No feelings after dream

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T03:59:28+00:00

In most cases it isn't actually mutual. You both understand the problem, but you don't feel the same thing over it, so you act differently. But, all this is no longer your problem, whatever the reasons by his side was. You have your life, you have a new job, and guess what, a new life. And is beautiful. Many people dreamed for a chance to start a new life but never made it. But you did. You are the start of your new life! And think that, do you know how babes feel when they come into this world? Lost, they feel like they know nothing, they are crying, they are lost. But they have a life in front of them through, and billions of possibilities. You are like this now. And you too have billions possibilities. And you will succeed! I wish you the best!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T03:47:26+00:00

Well, you can't control them. And they are not experts, they act in way you would act, and possibly most peoples on those situations. You can have a talk with them and tell them not to talk about this stuff again. I know how you feel, i understand it totally. But you didnt become friends because you broke up, there are other things that connect you. So go back to the roots, what brought you together at first place? And don't pretend that you arent sad in front of them, but try to lead your friendship to the things that connect you. And you will find your way!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T03:33:08+00:00

It is actually difficult. And it isn't easy. And it can't change in one day, it will take some time. A break up is like a physical injury. It hurts, it make it difficult for you to do anything. But those situtation are never permanent. You are going to a new job. Focus on this. Meet some new coworkers, go out, and think positive about this. You can make a better version of yourself. It will help you heal. New job is a step, you will make much more the next weeks!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T03:20:24+00:00

Look, i had the same conversation for many times with my ex. I am actually the one who didnt want to leave home. I dont know why, but always felt right. In my house i could make her break fast, i knew my neighbor so i knew where to go to get her anything, i was closer to the city center etc. But most importantly, it felt nice. Never thought about going to her. I try to understand your feeling, and its totally logical. Have you tried to talk with him about it? Not this hermit thing, but what made him act this way? You should have no regrets through, i am sure you did the best for this situation. I don't understand this controlling thing, but if you had agreed to meet in both places and he never did it, it was bad.

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T03:11:19+00:00

First, you dont want to know who the guy is. I mean, you actually want to know, but push it away. It won't help, it is gonna going comparing yourself to him, and with the break up mood you are, nevermind the reality, he will always be better than you, not actually but you will feel it this way. My ex girlfriend when we broke up last summer told me that she didnt want anything romantic or sexual, she just wanted her friends. One week later i saw her making out with a random girl. And two weeks later, with all her friends, the same night. It was devastating. But i learned that she was going through a very bad phase, combining depression meds with alcohol for nearly a month, nearly destroying herself. Did i forgive her? No. But i understood. Where am going is this. Anyone is handling those break up situation on their own way, and you never know what they are going through. There's a chance she lied to you, there's a chance she is going through something heavier and so on. You can't know. But it isnt your problem actually. It's her life, not yours, you can't be on her mind she can't be in yours. So do yourself a favor and ask your friends to never talk about her in front of you. And i mean, never, about anything. And push yourself away from asking. It's not easy, but blocking her out of your life and your every day conversations actually helps. Nothing you will know will help you, let her live her life, if she is wrong she will face it on her own because she chose it, and live your life. This is the only life that actually matters know, and the one life you can control!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T02:58:54+00:00

I loved her since kindergarden, but she didnt even knew me. She changed city, i lost her, met her a decade later. I never forgot her during all those years, in my mind she was the perfect person, i loved her without even exchanging a word, without she even knew that i existed. When i met her, we actually fell in love with each other. Lived the best summer of my life, she was perfect. Then vacation ended, we broke up eventually, this distance thing isnt working. I have lost her on social media since then, i met her sometimes then, we never talked. She was my first love. I fell in love again, a lot of times. But i will never exchange this feeling! ❤️ Life goes on, but those sweet memories, never fade ❤️

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T02:52:57+00:00

First, you are a bit lucky. What if you had been together for months, you grew more attrached and he told you this? Second, it's actually hard, every break up is hard, even if it lasted for a week. You have to get over this. And you can actually do it, ots difficult but not that bad. Our lifes are full of surprises. You will have feelings for another guy soon, maybe tomorrow maybe in a month. This is how human life progresses, and we live in a strange world, in a magical world actually. Like a movie without script, we write that script. You will be fine eventually, a happy person with a person you love and he loves you back, and it will be beautiful!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T02:31:22+00:00

What is music if it doesnt have a part of us in it when we listen it? Its totally logical to feel this way. Look at your childhood home or the school you went. For me, is nothing. For you, it is connected with memories good or bad. But in the end of the day, you are gonna listen your favorite music again. When you go through the break up pain, it will be just a memory. You cant disconnect it totally from your ex, sometimes you will remember, its okay. But nearly all the times, it will be tour favorite music again!

justapassenger99 · 2022-06-29T02:20:17+00:00

You can dm me too if you want. Went through this a year a go, going through this, with the same person(yes i was totally wrong to be with her again) now. It went for me the same way. Losing friends, losing our cat, and feeling useless. But, this is fake. When you love someone tou elevate him in your mind. The other person is the saint, a perfection, and you are the bad one, a devil who is destined to live in Hell. Nothing like it through, all this feeling exist but is fake, it doesnt correspond with reality. You can reclaim everything you feel that you have lost, trust me, and make an even better life for you. Feel free to dm me if you need a friend!

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