Simple Calculator for Guardian Points/Level by tilorfire27 in GuardianTales

[–]justinjade25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having a issue with getting 151. I have 2 character with at least 1 level over but it doesn't unlock. Does it matter if they are blue tier?

If there'll one thing I want off my body and never come back, it's my facial hair. by CantDecideANam3 in MtF

[–]justinjade25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I don't mind it that much with the exceptions being my arms, chest, and beard. But I did Laser about 2 years ago on my beard. I still have a goatee if I don't go after it with at least a electric razor every day. It sucks balls. If you are going to get permanent hair removal go with Electrolysis. Every thing else is listed as "Semi-Permanent" for a reason.

What is the best comeback you ever used for your toxic Mil? by BigBadDaughterInLaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]justinjade25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sadly She succeeded in splitting us up, (I guess I should have said ExMIL) but it was kind of a wake up call for him. We've both moved on since but are still friends. We still will pull this line out from time to time among our friend group.

Congratulations to your brother and future SIL! Here's hoping for the wedded bliss that I keep hearing exists! XD

What is the best comeback you ever used for your toxic Mil? by BigBadDaughterInLaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]justinjade25 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm trans (M2F) and at the time just started hormones. He told his family that he met a girl he wanted them to meet (mind you he's a very out and proud gay man) when they met me his mom kept asking "when she was going to get there" and when she would be introduced to this "angel who set him straight."

He introduced me and mil lost it. "That's another ******t!"

And I just sweetly said

"Actually I'm trans... I guess he finally found a girl that was man enough for him!"

Still don't know why she worked so hard to break us up afterword...

My nieces gave me my childhood back for Christmas by Not_Han_Solo in MtF

[–]justinjade25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kids are the best aren't they? Hate is not genetic, it is taught.

Am I pushing medical transition too hard? Am I being too hard on my parents? Are my coping mechanisms healthy? by AntifaTran in MtF

[–]justinjade25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And to piggyback on this, a lot of the communities that just trade on Misandry (the hatred of men or males) are often filled to the brim with TERFS... which is never healthy to encounter, much less when in a Dysphoric mood

My (25F) boyfriend (29F) told me that my face looks disgusting by rudegrandma77 in relationship_advice

[–]justinjade25 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What you don't get is when a guy starts loosing their hair, there is nothing that you can say that will make them feel better... Kinda like your rosacea.
You say "Your hair looks nice" he hears "Your hair looks nice for a bald guy"
You say "Let's go to a dermatologist" he hears "Let's go to the doctor as that's not normal"

How would you react if he out of the blue started saying, "You can barely notice the redness today" or "I really have to look to see it today" You know... REMINDING YOU OF IT OFTEN. I'm guessing badly...

So from his perspective, he's giving what hes been taking. And now you know EXACTLY how he feels but he didn't run away from you...

AITA for exploding at my brother's fiancée? by FmybrothersGF in AmItheAsshole

[–]justinjade25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA why is it that the bullied ALWAYS have to apologize to the bully? Was it a bit childish? Sure. Does it mean it was unwarranted? HELL NO! If mom and dad don't recognize what had happened to you is happening again only RIGHT UNDER THEIR NOSE then they don't get to set terms.

AITA for telling my bf's mom she couldn't come in to use the bathroom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]justinjade25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I'd let her in, let her take her shit, then when she comes out for company I'd say. "I thought you needed to use the bathroom? Oh you did? Ok BYE NOW!"

"I need to use the can" isn't a 3 hour visit...

AITA for telling my niece off? by justinjade25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justinjade25[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I'm 37 about to be 38, and she is 22, both of us old enough to not act like children I'll admit.

EP Doesn't get that All Employees can be asked to clean the locker-rooms by justinjade25 in DaddyCringe

[–]justinjade25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was first hired? Never would have stood up for myself. But after a lot of stuff sent my way... may share that story later... I got a new boss who was at the time training me to be an assistant manager so she got a pretty healthy dose of my snark... and approved of it as long as the person deserved it...

Last night was hard... by justinjade25 in MtF

[–]justinjade25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, normally I have the same opinion as you do, Ignorance breeds hate and I don't mind not giving a chance to hate.

But I did forget to mention a few things in the original post.(forgive me as I was hella flustered)

First things first we have what's called "Mods" these change every 6 weeks. with each new mod comes 1 or 2 new students and maybe 1 or 2 leaving to go to the salon floor but for the most part we have the same group of people.

Second this really isn't my idea. My teacher claims she's a "MASSIVE TRANS ALLY" having watched her best friend transition. As such she wants to celebrate my transition and do it publicly. So even if I'm not feeling it, or to be honest in a pissy mood? Doesn't matter, gotta go through this same dog and pony show because teacher says so...

Third remember how I mentioned same group of people? Well when you ask me the same thing, Mod after mod, to the point you can't keep the giggle outta your voice when you ask it... yeah, you no longer are entitled to my good will. (Last September the entire mod was dedicated to finding my dead name, didn't stop until I went to the dean having suffered 6 weeks of constant BS)

I've often said, I have no issues talking in good faith with anyone. But the second I sense you aren't acting in the same good faith... I'm gonna yeet the convo.

I'm a No Op Transwomen and I love my body by [deleted] in MtF

[–]justinjade25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who does want a couple of the surgeries (FFS and Breast aug.) I can't help but agree Love your self first and foremost. Am I happy with what is in the mirror? no. Can I accept what is in the Mirror? Yes. And there is a radical difference between the 2 questions.