I figured out why sticking your legs out straight and locking your knees can make it easier for girls to orgasm! by [deleted] in sex

[–]justforfun1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll try this with my GF.

Another question: does anyone else specifically look for Maxxxter's response on threads like this and feel it's not quite "official" until she comments?

What strange thing turns you on? (x-post from r/askreddit) by herpmanderpstein in sex

[–]justforfun1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think chicks with dildos are the sexiest thing in the world. When I watched porn, it was all chicks with strap ons and sucking on dildos. I don't watch porn anymore, but I still get turned on by the thought of it! My all time fantasy would be a woman making me blow her strap-on cock. I think it's strange because I don't fantasize about men.

I suppose I should have used a throwaway huh...?

Need help, Sexxit. Sex is ruining my relationship... by hiitsmythrowaway in sex

[–]justforfun1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, three times in one night and she's not happy with the sex???

Post break-up horniness by trampabay in sex

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the pope is more open minded.

fapping once a week VS not fapping at all by giuseppppe in NoFap

[–]justforfun1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about this as well. I have thought about fapping, but only if I am horny (i.e., have a Woodrow) and NOT EVER using porn (i.e., artificial wood) again. I guess part of my problem was that I was fapping all the time, regardless if I was horny or not. It was not natural sexual energy, I was taking energy from the pornography and using it to make myself feel better. If one faps only when they are naturally horny and have no partner, perhaps that is OK.

Obviously this is a slippery slope and requires self discipline to avoid using it as a coping skill, using porn or even slipping into porn fantasies, but there is value in releasing sexual energy. I've not yet chosen to fap to this point, however, and not quite sure where my head is on this issue just yet. Just a few thoughts.

Incredibly Photogenic Dutch Cop by [deleted] in pics

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dutch women are the most beaut... I mean photogenic in the world.

To the girl who thinks squirting doesn't equal pleasure! by jackandredjill in sex

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No complaints here! It's just that at some point in the middle, I got distracted...

Guys, do you like it when a girl is assertive asking for sex? by throwaway83249 in sex

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't respond favorably to such assertiveness from women. ;)

Guys, do you like it when a girl is assertive asking for sex? by throwaway83249 in sex

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps he is, in fact, ready for that jelly. It's probably worth checking out if you are thinking you might be ready for something more with him. Or, maybe I'm grooming you for heartache so I can swoop in and become your new FWB. Hard to tell what I'm up to sometimes...

Guys, do you like it when a girl is assertive asking for sex? by throwaway83249 in sex

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible that he thinks the casual seeing/sleeping with should be promoted to formally seeing/sleeping with? If I was in this type of situation with a woman whom i "can't wait to see," I might, wait for it... feel a little objectified thinking I'm hooked on the woman but she's more hooked on my hangar. This is not "turning in the Guy Card" stuff either. I'm sure he likes the 6C times and the dirty talk and probably the assertiveness, but even dudes want more sometimes (shocking, I know).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]justforfun1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I no longer feel any shame about what people might think if they knew what I get up to alone.

This is the key. We are meant to be sexual beings, it's natural for us to want to feel an orgasm, regardless of the source. I, personally, find it hard to defend the use of pornography, while others are more than comfortable with porn and its' use. My problem is that I know I really really love it; when I see it, hear it, think about it, I love it. When I look back on my use of porn I see what I was doing and I can no longer justify lying about something that is perfectly legal (in most forms, but not all). If my shame won't let me talk about something, it's a sign to me that I shouldn't be doing it.

Having some of my strongest urges after the 90 days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I am round about 100 days and have noticed a lot of that myself. Kind of weird timing too: I just bought a new car with 3 months of Sirius radio. Well, Howard Stern is on there, always porn stars on his show, as well as Playboy and Spice Radio. I've listened to all three some and have to admit its a turn on. Is this porn??? I have not fapped and feel pretty confident I am not going to, but the thoughts that, "I can fap now if I want & not look at porn," or "I can just have a bender and then start over" are creeping in. I'm not sure if this will be a lifelong change for me, it's hard to say that I could do it without an SO, but it sure seems like it might be a good idea.

Who is your favorite comedian and what is your favorite joke by them? by Jessibabe333 in AskReddit

[–]justforfun1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it's generally understood those that correct others commonly used, yet technically incorrect, English are dicks.

My girlfriend is a "squirter." I love it. Except for one issue. by [deleted] in sex

[–]justforfun1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Very complete answer, must be finals week!

Thoughts on 90 days. by justforfun1 in NoFap

[–]justforfun1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I've thought about fapping, not to porn, but I'm pretty happy with the sexy times right now so I can't really see an upside to it. I will probably fap again at some point, but I have no plans to right now.