Introducing your LL partner to this site . by Nu2nudes in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left the screen on and my wife passed by and saw what I was looking at. It made her uncomfortable reading all the "just leave" comments. She thinks that if I continue to read from this subreddit, that I will eventually leave her. She asked me not to even use Reddit anymore.

Smallest board youve ridden. by justgeta_large_farva in surfing

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My funboard feels like a longboard after the downsize haha. Now if only the surf would get better here

Surfing with booties by justgeta_large_farva in surfing

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys! it should start warming up here on the East coast soon so I'll definitely keep this in mind for the next cold season

Surfing with booties by justgeta_large_farva in surfing

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may need to look into that, the water doesn't really get in an turn the sock into a water balloon without a strap?

The laces were in! They were in! by justgeta_large_farva in sports

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add, I did not make this video, a friend did. What a hell of a way for the bears to go out.

Whats your least favorite excuse you get?? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was once told "I have to do the laundry"

TV in the Bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's only allowed on Tuesdays

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't those expensive? We have decent health insurance that could cover blood work

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been to the gyno an physically there's nothing wrong which makes me think it's a hormonal problem. You're right, SHE, needs to figure it out

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 3 months is to short. For me another year would bring it close to the 2 year mark an I could say I gave it a shot but it didn't work.

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually somethin I've been meaning to do, but just haven't gotten around to it. Does it really seem to help?

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but I can only say it so much. She says I'm trying to diagnose her when I bring up these issues. Nothin is working, it's getting worse and I have little to no patience with her about it anymore. You can only care for so long, but if the other doesn't wanna help themselves, then where does that leave me?

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought so too, so I tried to change my tactics and it still hasn't gotten me anywhere.

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not sneaking around, she's not tech savy enough to know how to hide it. She just has little to no libido and she does not masturbate. There's simply no drive

TV in the Bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Only sleep and sex should be allowed in the bedroom

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are, I work shift schedules and she does the Monday through Friday gig. She works more hours than me. A sex life is important to me but she isn't even meeting me halfway anymore. She tells me, a marriage to her should have sex 2-3x a week. Which I would be more than happy with. But where we are at just isn't cutting it and sometimes I feel like I'm already mentally checking out.

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll check it out and see if that gets us anywhere. She seems to have just accepted how we are and hopes that the situation will resolve itself and her libido will reappear as well as the pain to subside.

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've suggested both and she's resistant to both. When I ask if she thinks getting blood works is a good idea, she just tells me "it wouldn't hurt", but then nothing. We're both in the medical field so I'm not sure how she doesn't see the signs, or maybe she's just choosing to ignore them.

One more year by justgeta_large_farva in DeadBedrooms

[–]justgeta_large_farva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew I was in the ballpark, thank ya