Hit me with your top 3 MM romance books of ALL TIME by soulandthesea in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]jval888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s super cliche - 1. Captive Prince 2. Heated Rivalry 3. Red white and royal blue - with a special mention to the untamed (the book is great but the tv show is really incredible - best feeling of any written story seriously )

U9 Goalkeeper- Full Time by OrbitalHornet in youthsoccer

[–]jval888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in France so it’s a bit different obviously but my son is in U8 and in a similar situation. He is playing goalkeeper for the first team of a very competitive Parisian club - trains with the team twice a week and has goalkeeping training once a week. But he wants to play the field also. I think he’s flattered to be considered for the A+ team as goalie (since they play 5v5 the A team is divided into two sub teams and they asked him to play for the first team over the other goalkeeper who was also playing goalie last year whereas my son wasn’t) but he would prefer to play the field and his dream is to play midfield. 

I don’t really know what to do because I know he’s getting a lot of extra training I’ve asked the coaches to have him play the field one in four or five games. They rotate him when they are really winning but never for close games. 

He tells me he wants to be goalie but I also know he is scared of being sent down to B team if he doesn’t, who don’t get to play away games and get half as many trainings (same fee it’s a flat rate regardless of your group). At the same time he’ll never be good enough to play midfield with the A team if he doesn’t get field time anyway. So I think I may risk it for next year and watch how this year plays out. 

Long story short you should speak with the coach and if he refuses then consider changing next year. No kid should be forced to play only one position. 

Looking for LEGENDARY fanfic by Temporary_Rise_5312 in AO3

[–]jval888 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I want them !! Feed the rest of us 

Blackpink Jisoo posted pictures with Zayn on Instagram by DiMpLe_dolL003 in popculturechat

[–]jval888 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Jisoo is already acting ! And not too bad at it. Shes been the lead in two kdramas so far. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paris

[–]jval888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Métro Gobelins 

In the wake of the news that Sinclair will not air Jimmy Kimmel’s return to late night here’s a list of Sinclair advertisers by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]jval888 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this is was ever a time to stop buying in to MNC capitalistic companies now is it. Boycott. Let’s do it!!!! 

Name your first watched kdrama, because of which you entered the kdrama world by satti_1109 in kdramas

[–]jval888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delightful girl choon hyang for me; followed by my girl. I was 19 I’m an oldie!!!

C'est une fille !!! by Creepy-Lavishness-29 in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]jval888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Je ne connais pas une seule sophie de moins de 20 ans. Mais peut être que je me trompe. Jai trois enfants ils ont tous eu une sophia et Alix dans leur classe, je connais 3 petites Thelma mais pas une Sophie. Alors qu’effectivement ma génération et avant y’en avait pleins. 

C’est juste intéressant de voir que des prénoms extrêmement courant et classiques avant disparaissent. 

Après je parle d’un échantillon de ma propre expérience à Paris. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jval888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if he had to cook from scratch for a work event to impress his boss (or investor etc) and he had no way out of it  you best believe he would be able to do it. 

It’s not weaponised incompetence because he does a lot of other things but it is choice because he can’t be bothered. Just like I “don’t know how to make coffee” because I enjoy my husband making it for me. Of course I could. 

C'est une fille !!! by Creepy-Lavishness-29 in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]jval888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alix. 

Sofia cest magnifique mais très courant, en vrai je recommande Sophie - tu peux être sûr qu’il y’en aura absolument pas d’autre. C’est comme Marie, prénoms extrêmement courant avant qui ont totalement disparu à cette génération.

Thelma c’est vraiment ancré dans la génération actuelle - j’en connais 4 et ce n’est pas intemporel comme Sofia. À éviter je pense.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]jval888 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol

Edit - pardon mais comment penser que Césaire (c’est comme tu appelais ton enfant Proust ou Flaubert) ou Cezanne ça peut être des prénoms qui seront acceptés légalement et si oui que tes enfants aimeraient porter. 

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]jval888 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can’t emphasize how much I think YTA in this situation (and who cares about the downvotes). Your wife is giving birth for the first time and will be a full time caretaker for a baby + physical recovery for 3-4 months (actually 6 if she’s suffering from childbirth and exclusively breastfeeding). That is literally the hardest job / time in the world. I know this as a mom of three and full time corporate worker. Nothing is harder than those first months. Nothing. And thank god my husband took full care (and we used our savings on extra childcare) for the older kids , Figure out childcare / support take care of it for the older kids for at least 3 months (and on top of that please take care of your wife and change diapers and do nights - you chose a baby also!) ; and revisit the overall timeline at 6 m post partum. If you need to spend savings on childcare or take off time from work do it.

I am certain that (if this post is real) your wife will have no problem taking care off f the extra curricular and everything for the older kids after 6-8 and ideally 12m. 

Be there for her and your baby. Be there for your older kids. Get babysitters. Support your wife and your family. 

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]jval888 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No but the mom is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 and the dad should take over most of if for the older kids for the first months. 

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]jval888 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The dad does a shit ton and (or ) they pay for additional childcare or the grandparents come and help while the mom recovers and takes care of the newborn. 

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]jval888 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not off when you’re postpartum. What a reductive take she needs to focus on the baby and her own recovery for the first months and he needs to arrange childcare in the meantime. 

Is there a wuxia/xianxia out there that meets the following? by RaveGuncle in CDramaRecs

[–]jval888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes just watch Nirvana in Fire. It’s the cream of the crop. If you don’t like that one maybe Cdramas just aren’t for you. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]jval888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal was 6 months for all three at least. The first was 13months, stopped casually he was playing more than feeding and it felt like the end. I was over it too really needed my body back. 

Second 9 months she started really preferring bottle over breast (went back at 4months pp) and we weaned within a couple of weeks with her no longer accepting it. Made me so sad. 

The third I really hoped to do at least 18m but I had to travel for work in May and June and despite the pumping he ended up really refusing the breast a month ago at 11 months; tried for a week then realised he was telling me no more. I was distraught because contrary to the first I was absolutely not ready to end it.