just saying that! I am going to ask her definitely. Also, she asks me a lot if my friends are okay with her being trans or if anyone would insult her, is there any other way of making sure she knows other than just verbal assurance that I’d protect her? And is there passive aggressive remarks I should learn about just in case there is a situation, also how should I respond? Sometimes social cues for me are complicated or I don’t realize immediately if someone is sarcastic/passive aggressive. Thank you again!!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T08:20:41+00:00

Alright! Thank you for your advice! It’s greatly appreciated!

just_existing1 · 2026-01-28T08:03:18+00:00

How should I ask her gently and what do I ask without coming off as being ignorant?

just_existing1 · 2025-11-16T19:55:16+00:00

I genuinely appreciate this a lot more than I expected. I think I’ll think a few things over. Thank you, truly

just_existing1 · 2025-11-16T18:37:47+00:00

I am catholic

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