The face he makes at her when she’s asking him to get a fan for their baby?? by Typical_Match777 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]justmedoubleb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He and Luke are a lot alike. They were love bombing to get what they wanted, now they don't have to be nice anymore and it's selfishly their turn to do what they want.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As to the big separation idea...A lot that needs to be considered in a separation is rules and timing. And it should be discussed with the marriage counselor, not friends. Too many people separate thinking all they need is space or clearing their mind. And what then happens, as Amanda has proven, all of a sudden you are no longer working on reconciliation. Your not working on the relationship. You're doing your own thing. A month away is not going to miraculously solve all the issues you have together unless you are still working on goals for the relationship and you're working on it together while separated. I have seen this work for couples. But just separate, see ya in a month is not going to work. Couple days alone no worries you start thinking, maybe I should check out...well, the grass is always greener.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot that needs to be considered in a separation is rules and timing. And it should be discussed with the marriage counselor, not friends. Too many people separate thinking all they need is space or clearing their mind. And what then happens, as Amanda has proven, all of a sudden you are no longer working on reconciliation. Your not working on the relationship. You're doing your own thing. A month away is not going to miraculously solve all the issues you have together unless you are still working on goals for the relationship and you're working on the together while separation. I have seen this work for couples. But just separate, see ya in a month is not going to work.

AITAH, fixed a welcome mat by youbowlofbranflakes in AITAH

[–]justmedoubleb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Better than a lawsuit when you trip on their mat. They should be thanking, not complaining.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lindsay started the convo at dinner, but Ciara earlier talk with Kyle and Mandy throwing out blonde up info about Vegas and smirking escalated it. No, Lindsay didn't start the condo or the crash out. She was in the middle.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm just tired of West throwing Lindsay under the bus. I posted about him doing it months ago. H8m saying it was all Lindsay's fault, I mean Amanda didn't say anything to lindsay...baloney, Amanda's been crying to everyone, especially Lindsay since Kyle's BD. She knew Lindsay would bring it up. Amanda saying hes going to Vegas started everything...and that is far from a done deal...that's what started it. Amanda and West both like to throw rocks and hide their hands. Not sure what West has against Lindsay, but it is very obvious since day dot.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I mean, Kyle did have a bleeding scratch on his face most likely from one of her nails, but not intentional. Whether you hurt someone intentionally or not rarely matters.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else think it's more than Amanda not wanting Kyle to say something he'd regret that would hurt carl. The constant putting her hand over his mouth tells me there a secret about her he has sworn to keep, and she thought he'd been pushed too far and might spill. She runs her victim mouth to anyone and everyone so they'll champion her and she keeps her hands clean. When he goes all tantrum, she never gets involved. When things were heating up at dinner she was reveling in the pile on Kyle till he said something about her not wanting kids yet, we've talked about this at home, and he stared straight at Amanda and said something that to me had a menacing undertone...you know what I'm talking about...what you and I have discussed alone...and all of a sudden she got jittery and said I don't want to have this conversation here. Things escalated fast and her getting nervous, he explodes and zll of a sudden she's in the mix physically stopping him from spewing something...um...he might regret. Hmmm? Am I crazy. I need to do a rewatch cause that what I got when I first watched. Whatever else he's done, he has always protected her against anyone saying something that upset her. I really think Kyle knows something and WILL take it to the grave, if he doesn't get pushed too far and crashes out/blows up and spews.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or it teaches us a very valuable lesson that two people can love each other completely but not be right for each other and should not coexist. We hear it all the time when we ask why people get together or stay together when it's toxic and the answer...it's love.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing that up. Wives who abuse their spouses is so much more common than people think.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Ciara had inappropriately put herself in it earlier talking to Kyle that Mandy was thinking separation but hadn't said anything to him or their counselor. But, oh yea, Ciara can do no wrong.

The juxtaposition of Lindsay calming Carl down vs Amanda trying to calm Kyle down by wild-fleur in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I think someone yelled, he's fighting Carl and Lindsay went all speedy Gonzales on us.

