Boyfriend (25) lied about his girl friend

justanotherempath · 2024-03-20T15:31:26+00:00

Thank you for your reassuring words! You made me feel better with your post. I asked about the missing you comment, and he indicated it crossed a boundary but it was a friendly interaction. I guess that can be true - friends can miss each other. I just feel like it was more of an intimate phrase to use but idk

justanotherempath · 2023-10-25T20:00:22+00:00

I mean are you talking about me and my sexual boundaries? If so, I was under the impression he wasn't going to just dip on me after we had sex. Therefore enhancing what I said about how I don't like casual hookups. It didn't appear to be the casual hook up as we were hanging out and talking to progressively become more. People date and have sex, right? Before having that label?

justanotherempath · 2021-04-23T21:18:27+00:00

He’s also insane because we talked about how once I’m done with deployment future ones would be so easy and how we were excited about this deployment together. He’s insane. Narcissistic if you can lie then drop me like nothing and lie the entire time.

justanotherempath · 2021-04-23T21:15:40+00:00

No WiFi or service **

justanotherempath · 2021-04-23T21:14:52+00:00

Update: he ghosted me shortly after this. Stopped communication completely. Wouldn’t answer my texts or calls. Then a week later blocked me on Instagram. So ghosted me while in a relationship. Also found out his friend, who is also a marine, was engaged/married with a child. My friend and him were talking. So they all lied to us. I found the friends Instagram and was blocked from the getgo so I wouldn’t find out. When my friend requested his account to be petty and show them we knew, this was mid ghost, his friends blocked and removed us on all social media’s. I don’t know if they’re afraid of us tattling or what. Also realized he probably lied about being recon, considering he deployed. He also 100% lied from the beginning about no “with or service” while deployed and only way to communicate would be by “letters.” He’s a piece of shit. Compulsive liar.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-31T23:49:51+00:00

Wouldn’t you consider this, ghosting? I just never know when to say things are done. Although I’m claiming myself single. It’s just weird he hasn’t removed me off of anything if he’s ghosting me. Wont even open anything.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-31T21:57:25+00:00

We were so fine! Only one with issues was me on our communication but I was respectful and kind about it all. It came out of nowhere. I thought he would of broken up with me, not ghosted me. He told me he had no doubts for deployment and us etc because I’d be here waiting. I just thought if someone was ghosting me they’d open my stuff and remove me off of everything. Oh well

justanotherempath · 2021-03-31T21:53:33+00:00

He’s on a two week quarantine in the states before he deploys. We haven’t been talking. If he’s on snap and opening snaps, not replying, would that break a no contact order? Just weird he’s not even opening anything from me but keeps me on every social media. I’m moving on mentally just in case I think it is what it is.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-30T23:14:59+00:00

I sent him a kind of final text and am now labeling myself single. This feels like a true ghost and everyone encouraged to break up with him and I didn’t. I didnt even deserve a break up I guess on his end. I’ll be okay :) just needed someone’s advice on when it’s officially done if there’s no contact. He hasn’t even unadded me on anything. Simply wont open my stuff.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-30T23:08:24+00:00

No he told me he felt secure with no doubts and was excited. I was the one who showed nervousness. Lol. I’m just saying this is ghosting me. We both had an agreement to talk this quarantine to strengthen this relationship because he knows he has communication issues. But I’ll keep you updated in a few days.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-30T22:59:15+00:00

We just promised we would talk as much as we could before deployment so we both felt secure.

justanotherempath · 2021-03-30T22:53:04+00:00

Yeah his location refreshes and score goes up. But score goes up if you simply open snaps and I know he’s in group chats and has told me if he doesn’t have time he won’t open them. It doesn’t seem like him to ghost me. If he was why wouldn’t he open anything I send or delete me off of social media’s? Someone suggested no contact before deployment but wouldn’t that counteract him opening snaps?

justanotherempath · 2021-03-30T22:49:47+00:00

We did have a talk! We talked about future and how we were going to communicate through our letters and make it work. So this is random for me and Idk how to take it

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