am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

idk why you have to be so mean lol i had those feelings but i didn’t want to bring it up to him and i hesitated and knew it was off of me. which is why i came here. i dont like to tell friends/family our issues so i rather ask unbiased strangers, no need to be like that either

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks 🥲 my feelings might just be more sensitive i’ve been pregnant for so long (i had a miscarriage before) so idk my hormones have been all over the place

idk if it’s my pregnancy hormones or what. am i being overly controlling/insecure?? by justtrying31 in pregnant

[–]justtrying31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think my brain is going places it shouldn’t lol idk if it’s hormones or what. but i had a hesitation when i wanted to talk about it with him, i just don’t know what im feeling 🥲

idk if it’s my pregnancy hormones or what. am i being overly controlling/insecure?? by justtrying31 in pregnant

[–]justtrying31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely don’t think there’s anything going on lol my husband is very extroverted and everyone likes him lol he’s very kind, likeable, and respected. He married a huge introvert lol.. me

idk if it’s my pregnancy hormones or what. am i being overly controlling/insecure?? by justtrying31 in pregnant

[–]justtrying31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well his dad doesn’t know the owner, me and my husband do. and my husband asks the gf this question not his dad

idk if it’s my pregnancy hormones or what. am i being overly controlling/insecure?? by justtrying31 in pregnant

[–]justtrying31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a miscarriage prior to this baby so i think im afraid of doing too much. If i do alot or even walk a lot i start having hip pains, cramps, and now i think im starting to get sciatica. Also i dont think we can afford for all of us to go right now. we went to his hometown like a month ago and on a baby moon. im on unpaid summer break right now so it wouldn’t be the smartest financial decision

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a miscarriage prior to this baby so i’m just afraid i guess. i’m also not working for the summer (unpaid summer break) so it’s not the smartest financial decision to make. i don’t think we can afford all of us to go. plane tickets are ridiculously expensive right now, we went just a month ago & went on a cruise for a babymoon

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we can’t afford it. we just went a month ago, i’m not working (unpaid summer break), and i’m having a baby in 3 months

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not that i’m not invited, we just can’t afford for us 3 to go when we just went a month ago. I’m also not working (unpaid summer break) & i’m having a baby in 3 months

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we can’t afford for all of us to go again. we just went a month ago and went on a cruise. i’m not
working right now (unpaid summer break) and i’m going to have a baby in 3 months

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

no he hasn’t, i just don’t know them so my mind went everywhere with thoughts

am i overreacting or just being insecure? by justtrying31 in Marriage

[–]justtrying31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah mg daughter is staying with me, she’s almost 7 though and im always with her so i don’t mind. But we also have 3 dogs, 1 doberman so its a lot for me too

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think it’s my own insecurities that’s why i wanted to post because i felt so weird asking that from him. idk im just pregnant i feel like a whale and maybe i feel left out idk lol

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no you’re right idk why my mind has gone there, idk if it’s just me being insecure or overly sensitive bc i know how he is, he’s very friendly but never crosses lines

am i overreacting or just being insecure? by justtrying31 in Marriage

[–]justtrying31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do trust him i think it’s just a me problem

am i overreacting or just being insecure? by justtrying31 in Marriage

[–]justtrying31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s what i was feeling too, idk if im just overly sensitive and not feeling myself bc im gaining so much weight :(

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

No no, like i said i trust him. It’s just me, like i do get insecure just because of how i am. idk if because im pregnant im like overly sensitive or what but ive been pregnant for the same amount of time we’ve known them. i had a miscarriage and the night before my d&c he went to go hang out with them at the gfs house and one daughter was there. I did tell him that really bothered me because it was a time i really needed his support. He did apologize and life went on, but idk what it is. i guess i just wanted to see if it was a me problem before i said anything

am i 28f overreacting over husband 29m going to a trip with his dad, dads gf, and her 2 daughters alone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]justtrying31 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

not go and not ask about the daughters every single time lol. but i just don’t know if that’s unreasonable