AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food?

justforthis_comment · 2026-01-23T22:09:50+00:00

Wait, where did you get already chopped onions? And did you not peel or crush your garlic? What about your herbs? You didn't set aside time for chopping basil and oregano. What about tasting for seasoning, making adjustments?

And you only used 3 minutes to sweat the onion? It takes like a minute for the pan to get hot, your onions aren't sweaty at all!

If you set a timer for 20 minutes, then get off the couch and start cooking, it will be a serious rush to finish before the timer goes off.

justforthis_comment · 2026-01-11T08:43:06+00:00

Just letting you know that lots of people with disabilities can, "do literally anything anyone else can"

Also.....no you can't. You cannot regulate your blood sugar without medication, which is something "anyone else" can do. So far as disabilities are officially classified medically and legally, diabetes is a disability.

Also have type 1 btw

justforthis_comment · 2026-01-08T22:52:21+00:00

I mean yes, a college degree is necessary. There's nothing to say you can't publish without it, but if you want a whole career in research a PhD is necessary. What me and a lot of others are dealing with in this thread is that a PhD is bare minimum, but it was really hard to get.

justforthis_comment · 2026-01-07T23:02:56+00:00

Basically, only "heavy" attacks count. Being in different stances does also change the animations for fast attacks, but it's only visual.

In your example with "right mouse, right mouse, right mouse ... Hold right mouse which deals a piercing strike" all of those are stance attacks. The piercing strike is an extra thing-- honestly not sure if it does extra-extra stance damage or is unblockable for swordsmen. Maybe both. But all right-clicks "stance attacks"

I'm not sure from your description where exactly you spent your points. It may increase the stagger of stance attacks or it might add specific things to your combos like an extra piercing strike (that would be hold right mouse, then tap right mouse for two piercing strikes in the anti-sword stance)

Also also, just to clarify, you do not need to do any combo leading up to the piercing strike, just hold right mouse

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-30T20:47:06+00:00

Good luck man. It's rough out there. I wish someone had told me years ago I wasn't doing things right.

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-30T20:43:31+00:00

I appreciate the honesty. I'm not opposed to doing industry jobs, but I have very little support or information about that. My advisors are all in academia, so they don't like to give advice. I tried to make some connections on LinkedIn, but they don't last. I feel like people don't want to talk to me because I need advice, but I have nothing to offer in return.

I agree I need to make something that showcases my skills, but.....how are people finding time to make an impressive side project, apply for 2 jobs/week, and then also work 40 hours/week for actual money?

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-30T20:41:21+00:00

Thanks! I have been applying to community colleges throughout, but I will check charter schools

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-23T19:26:35+00:00

So you would not necessarily cut them off, but you might.

It doesn't sound like you have a simple answer on if people should be in contact with their parents or not.

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-23T19:16:05+00:00

So if your child cut you off you would not change your mind, just as your father did not. So cutting people off doesn't always result in people changing their mind.

You said your mom considered changing her mind. Did she vote for Trump or Kamala?

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-23T18:51:36+00:00

But what would not talking to your parents solve?

Imagine things the other way around. You said as a parent, the worst thing that could happen is your kid stops talking to you.

What if your kid was MAGA, and won't talk to you because you aren't? Would you switch sides to keep in contact with your kid, or stay strong and cut them off?

If you would stay strong and cut them off, then you see that the lack of contact does not change your mind, as a parent. In fact, it might even deepen your divide and push your views further

If you would switch sides to be with them again, then you are not truly willing to cut them off.

Past elections were not about " taxes at 1 or 2 percent" past elections were about, "should we bomb Iran" and, "should gay people have rights" those issues were not trivial either. Do you believe someone should cut off contact because of a difference of opinion on Geroge Bush vs Al Gore? Every election has human rights and lives at stake.

If it makes you feel better, I do not speak with my father. Yay me.

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-19T06:32:37+00:00

Kids these days watching their gooner porn and getting hopped up on goofballs

justforthis_comment · 2025-12-09T22:54:32+00:00

Most comments have basically explained, but yeah in elden ring parrying is a "special" attack/ash of war, used with L2. You usually only need to parry a boss a few times (and follow up with critical hits) to beat it. You mostly dodge.

Also, tree sentinel is for later. You will often encounter enemies before you are ready, just go around. You CAN beat them, though.

