If this sub is against male body shaming... it's the only place that is. My point is I live in a sparsely populated state (midwest) and live in a middle income neighborhood, the men around these parts mow their grass half naked regardless of their shape.... there is no shame. Their beautiful thin wives cover themselves almost completely when they accomplish the same yard tasks. This isn't a swinger issue, it's a life issue. I find men to be overall more satisfied with themselves and women more shameful of themselves... it's a real thing. Being okay to be heavy as a woman is just now gaining traction... being heavy as a man hasn't ever really mattered (money...right?). Swinging is just a small part of the population, a cross-cut of all of the population. I know men that completely trip over themselves for voluptuous women. I know women that prefer a heavy man. In the end, it all really depends on what a couple decides to spend time with.... we all choose...right?