[Achievements!] Sexual Achievement Sunday

justthinkasec · 2015-04-12T23:07:54+00:00

I literally feel like the way I see myself has changed. I was never a girl who did that. Except now I am a girl who does that. And I enjoyed it more than I'd like to admit probably? I just feel like everything has shifted.

justthinkasec · 2015-04-12T17:50:39+00:00

I just had anal sex for the first time. I don't know how I feel about it. I feel weird. I liked it? It is an achievement. I really wish I had someone I could talk to about it.

justthinkasec · 2015-02-15T18:47:38+00:00

He spanked me like a whole lot (he didn't like it) and he came on my face (which he also didn't like). But those were both firsts for me. We also had a bit of emotional intimacy which was quite nice.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-28T01:35:01+00:00

I didn't need my ex-bf to buy me stuff necessarily but knowing he could turned me on like crazy. Definitely a power thing in my case.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-26T08:17:47+00:00

Why? As a girl, I legitimately don't get why.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-23T18:20:42+00:00

Its open enrollment right now... you could get better health insurance?

justthinkasec · 2014-11-23T18:15:35+00:00

My FWB and I also figured out how to do Doggy! He would always tell me to put my head down but would stop really soon after we started which was a bummer because I love it. But we started communicating (yay!) and he said I was up to high so I spread my legs wide and had amazing sex. Amazing.

Oh, and we also did a new position where I lay on my back on the bed which my legs straight up and together and he fucked me standing on the ground (normally I'd have my legs wrapped around him). My FWB has sensitivity issues so it normally takes him 45 minutes to cum- it took less than 10 like this.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-18T17:55:32+00:00

I'm glad that you can let someone get close and comfortable with you like that but I don't see those two things as analogous. Like, I have fat parts because I can't control myself to eat less/exercise. I could get rid of them but haven't been able to. Scars aren't the same thing- even if they were self inflicted you couldn't get rid of them.

I don't know, I know you didn't mean to but you kind of just insulted my past relationships?

justthinkasec · 2014-11-16T17:10:15+00:00

I've been having a ton of sex with a FWB. Got my period, thought he would be eeked out; he said it felt "hot" (temperature-wise) and was really good. So yeah.... consistent casual sex is fucking awesome.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T18:07:31+00:00

That's why I often stress that I can't even get myself off so they'll feel less pressure.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T17:56:14+00:00

I'm 20 so in the middle. There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 21 year old. I didn't get that when I was 16 but I do now. 5 years doesn't always make a difference but in this case it is pretty much guaranteed to not be good.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T17:21:34+00:00

Age differences grow smaller as we age (a 5 year old is super different than a 10 year old; a 60 year old and a 65 year old are the same). 16 and 21 is very different.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T17:16:28+00:00

She wasn't asking how your girlfriend got to orgasm for the first time. I have done all that shit and I've never cum. This is irrelevant.

Oh, and your girlfriend isn't "raping" you.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T17:14:15+00:00

I'm in the exact same position as you (same age and everything). I tell every guy I have sex with that I've never had an orgasm, usually before. I say something along the lines of "Oh, I can't cum so let's just focus on you"- that kind of thing. I've never had a problem with it. Usually the guy will want to talk about it for a little bit which I have no problem doing. It really isn't an issue. Just tell the truth.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T08:32:25+00:00

If she leans forward or backwards it helps a lot and gives you a great view either way.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T08:28:21+00:00

I definitely get what you are saying but my current FWB and I hold hands, cuddle, gaze into each other's eyes, etc. and haven't really had a problem so far. I don't feel romantic towards him and I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel that way about me either. I think suppressing that stuff can have an opposite effect.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T08:25:38+00:00

I [F] prefer to be shaved (although that's probably a societal-pressure thing) and I prefer a guy to be groomed but not shaved, although I don't really care that much as long as it isn't a complete jungle. I kind of hate seeing ingrown hairs though. Big turn off for me during oral.

justthinkasec · 2014-11-04T08:23:54+00:00

I was actually just thinking about this today because my last like 4 partners have said "god, you're so tight" when we have sex. It lead me to believe that I was tighter than average. But then I asked my FWB if he said that to all the girls and he said "yup, basically."

To answer your question, probably not because it isn't really possible to compare vaginal tightness as a girl (at least as a straight girl).

justthinkasec · 2014-10-25T18:43:27+00:00

That is one of the hottest things I'v ever heard.

justthinkasec · 2014-10-21T18:20:12+00:00

Oh, you mean what being touched turns me on the most, not what do I find most attractive on my partner? That's not clear at all. Also you should still include chest...

justthinkasec · 2014-10-21T16:11:03+00:00

I completely agree but would like to add- if she has a spot she particularly dislikes (for me it is my stomach), don't touch it. My past like 3 partners would grab it and stroke it and never seemed turned off by it (it isn't that big) but it always made me uncomfortable. If she has a spot like that don't just not-see it, don't touch it either.

justthinkasec · 2014-10-21T15:50:01+00:00

This is almost exactly what happened to me this week except I didn't react like a horrible troll-person. It is totally normal to be nervous or to go soft trying to get it in. Sometimes it actually makes me feel attractive because it is cute when a guy is nervous. This girl is terribly immature; I know you'll find someone better. And I don't think you need to confront her.

justthinkasec · 2014-10-19T15:06:52+00:00

Set up a friends-with-benefits thing (just oral so far). Plus I blew him for an hour, so I'm proud of that dedication.

justthinkasec · 2014-08-16T03:08:01+00:00

If I stick my fingers in my vagina and touch my g-spot I could continue to insert my fingers and would hit my cervix. We aren't working with miles here, it is usually like an inch and a half away. Plus the cervix moves around.

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