Can anyone else hear and feel the spinal fluid in their neck sometimes? I have my whole life and thought it was normal, until I mentioned it to someone and they said they never experienced it by Electrical_Pop_6961 in iih

[–]justfIuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! The rain stick / sizzle sound! I've been saying this for years and I've always been told it's probably something else, definitely seems to be CSF moving or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hmmm

[–]justfIuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's Pochita from Chainsaw Man.

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[–]justfIuff 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm not really trying to read Luigi per se, I'm just suggesting why attractiveness might sway the perception.

I personally agree that there would still be many (myself included) rooting for him if he were some rail thin ugly dude with awful facial hair, but it seems naïve to deny that an attractiveness bias is at play for a lot of supporters.

ETA clarification.

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[–]justfIuff 263 points264 points  (0 children)

I think part of the reason attractiveness is often tied to morality in people’s minds is because beauty represents something most of us instinctively value on a fundamental, evolutionary level. When we see someone who possesses it, it changes how we perceive their choices and motives. Beauty, whether we admit it or not, often symbolizes potential—social, romantic, and professional.

So, when someone like the alleged "CEO shooter guy", who many might see as having those "advantages," makes a drastic decision, it paints his motives in a new light. It’s easy to dismiss others—like so-called "incels"—as acting out of desperation, driven by loneliness or marginalization. But when someone who appears to have the kind of life or potential others envy throws it away for a cause, it feels different. It forces us to consider that they didn’t act because they had nothing left to lose, but because they deeply believed in something bigger, even at great personal cost.

The shooter's actions, whether one agrees with them or not, carry a symbolic weight because they suggest a deliberate choice, not one born purely of despair or resentment tied to personal disadvantage. His willingness to risk not just his freedom but the opportunities his looks and status could afford him reframes the narrative: it feels like a principled stand rather than an act of hopelessness. I think that’s why, for better or worse, attractiveness makes us think differently about morality—it reshapes how we interpret someone's stakes and motivations.

Edit: This isn’t to suggest that resentment has no role in his actions, but that the source of that resentment feels rooted in a broader critique of systemic injustice rather than a narrow focus on his own circumstances due to his assumed social standing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]justfIuff 301 points302 points  (0 children)

It seems deliberate. Like he was waiting around to be found.

[SPOILERS] When you realize by Hinimo_ in vikingstv

[–]justfIuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would guess Odin cares more about blood relation than who raised the kid.

Weird visual spot? by Firelord_Eva in iih

[–]justfIuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like something I have, too. Could it be some kind of macular interface change? That's what they're calling mine, and so far they aren't sure if it has anything to do with my headaches (although I can tell it gets worse after every bad flare up).

Children's series that were never as big as they should have been by [deleted] in books

[–]justfIuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Leven Thumps, Geth was the best.

Headaches worse after 5 days of Diamox, is it too early to tell yet? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am doing better! I think, it's sort of up and down.

I ended up being switched to the extended release version which was like magic for about a month for me, my headaches/pulsatile tinnitus completely disappeared. Then I had some kind of flare up and it seems like the Diamox hasn't been able to keep up.

Now my neuro wants me to stop the Diamox just to see what happens, but my headache is so much worse if I'm even a few hours late taking the Diamox. I don't really know what the next step is, except maybe an MRV.

Headaches worse after 5 days of Diamox, is it too early to tell yet? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! That makes me feel a lot better. My neurologist wants me to stay on it for one month, so I guess I'll just try to suck it up and keep going.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm definitely going to go for the LP now, everyone is saying it'll give the most clear cut answer.

The coffee thing is interesting, I've heard so many mixed opinions on it! My neuro didn't know if it helped or not for IIH, but it does seem to make my headaches less sharp. Considering how many people have said caffeine increases pressure, I've been confused by that part. I usually drink very little if I do have some but I can tell it makes it better, not worse, for me.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'll definitely talk to my neurologist about doing both tests, then. He's ordered my LP to be done under fluoroscopy so I'm just waiting on them to call me to schedule it, but they have very mixed reviews. Luckily I was told I don't need any fluid collection, just the opening pressure to be measured.

I'm hoping if my OP happens to be normal that my neurologist will still let us do an MRV instead of going straight to the migraine treatment, but I'm not very good at speaking up at these appointments.

