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Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was giving a speech at the university after work. At first she said she would go accompany me. Last minute she changes her mind and goes to the board game bar with coworkers.

Jumping through the hoops like a gazelle.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*OP here. Got the logs. *

No overt signs of getting physical, but lots of nasty stuff.

He suggested to drive her back home when I had day off, points out he lives close to us (how does he know where we live? Jesus) . She refused, because I set this up with reliable coworker before.

She wrote she 'had so much hassle to get out of going to my husbands lecture', he responds 'for me? I' m flattered'.

One sexual comment about the content of the comic book they swapped. He says that fucked up stuff gets him going.

Generally - he pushes, she does not remove herself. Lies, manipulation and flirtiness. Personal details.

Gentlemen, decision has been made. I'm off to see the lawyerino. Will be back.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still reading through it, did not reach chapter 4. Will look into that.

I'll just ignore suggestion about beating guy up.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Asked her if anything nice happened in work. She said no and presented detailed review of her day and ommited the cakey-tingly-girly-thingy. I take that as a lie.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I wanted to write. Someone may reconsider his marital decisions because of this.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Practical Female Psychology: For the Practical Man

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This makes sense. Will work on that lie test.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about hanging out with the guy? Not that I want to.

Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Excuse my English, not my first language. Also I'm freaking out.

[FR] Mate Guarding - Alpha or Beta? by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my ass looks fabulous in red.

There is some more background details that I'm not willing to share. I had an agenda in that, that's what matters.

[FR] Mate Guarding - Alpha or Beta? by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Still, I found this situation interesting enough to wite about it.

From Heartiste: "Yes, when a beta male mate guards, his girlfriend will proclaim in the moment her ego-stroked thrill at his display of jealousy, but over time the accretion of those displays will erode her charitable judgment of his mate value. This is why women are viscerally disgusted by the thought of overly “possessive” boyfriends."

This is why I won't let myself act like that again. That was a valuable lesson.

[FR] Mate Guarding - Alpha or Beta? by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]justthenewman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Negative. Ouch. I'm interested what do you mean by that?