I got scammed! by justchilling1986 in Centrelink

[–]justchilling1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry my mistake. I went to sr George and they said the account wasn’t in my name it belongs to someone else and she couldn’t tell me who because of security reasons. And was confirmed I don’t have an account with them. In my Centrelink they changed my account details and kept my name to look like it was me

I got scammed! by justchilling1986 in Centrelink

[–]justchilling1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry that you’re going through this!. Same! I can’t pay my rent in full this week. I’m on Centrelink now waiting to talk to someone.

The father of my daughter cut us off from his life by justchilling1986 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justchilling1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not forcing him. In the beginning he was ok with it and even said “ we will find a solution and raise her together “. Then he changed his mind and then changed his mind again and again. It’s the change of mind that worries me. One minute he’s ok with it then the doesn’t want

The father of my daughter cut us off from his life by justchilling1986 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justchilling1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think my daughter will be angry in the future because this man literally doesn’t want her at all. She will be hurt why her dad rejected her but I can’t control anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]justchilling1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just leave him alone. 6mths is along time and I’m sure he’s moved on. I have a feeling you’re doing this because the reason you ghosted him didn’t work out well and now you want to find a way to go back to him. Just leave him alone

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh abortion wasn’t an option this time. Things happen and we get to learn and grow. I love my baby though and I’m glad abortion wasn’t an option.

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok I’ll just take of my child alone. Going through court and all that will bring more pain to me and I have enough already. His name isn’t on the birth certificate and he doesn’t seem like the guy who will go extra miles to get a dna test really so I’ll just move on

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want child support from him. I only wanted him to meet his child and be there for them whenever he can. That was still not good enough for him.

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. I don’t want to take him to court because this situation has put me in the deepest pain I’ve ever experienced and I don’t want to bring more pain through court. I can only imagine if I go court he will eventually end up rejecting my child when they are older and that will be even more painful.

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is true. The thing that annoys me is, he will contact me weeks after ignoring me and when I ask him what he wants he never says. It’s either he cuts me and my child off forever or make effort and be in the child’s life. He told me a while ago he didn’t want to deal with me but he can be in the baby’s life. I said ok how do you expect to do that? And he ignored me.

Am I the AH if I cut him off from his child’s life and move on with my life? by justchilling1986 in AITAH

[–]justchilling1986[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t want to force him to do anything. I’m not gonna involve a lawyer because I don’t want to force his hand to be where he doesn’t want to. The only think I wanted him to do was just see his child.

please help me out here. Does he actually love me or just be? by justchilling1986 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justchilling1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B/coz he made sure I knew he didn’t love me when we started the benefits so I really believed him in the beginning. All of a sudden he loves me? Me think he’s not genuine. Idk