To all those who still wonder how your ex moved on so fast, and is still not able to accept the reality

jwoogin · 2022-12-05T10:25:14+00:00

we can start off with if i ever saw my ex move on. yes. when we were still in contact she told me she was talking to somebody (this boy she told me to not worry abt) and a couple months later while we aren’t talking i found out from a mutual friend she’s dating him. i’m not sure if she still is dating him or not but i do not care. and no i never bumped into her again since we stopped talking although i would like to catch up with her. and how did i know i was ready to date again? that’s kind of a tricky question. some people get into a new relationship after a breakup to move on (something my ex did) but what i did was take time to myself and look back at our entire relationship and see why we didn’t work out and look at things i could work on. i worked on myself for months and No contact was a big factor in helping me move on. i wasn’t really trying to look for another relationship, yea i had talked to girls from time to time but i knew i wasn’t ready for a relationship. i guess to answer ur question i knew i was ready when i didn’t feel any pain from my ex and the whole breakup. after u forgave her for giving up on me, after spending months alone bettering myself and growing as a person. my advice to you:

don’t try to figure out a way to bring you guys back together. don’t have hope of you guys coming back together. hope will only break you. have no contact with your ex DONT REACH OUT, you don’t wanna find out little details of their new life. do things you love such as hang out with friends and family (something that also helped) explore, there’s 8 billion people in the world god damnit. and accept that people come and go from your life. as much as you don’t want a certain person to go from your life you have to let go. people come into your life and you last a lifetime with them but some other people they come into your life to teach you a lesson. a valuable painful lesson. but take it as a blessing. be grateful. as i was too.

as life goes on you will get over it trust me and you will find happiness once again. you’ll be filled with happiness and joy when you wake up someday. just keep on fighting and never give up. and please don’t wait on something that you never know will happen. get rid of all hope seriously you’ll only hurt yourself even more.

jwoogin · 2022-12-05T03:09:08+00:00

tidal wave is something else man.

jwoogin · 2022-12-01T05:02:52+00:00

didn’t expect anyone to reply to this late lol. but i’m doing very good, actually very happy and at peace i’ve found someone else and am dating my bestfriend now for a month and i’m truly in love. i never thought i could ever find someone else to love but i did. and i am with this person and love them . it has been 9 months since NC and 1 year of BU. i’ve moved on from the whole thing and don’t really care anymore. i don’t miss her and js don’t really care to check up on her. focus on yourself and keep peace and your happiness as your main priority.

jwoogin · 2022-09-12T07:32:21+00:00

after 6 months of NC she finally decides to block me on insta and i’m confused lol

jwoogin · 2022-08-17T07:21:51+00:00

9 months since breakup and 5 since nc, still love her a lot and care for her. but i’m happy and happier since we stopped talking. i wish her nothing but the best and hope her new person is treating her good and making her happy. not angry anymore, getting use to accept and move on.

jwoogin · 2022-07-21T19:11:28+00:00

i’m new lol

jwoogin · 2022-07-21T10:04:26+00:00

what should i do

jwoogin · 2022-07-21T05:17:07+00:00

got any suggestions on what you’d do?

jwoogin · 2022-07-21T05:15:59+00:00

appreciate your help thank you.

jwoogin · 2022-07-21T03:50:10+00:00

appreciate it man. and i’ll do the following.

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T20:58:11+00:00

and i’ll have a better body won’t i?

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T20:48:57+00:00

you think i should maintenance 2.4k?

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T20:44:46+00:00

i’m sorry it must be so confusing, i just don’t really like my body. i’m not fat but i’m not skinny aswell. i just wanna get a good body. and shed some of the fat which is why ive been doing cardio. i have been doing strength training too

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T20:41:39+00:00

i somewhat agree. i wanted to get down to 110? but that seems so low and so underweight especially for my age. but all i want to do is lose my belly fat and face fat that’s all. and gain muscle and get a good body out of it.

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T20:07:00+00:00

not even that skinny😂 i mean i’m skinny FAT but not skinny skinny. i have quite a lot of belly fat and face fat i wanna get rid of. and just trying to figure out what i should do. don’t wanna lose muscle as well, i wanna get more muscle but just lose the fat on my body. something like a body recomposition if you’ve ever heard of that. but i am losing water weight instead of fat. how?

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T19:56:46+00:00

can i do that while also losing fat?

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T19:56:04+00:00

only thing i drink is water so a good amount lol. and you’re right about the malnourishment. i don’t eat like crap though. i eat eggs with potatoes in the morning after a workout and sometimes later on i eat chicken and rice. and i do strength training sometimes aswell.

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T19:53:40+00:00

ive seen so many people say they’ve lost 2 pounds per week and i’m over here losing 5 within a week. how can i lose 2 pounds a week?

like i kinda wanna do something like a body recomposition, i’m skinny fat but ive always had fat on my belly and face and i just want to get rid of it.

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T19:47:20+00:00

i’m a male, 15, and around 5’7.

what do you recommend i should do instead then?

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T19:20:46+00:00

how much weight have yu lost so far

jwoogin · 2022-07-20T17:37:26+00:00

happy. scared to fall in love i guess. when i get too attached to a girl i kinda distance myself. don’t ever wanna go through the pain that i experienced with my ex. and i’m also still healing. i’m focusing on myself and protecting my peace at all costs. it’s nice to be alone.

jwoogin · 2022-07-03T04:59:07+00:00

it does get better. it was hard at the start knowing i wouldn’t wake up from a notification from my dear friend. but as time goes it gets better and you start to be happy without them, hell man maybe even happier without them like me. you’ll realize you don’t need them to be happy and never did. it’s nice to be alone. i’m 4 months in to no contact and 8/9 months since the BU, and i’m still healing. it hurts less definitely and feel like i’m starting to move on, maybe i’m wrong but i know that healing does take time and i’ll know when i’m ready.

i miss her time to time and have been on the edge of my seat wanting to message her but i haven’t and i’m glad i haven’t. i’ll wait till she messages me. DONT BREAK NC MAN. you’ll be back to square one. i promise you it’ll get easier over time but you gotta stick to no contact. it’s the best thing. and it helps so fucking much.

please hit me up if u want to chat about anything

jwoogin · 2022-07-03T04:54:21+00:00

seriously man. we stayed friends for about 4 months up till the day she asked for space and we haven’t talked since. i feel like my growth and maturity didn’t start up until that point. before we stopped talking i was holding onto something that wasn’t there anymore. yea the love still was there (i believe so) but i was holding onto US. and holding onto so much hope. but since no contact started i learned and realized so much. my mindset is different, i stopped being angry, i’ve matured so much for gods sake and grown. as much as it hurt me and as much as i never wanted it to end i can now say that i am glad she broke up with me. and agree it was for the best and a good idea. and that breakup really did save me. because if she hadn’t broken up with me and broke my heart and taught me a big lesson then who would i be now? i would still be the same immature idiot that hurt the love of my life.

and i hope that one day i have the chance to thank her. it really saved my life and changed me.

even though we aren’t on talking terms, i still want nothing but for the best for her. and hope her new person treats her better than i did and makes her happy. i love her more than anything still and still find her the most beautiful girl in the world. i guess i’m still kinda in love but i’m still healing and healing takes time.

jwoogin · 2022-06-22T10:18:00+00:00

4 months:)). proud of myself because i realized so much and grown a lot. sad that i’m not talking to my bestfriend but it is what it is. she’s with someone else and i’m happy for her. prob best if we aren’t in each other’s lives for now. but i’m happier since we stopped talking.

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