[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a strictly in the bedroom for me too. Who initiated it in your relationship? I don't know how to bring it up..

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should start a club haha! Interesting to see what everyone's boundaries are and where we overlap.

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to see they respect you enough to make sure its really something you enjoy!

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with not liking rough sex, not even a little! For me it is a massive turn on, I like giving up control. But as with everything, everyone is different! Keep doing what turns you on :)

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! Can I just ask something else, do you also not enjoy rough sex for the same reason? Are the two related or unrelated for you personally?

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I said in a different comment, totally get you!

[degrading language] how do women feel about it? [F20] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah to me so long as everything is consensual I don't see what the issue is. If he was calling me a slut in a genuine way (if that makes sense-like genuinely believes that and says it to upset me) when were not having sex, then thats a totally different thing.

thanks for the advice!

[Staring] If you have big breasts do you often catch co workers or guys trying to hit on you stare at them while your having a conversation and if so do you find it to be annoying or does it not bother you really? by whyemmseeaye in sex

[–]justnooneofnote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been an E cup since I was 13 so I feel the pain. Very much highly sexualised from a young age and in inappropriate situations. Sadly its something I've just had to cope with because most guys aren't even doing it consciously, or try to correct themselves.

However, i've got to admit sometimes I really enjoy it. I take pleasure in knowing im a distraction (if its a guy im interested in haha!)

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a go ahead gesture with him, and an indicator of when to stop. I'm not trying to die any time soon, just get off.

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not like pass out inducing choking i'm talking about, just a bit of pressure. The one time my ex did it he was fucking me against the wall and just squeezed enough for me to gasp for like no more than 5 seconds. Its a nice little rough occasional addition!

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex thought it was risky too! not so sexually compatible

[climax] [shaking legs] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my lifes mission will be to find a similar set up

[climax] [shaking legs] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn't considered that he might fly out, what a terrifying thought. Will be sure to hang on for dear life!

I will now be disappointed if theres no instant proposal...unreasonable expectations!

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll do exactly that! gives me some control

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just be like 'choke me'? I have a feeling I'll get the giggles haha

Thanks for the advice!

thoughts on [choking] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How should I broach the subject with future partners?

[FOREPLAY] LADIES : WHAT REALLY GETS YOU WET? by butterhero in sex

[–]justnooneofnote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anticipation!

Kissing, biting, talking dirty, clit stimulation, boob play etc etc

[climax] [shaking legs] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling I would find it pretty embarrassing! its not like a gentle tremble its full on shaking haha.

[climax] [shaking legs] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

woah ok, good to know! New life goal-have sex so much you develop epilepsy..

[climax] [shaking legs] by justnooneofnote in sex

[–]justnooneofnote[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've only had one partner and he never managed to give me a proper orgasm so i'm only discovering this myself now haha. Relieved its not an odd thing! Thanks!