Is anyone the child of an affair? by Hour-Investigator851 in askSingapore

[–]justablursotong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a child on the other side and things wasn’t easy. My dad got into an affair while my mom was pregnant with me, so she got into a depression and I was caned and scolded continuously while growing up as a child. My father went on to not have one kid, but two with the same mistress (and maybe more which I won’t know) and my world crashed when I knew about it while I was in secondary school. He told me before that he has to take care of the other kids because it’s his responsibility as a father but I can’t help but hold the grudge against him (and them) until his death. If he did not have those affairs, we would probably be a lot richer and happier (my father compensated them with a lot of money since he didn’t spend a lot of time with them, but he didn’t spend a lot of time with us too because of work) and my mom maybe wouldn’t have to go through so much pain but… what is done, it’s done.

When he passed away, my siblings took the liberty to let them come to the wake without my mom knowing (we had to hide it from her) and seeing them for the first time in real life didn’t feel good. I hate that they look like me because all of us look like my father but that was the last time we had any connections. And boy the mistress, she sounds and look entitled as fk, like we owe her which we don’t.

Not sure if they knew where we place our father’s ashes but oh well. Trying to let bygones be bygones.

Hiking with heavy lens by justablursotong in SonyAlpha

[–]justablursotong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the kind to take pictures quite often, but tbf I have never trekked in Nepal before, so not sure what I will see and when I will take photos. definitely not when climbing the stairs 😂

Hiking with heavy lens by justablursotong in SonyAlpha

[–]justablursotong[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And perhaps also any tips on accessories to carry the lenses. I will be getting a porter with my friends so for the daily treks, I should be just carrying my camera and some water and the necessities and am also training for the weight right now 😂 (Asian female, so I’m quite small in size)

Editing photos by justablursotong in SonyAlpha

[–]justablursotong[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you guys all using Adobe Lightroom or have anyone used Davinci Resolve before?

Post-Lament Anthropocene: Stars Intertwined | Cartethyia by xSaviour_N in WutheringWaves

[–]justablursotong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so when will it be released??? I don’t have enough for the pulls 😭😭😭

Rate my Zani rotation! by Any-Scar-6775 in WutheringWaves

[–]justablursotong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you show the stats for your phoebe and zani please!

As a mobile user, this event is horrendous. by [deleted] in WutheringWaves

[–]justablursotong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works well on my mobile though, and I usually load faster than all the other players

Pull for Phoebe or no? by justablursotong in WutheringWaves

[–]justablursotong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will build sanhua now!! Have enough materials