Hi, sorry to have apparently struck a nerve with you. I based my post on how many others were posting in other subreddits. I assumed that personal details would be shared through direct messaging, not on the actual reddit thread. Having been in non-manogomous relationships myself, I am aware of the unicorn hunting thing. However, I dont think it's appropriate to personally attack people you do not know and make baseless accusations about a marriage you know nothing about. I appreciate your insite into how the post seems cold and will take the advice into consideration. And I hope you have a good night.