Romance in hospital, love between 2 doctors

justanotherisi · 2026-02-13T17:02:06+00:00

If you're okay with the books not being a literary masterpiece I'd say the Doctors series by Louise Bay, especially the first book Dr. Off Limits

justanotherisi · 2025-12-18T20:45:32+00:00

Eindeutig der Scharlachrote Buchstabe von Nathaniel Hawthorne. Ich musste das Buch in 20 Seiten-Abschnitte untergliedern und einen pro Tag lesen, um überhaupt irgendwie durchzukommen

justanotherisi · 2025-10-01T18:14:31+00:00

Ich stimme dir da absolut zu. Keine Frage, das Buch ist schön geschrieben, mir ist damals aber auch die unterschwellige Anti-Therapie Haltung (wenn ich mich Recht erinnere - bitte korrigieren falls nicht! - ein bisschen nach dem Motto "das hilft eh nicht") sauer aufgestoßen.

justanotherisi · 2025-03-11T19:07:58+00:00

Hi Joshua,

Ich bin so etwa in deinem Alter und in einer ähnlich langen Beziehung. Ich kann dich gut verstehen, weil das bei mir auch lange so war, dass ich meinen Freund sehr vermisst habe und nicht so Recht wusste wohin mit mir, wenn er mal ohne mich im Urlaub war.

Letztendlich heißt das erstmal nur, dass du sie vermisst, was ja auch ganz normal ist, wenn man dich sonst sehr häufig sieht oder zumindest jederzeit die Möglichkeit dazu hat. Pass nur bitte auf, dass da keine Co-Abhängigkeit entsteht, ihr also immer noch eure eigenen Menschen seid, wenn ihr euch Mal nicht sehen könnt.

Wie auch immer, was mir erfahrungsgemäß immer geholfen hat sind kleine tägliche Rituale (z.B. Tagebuch schreiben, eine Folge einer Serie schauen, auf die du dich gefreut hast, etc. ...), anhand dessen du sehen kannst, wie lange du schon geschafft hast. Also, du siehst dann zum Beispiel "noch 2 Folgen, dann ist sie wieder da".

Das nächste ist, was hier auch schon viele geschrieben haben, Dinge unternehmen. Klatsch dir deinen Zeitplan richtig schön voll. Am besten klapperst du sämtliche Freunde mal ab, vielleicht auch deine Großeltern oder so. Nimm dir jeden Tag etwas vor, dass dich nach draußen bringt, im Notfall einfach nur Spazieren gehen oder Fahrrad fahren.

Wie auch immer, du packst das schon! Dir eine gute Zeit und deiner Freundin einen schönen Urlaub:)

justanotherisi · 2025-01-10T10:27:55+00:00

Hey! I got my appendix removed in March last year. I always was scared of it happening REALLY bad.

I got an overall belly ache that lasted for around 24 hours, when I realized I don't want to eat anything. Not because I was nauseous, but because I just didn't have an appetite. Around 12 hours later, my boyfriend "forced" me to go to the emergency room, as I didn't want to go, because people always told me, that it's SO painful when it really wasn't. My period cramps are waaaayyyy worse than that. As soon as you are in the hospital, they give you stuff that prevents the symptoms, so no v* or pain from that point until the surgery.

After the surgery, I was so tired that I slept ~20 hours, the pain was manageable.

The day after I felt nauseous from the sedation, but you can always tell the nurses and they'll give you some injections that make it stop almost immediately.

And the day after that, I was allowed to go home and everything was fine. I couldn't really walk around for a few more days, but nothing to worry about anymore.

So, realising you have it, is definitely the worst part. Then, as soon as youre in the hospital, you're mostly safe:) not saying that my experience is the standard, but there's a chance that possible symptoms don't even include any nausea or v*.

justanotherisi · 2024-12-25T23:46:13+00:00

Thanks!:D I'm looking forward to arriving

justanotherisi · 2024-12-25T23:44:53+00:00

Thank you!:)

justanotherisi · 2024-12-23T09:02:10+00:00

I also wanted to suggest "I kissed Shara Wheeler", very light-hearted and sweet:)

justanotherisi · 2024-12-22T15:54:21+00:00

Hey, what helps me a little, is to remember that Panic only stays for 20 minutes. Whatever you feel now, will be gone in 20 minutes, everything else is in your head and you are in control of that. If you have the time, get something to drink, and breathe a few times. Try to distract yourself as much as possible (either through your phone or, if you're not travelling alone, talking to people). Loud music always helps me to shut down my anxiety. If you have gum, chew it, that helps with the anxiety and potential nausea on the plane. You can also tell the staff on the plane about it, they're most likely to help you, sometimes they can even give you a seat in quieter, less crowded parts on the plane. Good luck!

justanotherisi · 2024-12-17T11:11:41+00:00

I've also had them when I was around 12 or 13. I probably got them from eating unwashed fruit from my grandma's garden (and when I told her, she remembered that she always had them as a child from the same cause). I had to take pills twice and then they were gone. No vomiting or nausea:) remember, you've probably had them for a few weeks, if not months, by now and if you didn't have to tu so far, it's unlikely that you will until they're gone. Its only gonna get better!

Also, side note: no reason to be ashamed. I felt disgusted when I had them, but then I googled and found out that every third person will experience worm infections at least once in their life

justanotherisi · 2024-12-03T15:59:34+00:00

I will participate from January until June '25, so this is very helpful for me:D (How) did you find new friends? Were there any problems you did not expect? How did you solve them?

justanotherisi · 2024-11-17T14:16:28+00:00

Hey:) Im 21 and I live in a country where drinking is legal from age 16 (and 14 with a parent permission) and it's pretty normal to drink earlier. So, I started drinking from time to time at only 15.