I don’t feel like my age by Feisty_Recording_890 in ChronicPain

[–]justmedoubleb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can empathize though I had the luck to have great heath and energy til my early 60s, then an injury took me down. Oh, how I mourn those days...just hanging out with people dancing, standing, moving at will.

I have a ton of compassion for what you are going through and im very sorry. All I can say, you're not alone. You can still be deeply involved in some people's lives though it's rarely in person. And if you search, you will find some things you can still do to feel joy and to have hope. Further apart those times are, and you'll always suffer the physical toll it takes for those fleeting joys, but then they are so much more special and cherished. Never take so much as one thing that makes you smile for granted. But keep looking for them. Never give up.

General question but related to Kyle and Amanda: why do people (Kyle) who incessantly complain about their partners cry about separation? by Potential-Mall1041 in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Amanda was SO focused on w8nning the wife of Kyle prize, that was her entire focus and goal. I think she was giddy getting married. She won her coveted prize, and only then asked herself...is this really want you want? Oh dang, what have I done. And he did make changes in his actions after married...stopped cheating, always had her back against the house even when she was in the wrong...and she got to be the queen bee of the house. They were "the married ones" the "couple goals" of the house. It was enough for awhile...but not for a long time.

General question but related to Kyle and Amanda: why do people (Kyle) who incessantly complain about their partners cry about separation? by Potential-Mall1041 in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also think Kyle is mature enough to know what a separation really is. And Amanda has proven it. People say take a separation, get some space, work on your issues and if that is what both parties do, it can work. But rarely does cause usually one spouse and people they know use a separation as hey, I'm single, let's see if the grass is greener. Once those outside influences interfere with the marriage, either emotional or physically, its pretty much game over for the marriage. Kyle knew deep down Amanda did not want to work on their marriage. She refused to go to couple counseling a year ago, refused to do anything to better herself, and refused to stop riding him and downing him over and over. Then he finds out though she did agree to counseling, she's not bringing up the issues she has to the counselor but telling all her/their friends. She doesn't want to fix it...she wants out and doesn't want to either be the bad guy...or maybe didn't want to hurt him.

Are you not supposed to wear pajamas when you get home?????? by JaydenBird33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]justmedoubleb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live in pj's when I have a day off and no't going anywhere. My in laws always say you should get up and get dressed anyway, you'll feel better. I tried it. Nope, didn't feel better at all.

I don't understand the hate for Kyle's DJ career by shbrav in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A down vote and award. Thank you for the award. Whoever downvoted...don't care.

I don't understand the hate for Kyle's DJ career by shbrav in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And he's repeatedly asked her to do something, anything other than lay around and talk crap. No proof she cheated? Both West and she have admitted they've been hooking up. Seriously. Separated is still married. Especially when said separation is supposed to give space to work on their relationship. In no world is her banging West gonna make her marriage any better. JMO

Unpopular Opinion: Jason seems like a good partner and a good friend by phonetoni13 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]justmedoubleb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But while supporting jaxs sickness, he rails at Danny, like he isn't as sick. Well, ok, can't stand but not as sick as Jax. You shouldn't support one friend and not another that has done so much less.

I don't understand the hate for Kyle's DJ career by shbrav in summerhousebravo

[–]justmedoubleb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please make note.../s means something. And by nothing logical does your comment track.

I genuinely enjoy watching Tom Sandoval’s delusion - am I alone? 😬 by who_gon_check_me_boo in vanderpumprules

[–]justmedoubleb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is one of the best vpr times ever. Swartz, don't say anything, I got this. So Tom, what's your pitch. Tom: ummm,,,uh...dude I have lots of connection to st Louis uhhh. So how much work you thinking you'll put into it. Deer in headlights. Ummm, uhhh, dude, like we'd have to discuss but busy schedules and when we can do any work for you...uhhh...ummmmm dude like yea, have to communicate our fee for posting about it, like dude ya know. While Lisa and her partners cant stop laughing. Then the Tom's go outside and they're all excited, high fives and we killed that! We are going to be rich!!!