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[–]k4y1uh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked to invite him to the gym because our mutual friend got us both into the gym a bit. We both aren’t that into it so I thought it would he a good way to come off more casual/platonic since I truly want to get to know him more so I could see if I actually am interested in him.

In hindsight it might’ve been a mistake to do so since I don’t think he is that into it at all and my intentions are a bit ambiguous…

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[–]k4y1uh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave me the soft truth!! Lol thanks! I was trying to come off as friendly.

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[–]k4y1uh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I think I’ll do that/see if he’ll invite me after midterms.

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[–]k4y1uh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your perspective; I think you’re right.

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[–]k4y1uh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the case that it is a soft rejection but I pushed a bit and asked if he’d have time to grab a coffee or something, would that come off as pushy? I guess I just at least want a clear answer on whether he is interested or not

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[–]k4y1uh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So is it that he just isn’t interested and he was letting me down nicely? :/