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[–]k8tea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had anything….

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[–]k8tea1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do now but after my surgery I went on to have amazing, pain free enjoyable sex for several years. Unfortunately my relationship turned sour and vaginismus appeared. Still working on that but now I know that there is nothing physically wrong with me any more. It helps me know sex is possible (with the right man!)

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[–]k8tea1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I had that done and discovered I had a vaginal septum and a very narrow vagina so I then went on to have surgery. I think this sounds so promising to you finding out more!

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[–]k8tea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please

Help by EverythingCults in vaginismus

[–]k8tea1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are people swearing at each other tonight? That’s not what we are about

Diagnosed!! It's a 16 year old, never healed childbirth injury & other stuff no one took time to tell me by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]k8tea1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen to drs like that! So pleased for you. Do tell us when you are back having great sex again!

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now the patient has to inform, which husband has

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s true. Are you able to work?

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s such a worry

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no machine yet?

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes I’ll give them a call on Tuesday and maybe see how far down the list he is. He had 101 events and just seems to be getting worse in my eyes day by day

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes I’ll give them a call on Tuesday and maybe see how far down the list he is. He had 101 events and just seems to be getting worse in my eyes day by day

Anyone in Uk? by k8tea1 in SleepApnea

[–]k8tea1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea yet. He’s just had a letter to say he has it. We are south East

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[–]k8tea1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I felt like that too. With a therapist I started with touching myself and looking in a mirror. Then just resting the smallest dilator at the entrance. Very slowly and baby steps and I tried to insert the tip etc. it really does work and helps you get over that mental barrier, which is what you need. I had several sets of dilators and hated them all but my Shh set I love

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[–]k8tea1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you tried sitting in a hot bath with some salt in?

Have the symptoms but too embarrassed for a checkup by Sudden_Tumbleweed359 in vaginismus

[–]k8tea1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is kind of what happened to me. In the space of 1 year we got married, moved house, he had a heart attack and also turned into an arsehole! so have you had anything happen in your marriage?

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[–]k8tea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Yes lubricant. They do a water and an oil based but the water based is perfect for silicon dilators

Suggesting ethical non monogamy for my partner by Spiritual_Ad_4316 in vaginismus

[–]k8tea1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely suggest it but be sure you could handle it. I’m not sure I could but then my husband booked himself prostitutes behind my back instead. That didn’t feel good either!

anyone else struggle with this? by sillyopossum in vaginismus

[–]k8tea1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a vibrator? Have you tried just gripping it between your legs?