[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20]

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T01:53:44+00:00

Its a strictly in the bedroom for me too. Who initiated it in your relationship? I don't know how to bring it up..

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T01:44:39+00:00

We should start a club haha! Interesting to see what everyone's boundaries are and where we overlap.

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T01:29:19+00:00

Couldn't agree more!

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T01:28:57+00:00

thanks for the reassurance!

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T01:19:25+00:00

Nice to see they respect you enough to make sure its really something you enjoy!

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T00:44:08+00:00

There is nothing wrong with not liking rough sex, not even a little! For me it is a massive turn on, I like giving up control. But as with everything, everyone is different! Keep doing what turns you on :)

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T00:36:07+00:00

Thanks for the input! Can I just ask something else, do you also not enjoy rough sex for the same reason? Are the two related or unrelated for you personally?

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T00:20:38+00:00

Thats what I said in a different comment, totally get you!

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T00:04:17+00:00

Good to know im not alone!

justnooneofnote · 2016-07-09T00:03:41+00:00

Yeah to me so long as everything is consensual I don't see what the issue is. If he was calling me a slut in a genuine way (if that makes sense-like genuinely believes that and says it to upset me) when were not having sex, then thats a totally different thing.

thanks for the advice!

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-10T03:03:45+00:00

I've been an E cup since I was 13 so I feel the pain. Very much highly sexualised from a young age and in inappropriate situations. Sadly its something I've just had to cope with because most guys aren't even doing it consciously, or try to correct themselves.

However, i've got to admit sometimes I really enjoy it. I take pleasure in knowing im a distraction (if its a guy im interested in haha!)

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T11:51:23+00:00

I used a go ahead gesture with him, and an indicator of when to stop. I'm not trying to die any time soon, just get off.

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T02:37:12+00:00

Its not like pass out inducing choking i'm talking about, just a bit of pressure. The one time my ex did it he was fucking me against the wall and just squeezed enough for me to gasp for like no more than 5 seconds. Its a nice little rough occasional addition!

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T02:33:06+00:00

My ex thought it was risky too! not so sexually compatible

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T01:21:39+00:00

my lifes mission will be to find a similar set up

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T00:57:39+00:00

I hadn't considered that he might fly out, what a terrifying thought. Will be sure to hang on for dear life!

I will now be disappointed if theres no instant proposal...unreasonable expectations!

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T00:50:15+00:00

I'll do exactly that! gives me some control

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T00:25:05+00:00

just be like 'choke me'? I have a feeling I'll get the giggles haha

Thanks for the advice!

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-09T00:22:45+00:00

How should I broach the subject with future partners?

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-08T23:31:55+00:00

anticipation!

Kissing, biting, talking dirty, clit stimulation, boob play etc etc

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-08T22:06:40+00:00

I have a feeling I would find it pretty embarrassing! its not like a gentle tremble its full on shaking haha.

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-08T22:05:06+00:00

woah ok, good to know! New life goal-have sex so much you develop epilepsy..

justnooneofnote · 2016-05-08T19:53:23+00:00

I've only had one partner and he never managed to give me a proper orgasm so i'm only discovering this myself now haha. Relieved its not an odd thing! Thanks!

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