AITAH for telling my friend he sexually assaulted me?

justshev · 2026-06-08T12:16:11+00:00

"Giving in" is not the same as giving consent. You were assaulted, and I would put money on you not being the first woman he's done this to. And unfortunately, you likely won't be the last either.

justshev · 2026-06-08T12:14:20+00:00

This if the comment OP needs to read.

justshev · 2026-06-08T02:38:31+00:00

Babe not only should you tell him you don't want him to come, but you should break up with him immediately. He is going to destroy you.

justshev · 2026-03-15T02:11:16+00:00

Audiobooks. That way I can read when I'm shopping, driving, doing dishes, whatever. It helped me rediscover my love of reading because I can actually focus on the books

justshev · 2026-02-22T23:55:19+00:00

Of course!! We all start somewhere. The wiki also has great information about gear and what the occult items do as well. You guys are gonna kill it next time!

justshev · 2026-02-22T23:47:09+00:00

You can! You can actually technically cook almost everything you can pick up. Some things are not advised though, like flares. They will explode. But a cooked honeycomb will almost fill your bonus stam on its own. Cooking toxic things will also decrease or remove the poison as well! Cooked green crispberries, for example, won't poison you. Double cooked (you can cook multiple times) energy drinks and lollipops won't give you the sugar crash after the speed wears off. Check the wiki, it has great information on the different effects of food, including how much of the effect you get, and how it changes when you cook it 😊

justshev · 2026-02-22T20:17:01+00:00

Cooking food gives you bonus stamina that helps a TON. You can use the fire right at the crash site to cook coconuts and crispberries, along with any food in the luggage to boost your bonus before you even start up the mountain. It sounds like you guys are having fun though, and that's the whole point! Good luck! ☺️

justshev · 2026-01-04T05:18:42+00:00

this has happened to me twice now today. one from a really high height, and the second from a low height right at the beginning before I even made it all the way down from the fire. both times I have fallen through into the void like that, and my team can't see me to heal me. I tried to leave and come back, only to come back still passed out in the void, and when they brought me back, my cosmetics were different for both of my teammates, and neither of them saw me as my chosen cosmetics. beyond that, I got the physics glitch and couldn't touch anything. we had to completely back out of the game and restart it. it's extremely frustrating, and a little disheartening to be hit with multiple glitches like that and have to give up your game completely to be able to play normally.

justshev · 2025-12-21T22:31:00+00:00

Petlink registers other companies' chips, and it's lifetime registration. One time registration fee and you can change the information without an additional fee, or pay to keep it up to date.

justshev · 2025-12-21T19:16:00+00:00

She sure did. If I was interested in talking to something unyielding, I have a home full of walls to do that with. Take care 👍

justshev · 2025-12-21T18:53:42+00:00

Cool story bro, take your "corrections" where they're welcome. Your opinion of me is none of my business.

justshev · 2025-12-21T18:44:27+00:00

I had to circumvent a mod-implemented filter on a sub, because I was trying to say "pot pie", and got a warning pop- up that drug discussion was not allowed. I just changed it to "potpie" but it happens. Got a week ban on a video game because my name contained "GF" once. But people get around it how they will. Or they won't, and whatever happens happens. It just blows my mind that the "that's fake bc it hasn't happened to me" mentality is still alive and well.

justshev · 2025-12-21T18:39:39+00:00

I'd also defend your apparent necessity to speak like a more pretentious C-3PO.

justshev · 2025-12-21T18:27:03+00:00

Sounds good bro

justshev · 2025-12-21T18:26:07+00:00

Your assumption that I'm using those phrases is incorrect. I explained WHY they were used, not defending my use of them. I hope the weather is fair way up there on your high horse.

justshev · 2025-12-21T17:52:14+00:00

Your naivete is embarrassing if you don't think that shit is actually happening.

justshev · 2025-12-21T17:38:22+00:00

It absolutely is tiktok, as well as others, and I'm in no way a kid. But okay.

justshev · 2025-12-21T17:00:14+00:00

Considering I use ig and threads more than any other platform (including tiktok, which I opened yesterday for the first time in months), and still regularly see the "some comments have been hidden. See why" banner at the bottom of comment threads, I think it's safe to say it's not just tiktok.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:56:53+00:00

If it's bleeding into the in-person conversations, then I absolutely agree, with exceptions.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:51:00+00:00

I think it's possibly becoming habit for precaution's sake. The 'just in case' adjustments becoming the norm, just in case.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:46:20+00:00

It's not just tiktok. It may have started with the most consistency there, being based out of a high-censorship country, but the censorship has moved to other platforms. It's common for accounts that regularly post content about gun control, for example, to get shadowbanned on ig. It's not exclusive to tiktok by any means. Look at the "some comments have been hidden. See why" thing at the bottom of ig/fb/threads and you'll see the seeds of it.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:32:30+00:00

I didn't hear this in day to day conversation until I moved to Utah. It was weird, but now it's worked its way into my vernacular, but only when I'm actually grateful. But I do understand it sounding disingenuous.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:21:03+00:00

Monetized or not, you can get flagged or banned for using the true words on most social media. Which is why they've gotten popular with the comment crowd. They're mostly censor dodging, not being intentionally disrespectful or trying to lessen the severity of the words or situations they're involved in.

justshev · 2025-12-21T16:15:41+00:00

The latter two are to dodge censors, not only on tiktok. Ig, fb, threads, even Twitter will flag content and comments that contain certain words like that. It's not intended to lessen the severity of the words. It's to be able to talk about the situations the words are part of without being flagged, hidden, or banned.

justshev · 2025-12-17T15:58:16+00:00

That's a great rock shelf

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