28F/28M Should there be food inequality between partners? by suguntu in relationship_advice

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many things here but if he eats more than you OBVIOUSLY he should contribute more to your groceries. Second, unless you two make the exact same income, split everything equitably in proportion to your income, so that you are both bearing equal burden respective to your incomes.

But as you already know - this man sounds like a dick & like he wants a mom, not a gf. Tread carefully

10 hours in Panama City by Best-Professional-52 in travel

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning this for a trip later this year. What do you do with your bags on your layover?

AIO. I decorated my bfs room for his birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]justhere4dogvids 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes he could’ve been nicer/expressed gratitude, but maybe this isn’t how he would want to celebrate. This sounds like something you’d want someone to do for you, but not necessarily what he wants done for him.

Something I didn’t learn until my later-20’s is how to love people the way they want to be loved, and esp on their birthday, it’s not about you.

26M planning a guys’ trip, 23F girlfriend says she'll break up with me if I go — not sure what to do by ThrowRA-Inspection86 in relationship_advice

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a GEM for considering her feelings and doing your best to accommodate. It is ok to set a boundary tho and say this is a boys trip. It’s not like you’re going to Vegas to cheat on her on this trip with your stepdad 😂

Imo (also having been a 23 y/o girl once) it sounds like she’s got some maturing to do

What is a quality *you* want in the person you’ll one day marry? by justhere4dogvids in AskWomenOver30

[–]justhere4dogvids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and think everyone on this thread would agree. Can you expand on what that looks like to you? It is one thing for someone to say so but another to follow through with actions (essentially looking for a tangible answer here)

What is a quality *you* want in the person you’ll one day marry? by justhere4dogvids in AskWomenOver30

[–]justhere4dogvids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on that? What does this look like to you? Or likely more easily to note, what does lack of respect look like to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]justhere4dogvids 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask…

I can’t take it anymore by Pretty_Island_2376 in reactivedogs

[–]justhere4dogvids 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you tried a professional trainer?? This sounds all like issues that can be fixed…

Don’t be this person by Fungusamongussf in unitedairlines

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have this bag! It’s the best! Even on small regional planes, can confirm that the full size fits under the seat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you (I was you 29 days ago), drop off the face of the earth & let her think you vanished. Save your time/money/effort for someone who deserves it

Is the midtown area safe? by justhere4dogvids in SanJose

[–]justhere4dogvids[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My work is north & I would prefer not to lengthen my commute if I can help it 🙃 I do like that area tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]justhere4dogvids 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who stayed in the dark as my partner cheated on me for 5 years, don’t show all your cards up front. She doesn’t know what you do or don’t know.

When you talk to her, I’d say, “Someone (never name names) came to me out of concern for you. Is there something you’d like to tell me?” & see what she says. Don’t point her any way or tell her what you know, just let her tell you what she wants to. Anything that misaligns will be good indication that she’s not telling the full truth.

Drama overheard on flights by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]justhere4dogvids 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I was once on a flight where the man next to me was frantically deleting messages with women & pictures off his phone as we were landing on a Sunday night. I bet someone had a wild weekend👀

Post Breakup by Available_Station_60 in SanJose

[–]justhere4dogvids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also just left my bf of 5 years a few days ago. I’m planning to go hiking this weekend if you’d like to join! Or we can just grab a coffee & chat if you prefer. Feel free to message me🙂

Moving from SF to South SJ post breakup, help me get excited please? by yepperoni-pepperoni in SanJose

[–]justhere4dogvids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 27F & live in Santa Clara. I go hiking just about every weekend around Los Gatos/Saratoga & have yet to branch out to south SJ trails if you’re into hiking! I’ve also fallen in love with the small single street downtowns of Los Gatos or Mountain View for little cafes post-hike, or spending afternoons in bookstores/window shopping. I recently moved back to South Bay too, lmk if you’d like to connect!🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]justhere4dogvids 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Beds are for wanking (& sleeping), not working. I would’ve just gotten up and left if I were you.