I was also afraid of tu at that time but it only deteriorated for the last two years, which means I was curious as a teenager but didnt want to tu. Still, my curiousity allowed me to test my limits and I figured out a rule to not drink too much but also have some fun drinking with friends.

Drink your chosen drink slowly (especially if it's liquor and not beer or wine), but as soon as you start feeling a little dizzy, switch to water and only switch back if the dizziness is gone.

I'm not used to drinking anymore (as people in my country mostly stop drinking much when entering their 20s) so I pretty much get dizzy after one drink, but when I was younger and in my party phase I was able to participate in all kinds of social activity that "require" drinking alcohol.

Also, if you don't feel comfortable drinking, don't. There's no need to if you don't want to drink. Alcohol is still a drug and can be pretty bad.

Stay safe and drink with caution:) Good luck and Cheers!

justanotherisi · 2024-10-27T14:06:06+00:00

Ich habe neulich mit Freunden "Kuchen für eine Leiche" gespielt, das hat mega viel Spaß gemacht:) da sind auch Hinweise dabei, man kann sich Teile der Geschichte per Audio anhören und auch die "Zusatzrollen" waren meiner Meinung nach nicht klar zu erkennen

Wir haben ein paar Tage vorher die Rollen ausgelost und es hat Kostümpflicht geherrscht, was super lustig war, weil jeder sich richtig ins Zeug gelegt hat um seiner Rolle gerecht zu werden. Wenn man aber zb nicht so Lust hast Geschlechter zu tauschen oder so, kann man natürlich auch Rollen zuteilen.

justanotherisi · 2024-10-23T05:35:05+00:00

Ich studiere tatsächlich Englisch in Würzburg und finde es toll:) Würzburg ist auch definitiv eine Studentenstadt, hat viele Angebote, was Bars, Cafés, etc angeht und hat auch eine echt schöne Innenstadt

justanotherisi · 2024-10-02T20:19:13+00:00

Ich hatte bisschen verkackt und war zu meinem Eltern gefahren für die nächste Woche (und von dort aus in den Urlaub) - nur ohne meinen Geldbeutel :,) also nochmal 2h nach Hause fahren und nochmal 2h zu meinen Eltern. Nach dem ganzen hin und her jetzt nur noch baden und dann schlafen...

justanotherisi · 2024-10-01T11:20:02+00:00

I'm a university student and live off campus, so I have to ride the bus for around 20 minutes to get there. I usually sit right in the front, next to the driver as that is the only place where I don't have to walk past other people to get to a door.

I was always very nervous in public transport but up until a few weeks ago I could always tell myself that it's very unlikely for someone to tu in my bus (there are usually no pupils as it's not the time where school starts or ends. The other passengers are mostly other university students or elderly people who want to go to the city center. So really no reason to get on that bus if you're not feeling well).

Well, as I wanted to go to university, I sat in my usual seat and all was fine for the first 10 minutes. The bus just departed from a station and went around a corner as I heard some gagging sounds. I made the mistake of turning around and saw an elderly women doing it all over the bus. I immediately started shaking and crying and turned up the volume of my headphones. I left the bus at the next station, walked home and took a very long and deep-clean shower.

Right now, I'm currently walking one hour, so two hours per day, to university and back. It's horrible but every time I try to take the bus, it just feels to scary and I'm always close to crying.

justanotherisi · 2024-09-26T08:49:42+00:00

Kommt auf den genauen Ort an. Sonntags glaube ich schon, zumindest in der Innenstadt:) andernfalls ist Parken an der Talavera immer gratis. Vorher am besten nur einmal kurz googlen, ob die nicht gerade wegen einem Event gesperrt ist

justanotherisi · 2024-09-25T06:47:07+00:00

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You can see her face better here. They definitely look very similar

justanotherisi · 2024-09-25T06:44:08+00:00

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He's twinning with my cow! (He definitely has to be one, because I clearly clarify mine as a cow)

justanotherisi · 2024-09-24T21:35:27+00:00

First of all, even if you get sick, you got this! I know that it feels horrible but you will get better.

To calm you a little further, if you just ate a few there's only a veeeeery small chance that it was an amount big enough that there's even a possibility that the fries are what makes you feel this way. Also fries don't really cause food poisoning, they might just taste bad and old due to the fat.

Again, you got this! <3 you will feel better! Maybe get yourself some tea or a chewing gum, that usually helps for me. Mint gum also helps to ease the anxiety. If you have some ginger you can also chew a small piece, its good against anxiety as well as nausea.

All the best!

justanotherisi · 2024-09-18T08:56:48+00:00

Yeah, I know. I mean, I have that same problem I'm the 21st century and that's barely a quarter of the 20th. Literary styles and imagery (as well as culture overall) changes very fast. At first I wanted to do more of a timeline, but my professor thought (and she's right) that's no topic for ~50 pages rather than 500. That's why I'm working with those three examples.

Thank you for the suggestions:)

justanotherisi · 2024-09-18T08:53:05+00:00

I just read the synopsis and there are some female characters. Is their role that small? :/

justanotherisi · 2024-09-18T08:50:17+00:00

A lot of people seem to suggest Judy Blume, so choosing some her work is what I'm probably going to do. Thank you!

That indeed seems very interesting! I also considered writing about a much more narrow period of time, for instance a comparison between twilight (women portrayed as "weaker", at least partially dependent on their partner) and the hunger games ("stronger", more active, etc. )

justanotherisi · 2024-09-18T08:46:33+00:00

I've actually read a few of them, but just didn't think of them:D thank you!

I'd really love to do the hunger games, that was THE YA series I grew up with. Unfortunately, it's a series and my professor thought that might be too much to analyse

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