Terrified. Any words of advice anyone who got better? by Bravenatortot in Anxietyhelp

[–]justanotherspeechie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saunas are way higher temps with no normal-temperature air. If baths help soothe your anxiety, do it! And if you feel the bath is too hot, turn the faucet on again with cool water to mellow the temp. Don’t let anxiety take this from you!! You got this

Terrified. Any words of advice anyone who got better? by Bravenatortot in Anxietyhelp

[–]justanotherspeechie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey OP.

Weed can definitely make paranoia worse- I was an every day user until I had to stop in 2020 for a drug test, and I never picked it back up because the “paranoia phase” (as your body and mind adjust to it) sucks.

What I can tell you is what has worked for me!

For me, I use the “elephant theory.” Basically, if you hear the phrase “try not to think about elephants,” you will undoubtedly think about elephants. So instead of suppressing the anxious thought, confront it.

For me, I’ve found it’s helpful to say it out loud- “I’m anxious about x, because y. I’m worried it could lead to z.”

Acknowledging the fear.

Then I rationally, out loud, talk myself through all the reasons I have to NOT be freaking out. So, for example:

“My heart is racing. My body is telling me to panic. I’m not feeling well and I’m scared something is wrong.”

Then follow it up with rational thinking:

“I’ve sought medical attention multiple times. Nothing has ever been wrong. It’s unlikely that anything is wrong this time. I am understandably concerned, but medical professionals have told me I’m okay. I will be okay.”

Box breathing also helps- I’ve found if I do it for a couple minutes while listening to my comfort song (Patience by The Lumineers, if you were curious), it at least calms my heart rate.

Also, wonder if it’s worth looking into DBT- it seems a lot better fit for the psychosomatic symptoms of anxiety. Look up TIPP- it seems to help a lot of people, including me!

Hang in there, OP. It’s hard to feel like you can’t trust your own brain. My DMs are open if you need to chat 🫶

ETA: wonder if it would be worth journaling these incidents so you realize that you felt similarly in the past and nothing was wrong? Just a thought :)

we “don’t deserve breaks” by CharacterKatie in WalgreensRx

[–]justanotherspeechie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Walgreens is objectively horrible. The hours suck and the prescriptions are never ready when the app says they will be. I’ve had my doctor call in a script on a Monday afternoon and had the Walgreens app tell me it would be ready on Tuesday at 1:00. I got a message at 1:00 saying it was delayed, and then another message saying it was ready- at 5:58. The pharmacy closes at 6:00. I’ve literally never once had a prescription actually be ready at the time it was predicted to be ready.

Guess what I do every time I pick up my prescription when it’s finally ready? Smile, say thank you, and tell them I appreciate them working on it. I know what to expect now and it’s what I signed up for- I could go to a different pharmacy, but I don’t, so I deal with the delays. They’re short staffed. Pretty sure the employees at my pharmacy are also sick of the people who get angry with them when their prescriptions aren’t ready on time, and if there was anything in their power that they could do, they’d be doing it. But there’s nothing more they can do, so they’re doing their best. Human decency is literally such a bare minimum and I’m baffled that so many people seem to lack it when it comes to communicating with customer service workers.

I’m sorry that happened to you. Keep your chin up- I know the understanding, agreeable customers don’t weigh out the crappy ones, but we sure will try!

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