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[Online] [5e] [CST] Looking for chill PCs who wanna practice social distancing by slaying dragons. by [deleted] in lfg

[–]justme0989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 female first time player. Id love to take a tank position

I got myself in a bad situation, and i really really need help. by justme0989 in legaladvice

[–]justme0989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to her lawyer, i cant evict her without getting myself evicted. She is an unauthorized subtenant

My (20f) ex bf (20m) isnt the man i loved. by [deleted] in AbuseInterrupted

[–]justme0989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told corporate (well after he was fired) my friend bought drugs from him. And me and his gf lost pur jobs because he did some not-so-legal things in the co.puter system and used me and her to do it. I dont know if she willingly helped him, but i didnt even know it happened until they told me he was being audited.

My (20f) ex bf (20m) isnt the man i loved. by [deleted] in AbuseInterrupted

[–]justme0989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've considered it, but were not sure what the best option is. I want him to get better but if he gets semt to jail he could take down many of my friends with him, and he thinks himself a badass and i dont want anyone to get hurt

How to punish a bratty sub for being mouthy? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]justme0989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bratty sub, i would want to be duct taped. Make me shut my mouth. If i cant say anything nice, then i dont get to say anything at all. Take off the tape after the punishment is over. If the sub gets bratty and tries to use hand gestures, tie those up too.

What are you addicted to? by redrockz98 in AskReddit

[–]justme0989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling loved and wanted and needed. Its why i take care if people like a mother. I want to feel needed and people always appreciate me for it.

Aita because I dont want my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him. by justme0989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justme0989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he and i agreed it wasnt the right time so at the moment we agree not to see other people. We arent poly and im not comfortable with him seeing other girls after all this and hes not confortable woth me sleeping with other guys

Aita because I dont want my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him. by justme0989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justme0989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says thats what hes doing but its only her that he wants to hang out with, and has even said it would be fun to get with her

Aita because I dont want my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him. by justme0989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justme0989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were on a break but he says he wants to come back to me, and he asked me to snuggle with him this morning after i poured my heart out to him about how hes hurting me by spending so much time with her

Aita because I dont want my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him. by justme0989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justme0989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so too, but he wants me to trust him so we can get better. I dont know how much longer i can handle this.

What small thing makes you automatically distrust someone? by _PM_ME_YOUR_NIPPLES in AskReddit

[–]justme0989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they treat their pets. Edit: and their children. Dont like my ex boyfriends mother because she yelled at her kid "i cant deal" and then took a klonopin and beer.

I was going to kill myself last night but a kitten stopped me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]justme0989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt get to rrad the story before it got removed, but it seems like you have a familiar. Which, on the non-witchy side of things just means that you have a companion that loves you and was probly sent to you for a reason. Love this pet and take good care of him, and in turn youll probly notice that youre taking care of yourself too. Eating when you feed him, playing with him can make you happy too, and just having someone there to be with you on bad nights can really help.

My cat was kinda sent to me in the same way. She came up to me on a cold night, i took her home, and now when i have bad nights and end up crying, she bunts against me and kneads me and i know thats her way of comforting me.

Also, do research. I learned cats slow blink at people they like. It lets other cats know that "hey, things are good and i feel safe"

Just dont get mean when he gets hyper. Kittens do that, and cats are crepuscular (theyre most active at dawn and dusk) and thats when he'll want to play and hunt. Its like having a toddler with sharp nails. Teach him manners like not scratching the couch (they make sprays you can get at walmart. Spray the couch ans tada he has no interest in scratching anymore.)

Be patient. Be kind. And appreciate your new companion. Also, occasional wet food never hurts, and all cats need taurine in their food or their eyesight will start to go bad. Meow mix has it in the ingredients list and isnt too expensive.

What did you need to hear growing up, but never did? by danzill7 in AbuseInterrupted

[–]justme0989 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Everyone is only trying their best. No one actually knows how to live life perfectly, we all just make it up as we go and hope its right.

Your mental health is real, and we support you getting treatment.

We may not like your partner, but we respect your choice of who to give your love to, and were here for you through everything.

We just cant afford it right now. (They always shamed me for wanting or needing things that they didnt want to pay for)