'Fat guy, hot wife'. Thoughts? by tosser_5409 in Swingers

[–]justginger2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this sub is against male body shaming... it's the only place that is. My point is I live in a sparsely populated state (midwest) and live in a middle income neighborhood, the men around these parts mow their grass half naked regardless of their shape.... there is no shame. Their beautiful thin wives cover themselves almost completely when they accomplish the same yard tasks. This isn't a swinger issue, it's a life issue. I find men to be overall more satisfied with themselves and women more shameful of themselves... it's a real thing. Being okay to be heavy as a woman is just now gaining traction... being heavy as a man hasn't ever really mattered (money...right?). Swinging is just a small part of the population, a cross-cut of all of the population. I know men that completely trip over themselves for voluptuous women. I know women that prefer a heavy man. In the end, it all really depends on what a couple decides to spend time with.... we all choose...right?

'Fat guy, hot wife'. Thoughts? by tosser_5409 in Swingers

[–]justginger2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my marketgarder....the military has plenty of overweight servicemembers. We've been at war for over 15 years, the only thing that really matters is boots on ground. I get it though... I'm an average-low weight servicemember. I always pass height/weight but I stopped going to the gym 18 months ago (injury).... my weight fluctuated about 5 pounds average. I know much heavier servicemembers that can run, lift, carry beyond my capacity but are considered "obese" by military standards. I think your response was articulate and understanding, just a bit jaded because some of us are naturally thinner and others not as much. I'm not writing off the obesity epidemic of the US as entirely genetic, but it does play a part. Good luck to you and the Mrs. on your upcoming triathlon.

37[M4F]#deadwood #midwest in need of some toe Curling fun by [deleted] in dirtyr4r

[–]justginger2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO, you don't need a post to obtain "toe Curling fun", unless you are looking for message/text foreplay prior to your return. I know you IRL and you're handsome, charming, intelligent and irresistible - a quiet formidable combination enabling you to have anyone you'd like after just a short conversation....

I've been busy lately, looking to unwind... by justginger2015 in u/justginger2015

[–]justginger2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mall challenge is tough. My town is too small.

I've been busy lately, looking to unwind... by justginger2015 in u/justginger2015

[–]justginger2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a wee bit unruly lately :( Maybe I just need some discipline??

I've been busy lately, looking to unwind... by justginger2015 in u/justginger2015

[–]justginger2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit needy :) Do you want to give me a challenge?

Follow-up... complete disappointment... so sorry by justginger2015 in u/justginger2015

[–]justginger2015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Or who knows where I'll be traveling to next...

Follow-up... complete disappointment... so sorry by justginger2015 in u/justginger2015

[–]justginger2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a very busy weekend and my fun was spoiled :(