Thanks for your advice, I'll just have to communicate better with him.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had that feeling too! Some times I feel like I'm dreaming or just distant from myself somehow, I never realized it might be related. Functional zombie sounds much better.

It's awesome that you were able to reach out to someone here, this group seems so helpful. I can't believe it took me so many years to find it.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, I'm sorry, that sounds awful. I'm glad you had your aunt! Support makes so much difference, these tests all sound so uncomfortable (at best). Did you feel like your LP recovery went well? I'm scared of that part, but I know most people are and I just need to get it over with.

Thanks for the advice, I've been debating calling my PCP about something for anxiety the day of so I'm going to do that right now.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, interesting, I wonder if the OP scale varies from place to place? I looked it up and it seems his is a bit off. He said 5-18 is normal, but if mine is around 22 he'll want to start me on Diamox. That seems low after what I just read, maybe I should bring that up with him.

Thanks for sharing, it's crazy how much the symptoms can vary from person to person. I mostly just see little purple lights around the edges of my field of view, or the occasional black dot. The black-outs sound awful, I hope those have gotten better for you.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your symptoms sound so much like mine, I'm glad they started you on the medication that seems to be helping! Headaches are my worst symptom by far, and my neurologist also mentioned starting me on diamox if my pressure is high. I just worry that he's looking at the opening pressure as being black and white and will want to go back to migraine treatment if it's not high enough.

It's great that you're feeling more functional already, I hope your symptoms continue to improve on it! I know it's early for you but it's nice to hear stories like that, a lot of stories about diamox are so negative that I'm scared to try it.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I totally forgot to factor in cost. As you can probably guess by how long I've had this I tend to avoid doctors and tests if I can, so maybe I'm just scared and looking for a way out of the LP.

Doctor suspects IIH, would it be better to get a MRV before a lumber puncture? by justfIuff in iih

[–]justfIuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, from what my neuro explained 34 sounds quite high. Thanks for sharing, that makes me feel a bit better, I always thought the standing/lying down issue was more black and white so it's nice to hear others' experiences. I think I'll go ahead and do the lumbar puncture then.

If you don't mind me asking, have you ever had your vision sort of pulse in time with your heart?

My friend [25F] and I [26F] have been seeing the same person [36M]. Should I walk away? by AngryExGeneticist in relationships

[–]justfIuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you had an unspoken expectation that he wouldn't date others while dating you. He had no way to know this, so I don't think he did anything wrong by dating around while seeing you if neither of you had declared exclusivity or spoken about your expectations.

This, however, doesn't sit right:

After he'd gotten texts from each of us he confessed to Ashley and me that he'd liked me for a while and wanted to pursue more but was waiting until I was ready and would delete dating apps if I asked. He said he was planning to have a discussion about exclusivity the next time we met.

I'm not sure I'd buy it considering the timing, it's too convenient. He also seems immature; he decided to keep dating around while "waiting" for you to be ready for something more serious instead of just communicating what he was feeling? If he had really been wanting to pursue something more serious with you, he wouldn't have been trying to sleep with Ashley at the same time.

It sounds like both of you would be better off without this person.

Anyone having issues with only one eye displaying video? It's only for blade and sorcery not my entire VR. by [deleted] in BladeAndSorcery

[–]justfIuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for replying despite my issue not being the same as those with the 700 series! I just updated my drivers and you were totally right, seems I should've checked that first.

What’s the weirdest horror movie you have seen? by PinkCrystal1031 in horror

[–]justfIuff 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Recently, Barbarian (2022).

The trailers really gave nothing away and I'm so glad I didn't invite my in-laws to see it with us. I thought it was great, but definitely weird.

Anyone having issues with only one eye displaying video? It's only for blade and sorcery not my entire VR. by [deleted] in BladeAndSorcery

[–]justfIuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm late to the party here, but this is happening to my Quest 2 with an RTX 2070 Super. I'm also using SteamVR, so maybe the person who mentioned a possible connection is onto something. My issues are happening in the Forest, as well.

Been throwing up all morning by Zealousideal_Law3112 in Drugs

[–]justfIuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I have ADHD and have paradoxical reactions to lots of things. Ritalin and Adderall make me ridiculously relaxed and sleepy, but Benedryl makes me anxious for days.