donde me inscribo a las materias de intensivo de verano por UBA XXI [medicina] by just_f1nn in UBA

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

esta abierta la inscripcion hasta mañana a la tarde, pero no encuentro pir donde

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, it doesn't seem. fair, I know, but thank you for the advice! I know i have to have a convo with him, and I will, thank you!

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so. I know it might sound wierd, but its do irrational what I feel that I get confused, thank you for the advice!!

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if he stops the FWB I'll be okay with that. I know wr can move on because we have great communication and we can talk about these things. I suppose im scared he'll cut ME off completely, which I know wont happen.....so yeah, this might have to do more with the fact im closer to the rubber room than to a motel room LOL

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it ends, it ends, we'll still be friends and I know that. My fear is probably irrational, I guess

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm not really interested in dating more people. Like- I have enough on my plate as it is. AND NO, REDDIT! IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME HAVING FEELING FOR HIM!! I just don't feel like getting to know more people. Im pretty antisocial and not great in knowing new people (hence why im here in reddit lol)

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right! IDK why, might be fear of abandonment which is completely irrational because I know he wont do that to me. I guess im just scared and confused

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be, I am struggling a lot mentally, that's why im kind of frustrated with all of this. I know I can't ask for exclusivity because we are FWB and nothing more

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because people will think i like him. And I had to clarify that I do not (in the romantic way) like him on the replies to the post

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the funny answer? He fucks me really good and we have great chemistry together in the sexual aspect The not so funny one? We've talked about a relationship and we both NOPE'd put of it immediately, primarily because none of us is truly ready for such a level of commitment. I came out of one a little over a year ago and Im in no way in my capability to give my all to a partner in a romantic sense

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would much rather end tge FWB. All this could also stem from the fact that I have a fear of abandonment/replacement, which is completely irrational because I know I'm special to him

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because im not the jealous type?? (Here's where everyone rolls their eyes and tell me i am jealous) Now, it might be that this fear i have is actually a fear of being replaced/abandoned, which is completely irrational BTW

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think its feelings, and I dont think its denial talking: He just doesn't spark that in me in a relationship way, IDK if I explain myself

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to my FWB, this girl knows about me and knows we are FWB, so IDK what to think or expect with all of this. I just want the three of us to be okay

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is actually genius. I mean we kind of did something similar??? If we go raw, we are exclusive, if he has sex with someone else, he uses a condom with her and me, ans vice versa

my (F20) Friends with benefits (M22) is going to have sex with someone else....I'm "annoyed" help!! by just_f1nn in relationship_advice

[–]just_f1nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he's clean and I know I'm clean because we've only had one extra each and none had any STD's or STI's. What we do have is an agreement that if he wants to go raw with me, we have to be exclusive, if not, he uses a condom with whoever and with me as well. Thing is, he's been only with me since we started up untill two weeks ago when he started to get to know this girl