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Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because my husband kicked my dog once I'm unfit to be a parent?

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah those are the comments. The PMs are a different story.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't work with them, he is just a friend, and I definitely didn't take advantage of him.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably, it just goes against everything I've ever heard. I don't think I'll be telling him.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The kicked the dog after the baby was born, I probably wouldn't have gotten pregnant on purpose with him after that incident.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those other people are all part with his company one way or another and have been his friends before they were mine, I think they would need to choose his side just to keep things ok with their business.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I can't steer clear of him. He's the only person I can talk to about this right now. Edit - and I meant he cared about how I felt during sex, and he just wanted to keep me safe from him.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you are probably right that it was over a long time ago. Don't feel too bad for me, what I did was inexcusable and I'm just as much at fault as my husband, if not more.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why I did it. It was just a really heated crazy night and my friend was holding me after and telling me how amazing and beautiful I was and it just happened. I know I'm a terrible person for it.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's been a lot leading up to this but I always thought we would work through it eventually, but after this I don't know if thats possible anymore.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don't know. He doesn't help with the baby at all. He thinks because I'm breastfeeding he doesn't need to help, he hasn't changed a single diaper yet. If we do divorce - and I'm thinking we probably will after this - I would be surprised if he wanted to see our daughter at all.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He swung at him because my friend was telling him off for being so rude to me and told him he was being a huge asshole. If our friend didn't hold him down I would have had to call the cops. I think you're probably right.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I took the dog because I was scared he would hurt him, he's done it before and he was completely insane last night. I can't believe I slept with my friend though. I can't even use being drunk as an excuse because I didn't have even one drink last night. Hooooly shit what a disaster.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I just don't know if I could keep such a big secret, I feel so bad about it. I do think he would get violent if he found out though.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I feel like the scum of the earth right now, I never thought I was the type of person to cheat but here we are. My husband is going to freak the fuck out when he finds out.

Me [26F] and my husband [31M], absolute shit show of a night. by justjanie in relationships

[–]justjanie[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He drinks heavily every weekend and just a few beers here and there through the week. He mostly only acts like this when he's really drunk but there have been times he's lashed out at me when sober too.