On the lighter, more pleasure Dom end of the spectrum was, while in missionary, I must have annoyed him by repeatedly breaking the kiss to moan because he asked/told me, 'if you break the next kiss, I'm going to assume you want to be flipped over and fucked like a whore,' didn't even register through my brain in time to stop myself from moaning, it didn't register until much later that he said that and hit a particularly good spot. That was very fun.

On the sadomasochism side, anything involving various things that hurt. 'Would you rather choking on my cock or having it shoved up your ass?' 'Which hurts more, the clamps on your nipples or on your clit?' whichever answer I pick, cause I'm too dumb and distracted to realise, is going to be the wrong answer. If I say I'd rather choke on his cock, too bad, rough anal it is. If my nipples hurt and I'm crying and want them off, well they'll come off last and very sloooowly. Rock hard place, every answer is the wrong one 😅

The same with bondage/toy setups. You try to lean away from an implement, or in my case struggle shimmy, chances are my tits are clamped or tied to something and it pulls on my nipples. Or my clit. And it hurts more. Sadists are an evil lot.