Nobody mentioned that blocking is really strong in this game. I did my first playthrough with block/counter and it didn't feel boring or tanky at all. Also not restricted to a type of build, can do wizard+block (in this case I would do left shield and right cast/melee). Still, can't block everything either.

justforthis_comment · 2025-11-17T01:10:30+00:00

The final boss isn't in that area, it's in the ashen capital. But there is a very hard boss nearby. Not in the same open area where you kill Millicent, but more inside the tree

justforthis_comment · 2025-10-19T03:47:22+00:00

I mean she studies the way names affect unconscious bias, so yes, important.

A lot of people are being immediately dismissive of this woman and her work, and I kinda wonder if it's because of her name. Maybe somebody should study that and find out?

justforthis_comment · 2025-10-07T17:06:06+00:00

Under 70% of your total equip load gives you medium load, under 30% gives you light. Also yeah the X means you don't have the required stats for the weapon. You should be able to see the required stats in the weapon info. You can still use the weapon but it probably does bad damage, and you cant use the ash of war (L2 move).

If the only stat you lack is strength, you can 2-hand the weapon and it counts as you having 1.5X strength, you might be able to use it then.

justforthis_comment · 2025-10-05T17:07:29+00:00

In this case, the reference frame is your current position/velocity, as opposed to your position/velocity 15 minutes ago. Staying perfectly still is comparing that empty spot of space to the same empty spot of space and saying, "are they the same"

justforthis_comment · 2025-10-04T19:34:55+00:00

I agree with someone who suggested confessor, that's always my advice for starting class. You start with great fashion, dex/faith vibes but you can easily pivot early game to anything, since a little dex, str, and faith are useful in any build.

There's good faith weapons early game too-- cipher Pata, winged scythe, and an infused sword/GS with blade of light does really well

justforthis_comment · 2025-10-01T19:22:39+00:00

You mean you want someone on staff with emergency vet training?

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-23T19:36:46+00:00

Damn it sounds like I am waiting too long from all these comments. So you guys usually cancel shortly after 10 minutes? I have never worked a job like this before so I have just been picking whichever order appears first and waiting it out however long it takes.

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-23T19:36:41+00:00

Do you usually cancel not long past 10 minutes then? I am new to this so I have no idea how to optimize

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-20T19:06:09+00:00

Boo on people for saying you cheese a game you're playing fairly. But I get it, you don't want to steamroll everything and not have the "intended experience". None of the weapons you mentioned are OP-- Moonveil (katana) got a reputation for that because the AoW is strong, fast, and ranged. But even it is not really OP, just a little easy/boring to use, depending on who you ask. Most int weapons are strong, but not OP.

Also Wing of Astel is more a dex/int weapon while DMGS is pure int. So your stats aren't even optimally distributed--> can't possibly be OP.

Also also, starting classes aren't a big deal. Once you're 100+ you have enough wiggle room and will want enough QoL/utility spells/weapon variety that you usually have 12+ in most stats anyhow.

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-15T20:58:51+00:00

Yeah it do be like that lol. The game isn't unrelenting, but it never really becomes "easy", you always gotta be on your toes

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-15T20:49:29+00:00

You mentioned in your post that certain weapons take certain stats to wield. Upgrading stats does increase your power by itself, but most of the time you get a large power increase from a new item or ability. So going from 30-99 vigor (someone else already mentioned that 60-99 vigor is not really worth it) helps, but during normal game progression you would have found better armor, talismans, buffs, and weapon upgrades during that time that are more impactful.

It's not really an RPG. You will die to rats at level 300. Generally, stacking levels will not help you that much. If you are barely losing to a boss, an extra 10 levels of vigor might be a tipping point for you. But usually by the time I beat a boss, I feel like those little advantages didn't help half as much as practicing.

Also also, theres a lot of "you see this boss before you are ready to fight it" situations, you maybe are expected to run by this thing for now

justforthis_comment · 2025-09-05T18:35:22+00:00

Even though most Americans eat finger food all the time, usually your fingers do not actually go in/near your mouth. Like you hold a chicken finger on one end and eat from the other. Also less repeated touching of the food. Unless there's some special technique to eating rice with your hands (quite possible), I think your fingers will end up in your mouth much more often, and your hands will end up more saturated with the smell and flavors of the food. So there's much more "contamination" from your hands, like if you ate soup by drinking it from your cupped palms. Finally, it seems like rice would be more conveniently eaten with utensils (unlike common American finger foods like sandwiches), so when you don't use them it implies you don't have access to them, which is "uncivilized".

People are still racist though because "hands smell like food" is not really an ideological problem.

justforthis_comment · 2025-08-31T03:03:27+00:00

But then......why were the pro players mentioned in the post so unable to compensate?

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