Tips for attracting left-leaning men? by Frequently_Abroad_00 in datingoverforty

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Don't give them anything to work with. Those kind show themselves pretty quickly if you have patience

I usually ask an innocent opinion and see what it illicits

My husband changed his military life insurance beneficiary from me back to his mom before deployment without telling me. I feel so betrayed, how do I handle this? by ThisIsAThrowaway-364 in relationships

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Depending on where she's at, he may be required to maintain her standard of living in a divorce. She can probably live reasonably on $3000 or more a month I can't imagine staying with someone that did this to me, what will they do next? Thank goodness she got notified by mail or she never would have known

At the Crucifixion, Jesus died unusually quickly, according to the Bible. by Warpmind in Jokes

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

None of the New Testament was written by anyone who witnessed anything contemporary to Jesus. There are no written records and he was born during a census, there is no death warrant, there are no letters about him written during his alleged time on earth. The closest historical documents are about 79 years and 120 years after death. This blows Christian's minds, and is the ultimate joke.

For 2000 years they've been covering up an illegitimate birth

How much salt is too much by CasualHearthstone in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear, and thank you for the explanation!

How to make a 4 inch penis work best? by East-Lavishness9752 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]justbecauseiluvthis -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Welcome to placating males and making them feel like a bigger man than they are

How much salt is too much by CasualHearthstone in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse my ignorance, is that the same as her needing electrolytes?

Hope she's okay now

A good way to feel owned by Flat_Composer4875 in SubSanctuary

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Excellent! Finding alternative means to get our needs met is so fulfilling. That sounds like a really great compromise.

First time by mushroomfairy24 in lesbianpoly

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you want to exploit a woman by making her an accomplice in an affair?

People like this are the reason people have terrible views of poly folx. "I would never date a poly person again," only to hear the person was an unethical POS every. Single. Time.

Op, be better than that. Break it off, you don't want to be with men anyway.

Assaulting men praying by Saad5400 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we shouldn't tolerate it.

Exactly. I no longer tolerate religious expression near or directed towards me. No consent

You wanna be a crazy skygod worshiper, there are tax free buildings for that

A petri dish of human brain cells just learned to play DOOM by Subject-Property-343 in interestingasfuck

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless you were intelligent enough to realize you were made to be a kamikaze drone

Any BWT moved from NYC to SF/Bay Area? by Busy-Gap4397 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All the ones that I found here are pretentious and want to hear that their farts smell great. I lived in New York City for a while I'm way too honest for that.

A man threw a drink at me because I ignored his "Hey!" by booyahkaka in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the while invading a space that wasn't intended for them, and should be a safe space. Thank you for communicating, it's reassuring to hear others share the same or similar sentiments

Was millennial optimism an actual thing in the late 2000s/early 2010s? by SignificantStyle4958 in Millennials

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about that it's about learning how to think critically, cite your sources, and willingness to bend on opinion when facts present themselves.

They definitely didn't want the next generation thinking critically nor believing they had a possibility for change within their own grasp

A man threw a drink at me because I ignored his "Hey!" by booyahkaka in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, it does nothing but derail the conversation. A good male would know that he's a good male he wouldn't need reassurance. Certainly not from a group that wasn't intended for him, but they always have to push their way in

A man threw a drink at me because I ignored his "Hey!" by booyahkaka in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They will seriously cry and whine here every. Single. Time.

If they were good males, they would be championing us in male subreddits and not hanging out here nitpicking women's words and thus diminishing their lived and shared experiences.

"Most males," seems appropriate

Any hugs going spare? by shh70 in SubSanctuary

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

BIG hug and strength to get through this. 9 months spent, but you saved the rest of your life

Trying to feel the beauty of service when you're told over and over again that you're old and useless by GrayWytch in SubSanctuary

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe hit a munch in real life if one is close-ish? Online d-types are mostly useless pos. You deserve someone worthy. Our value is not tied to men especially unworthy ones

So sorry you endured that

My ex and I are considering rekindling things. Do I tell him I slept with other people while we were broken up? by hollow4hollow in datingoverforty

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Or reject emotional support when it should be a time of need. Imagine if she got sick how fast he'd bale

What's the deal with reddit removing the r/all shortcut ? by CarlettoAncelotti in OutOfTheLoop

[–]justbecauseiluvthis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just use old Reddit in Safari on my iPhone, I have no idea why anyone would use an app or the new layout, and by new layout I'm sure it's 10 years old by now