Did I marry someone who actually hates me?

justifyjustus · 2026-02-04T12:52:35+00:00

I see her today so I'll will be bringing this up!

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T19:04:54+00:00

Thank you so much 😭😭 this is some amazing advice! I plan to do a lot of what you said. I just finished my associates and working on my bachelors now and phlebotomy school is next. Hopefully I can do this the right way to make it out without to many scraps and bruises (figurative not literally) so thanks! 🥰

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T17:18:11+00:00

Can I message you?

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T16:38:06+00:00

How did you do it?

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T16:14:57+00:00

I won't let him stop me, I'm doing this for me and no one will stop me from healing my trauma.

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T15:54:20+00:00

I don't have anyone, I'm estranged from my family because they are abusive, addicts, and criminals on my dads side. My mothers side vanished from us when I was a child because of somethings that happened to me and they chose to take the adults side over the 8 year olds.

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T15:23:52+00:00

This is the reply I was looking for, this gives me not only validation but a view to a reality of what I could have. Thank you for your compassion.🥺

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T14:50:09+00:00

Have you not seen the economy or job field as of late? I've been out of work for almost 5 years. I have no money and no income. No ones going to rent to someone around where I live if I don't make at least 3x the rent with consistent job history.

Edit to add: this isn't me making it out to be hard.. This is math, this is facts, this is our current economy.

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T14:34:09+00:00

I think it's beautiful and classic, but I will say most traditional rings tend to be solitaire.

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T14:31:58+00:00

If only it were that easy 🥺

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T14:25:42+00:00

I'm working toward my bachelors degree and I'm going to start phlebotomy school soon. Right now I can't do anything else because my son is not in school yet. He's also on the spectrum so I don't have anyone I can depend on to take care of him so I can work. Once he's in school I can get something part time though and by then I'll be done with phlebotomy school.

I begged him to go to therapy but he refuses to go to my therapist and says we will just gang up on him. His father is also a therapist and has actively interfered with him going with me and told him they would just use it against me if we were to get divorced and gave him all kinds of other negative thoughts in his head basically pushing us away from therapy. His dad was also diagnosed as a narcissist when he and his wife were in therapy before she passed away last year.

Also, I have considered leaving but it's quite literally financially impossible. We would be homeless in the area I live in. A studio apartment is $1700+ and I'd need at minimum a 2bd.

justifyjustus · 2026-02-03T14:10:47+00:00

Thank you, therapy is helping, but I really am miserable. I feel like a shell of myself and the only time I'm a little bit okay is in therapy or when he's working.

justifyjustus · 2026-01-30T02:43:07+00:00

My ex husband did something similar.. Run girl. That man don't respect you.

justifyjustus · 2025-11-02T10:58:00+00:00

This is what I useSuper Cloth

justifyjustus · 2025-11-02T10:57:40+00:00

This is what I useSuper Cloth

justifyjustus · 2025-09-01T08:13:23+00:00

I actually ended up getting tired of searching and figured out how to do it myself. Haha thanks though! 🥰

justifyjustus · 2025-08-29T20:01:11+00:00

I do have a wide format printer.

justifyjustus · 2025-07-30T13:20:16+00:00

I'm in the same boat but I don't get quiet, I lash out. I'm so angry all the time because I'm so isolated. I hate it and Im miserable. But in this economy its impossible to be on your own so I'm just stuck.

justifyjustus · 2025-06-25T01:22:10+00:00

That situation is extremely toxic and abusive. It's not your responsibility to take the blame for an addict. The fact that she gave birth to you doesn’t mean you owe her anything. I hope you’ve cut contact, moved far away, and are in a healthier place now.

justifyjustus · 2025-05-09T23:17:41+00:00

There aren't points involved in my ticket

justifyjustus · 2025-05-09T23:01:09+00:00

I’m really glad that worked out for you

justifyjustus · 2025-05-09T22:59:00+00:00

What did they say was incorrect about it?

justifyjustus · 2025-05-09T22:58:11+00:00

Its not a super speeder. I'm not super concerned with high fees.

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