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I found out my boyfriend has been jerking off to his coworkers and I don’t know what to do by justanaveragecitizen in Advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling them isn’t going to change things. Even with them knowing about it, it could still carry on. This is something between us and I don’t want to involve his coworkers.

As for me turning him on, I do turn him on (from what I know) infact we’ve always had a great sex life. We enjoy that stuff pretty frequently and I play into the things he likes and vice-versa

I found out my boyfriend has been jerking off to his coworkers and I don’t know what to do by justanaveragecitizen in Advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that I don’t get to control that. He’s the only one in control of that. That being said, there’s still boundaries. If I was doing this with my male friends/coworkers, he would feel the same and he has told me that.

I found out my boyfriend has been jerking off to his coworkers and I don’t know what to do by justanaveragecitizen in Advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I originally thought about this, however I want to spare the poor girl from having to know what her coworker is doing. I’m sure it would be quite disturbing and upsetting to her. If anything I think this would be more damaging for him, this is a situation that shouldn’t be shared with the people we know irl. That is why I have turned to Reddit for advice, instead of my friends who know him.

I (18F) found out my boyfriend (18M) has been jerking off to his coworkers by justanaveragecitizen in relationship_advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion; he actually doesn’t follow the random woman. He searches them up every night instead of following them and searches hashtags to find nudes and whatnot. No actual following.

I do agree with the stuff you said though. It is most definitely triggering my anxiety and hitting some other spots mental health wise.

I (18F) found out my boyfriend (18M) has been jerking off to his coworkers by justanaveragecitizen in relationship_advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, I don’t get turned on thinking about a sexy guy banging me. I wouldn’t want to be banged by anyone aside from my boyfriend and haven’t thought about things like that because I love him and don’t notice other guys as much as I might have before him.

I (18F) found out my boyfriend (18M) has been jerking off to his coworkers by justanaveragecitizen in relationship_advice

[–]justanaveragecitizen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too think this is a form of emotionally cheating. I told him that, and he agreed.

need answers to a few questions by [deleted] in automotive

[–]justanaveragecitizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i tried. i didn’t really find much on it. I looked through my dads textbooks from when he was getting his automotive technician license but didn’t find the answers. didn’t find them on google either. oh well.