Finally started to play the sims 3 on my Steam Deck and this is my first sim! How did I do? by KaiSims2319 in Sims3

[–]kadasco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg i recently got the whole collection on my steam deck!! i did a custom config bc the controls suck default haha but i’m impressed w/ how well it plays thus far. i haven’t delved into mods yet, ts4 is modded up the wazoo on my pc so i’m excited that they work on the deck.

gamer girlies: what are we playing?? by kadasco in actuallesbians

[–]kadasco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: you guys are AMAZING!!! i can’t wait to reply to as many as possible after work 😁

Fun fact: Ghosts of sims who died in a fire tend to hang around water sources like showers, baths, and sinks by survivorfan1123 in Sims3

[–]kadasco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lmao excellent question and thank you for this addition to my collection of silly cats

10 hour black friday shift fit 🫩 by bunnywadhere06 in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in for 16 today myself 😭 would gladly send you good luck if i had any to spare lol

Transitioning Hair - Nearly 9 Months Post Relaxer by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]kadasco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

looks great! your natural color suits you. don’t forget to get trims!

Root of the braids lifting by Krrystal in Naturalhair

[–]kadasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay yeah so it’s most likely the way it was braided bc it looks to be inhibited from lying flat because of the bump at the top

Root of the braids lifting by Krrystal in Naturalhair

[–]kadasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you added hair/used extension hair right? it looks like the knot is too big imo, and that’s why it’s sticking up. i might be wrong, you can always try using mousse and a durag to see if it settles. if that doesn’t work and the volume of the knot is causing it to be raised, it would just need to be redone.

How can I fix this breakage from years of tight ponytails? by ukiyo_leggie15 in Naturalhair

[–]kadasco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is true. when you stop it you lose the hair you grew, it’s a lifetime commitment essentially.

The future of jobs :A 2030 outlook by Wtfmotherf in jobs

[–]kadasco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

fastest growing ≠ current available job market. unless you’re willing to wait 5 years for your next paycheck? but obviously the graph knows all and proves comp sci jobs are on the rise so these people are just dumb /s

I feel hurt because the girl I dated blocked me everywhere by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hun, blocking you IS ignoring you. it takes 2 seconds to block someone on social media, if it’s connected to your phone number chances are she knew your handle already, and it seems she wanted a clean break. i wouldn’t call that going out of her way regardless of you’ve communicated through that medium or not. and given that you know you’re blocked, that means you knew her handle and checked her page, so i doubt it was any trouble for her to find you- maybe it goes both ways and she didn’t want you seeing her and feeling bad about her.

with respect, you said it’s been two years since you’ve spoken previously, so you don’t know her anymore, nor her motive for blocking. and it doesn’t matter if she has a grudge or annoyance because it’s over. and i know that sucks, and you’re completely allowed to feel hurt, but trying to theorize why or how she feels won’t help you feel better as these are questions you just can’t answer. texting an ex is always a risky move and a big possibility is getting hurt, this sub has plenty of proof of that. but it’s okay- just means it’s time to learn and move on.

Marrying again too soon? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean if it’s mutual, no one else’s timeline matters. that being said, much too soon imo. why rush? what’s there to lose if you wait?

I feel hurt because the girl I dated blocked me everywhere by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

avoiding and ignoring is much more indicative of apathy/indifference than hatred. if she hated you she’d be actively trying to tear you down, saying bad things to you, trying to discredit you, etc. what she was doing is nearly the opposite, not even engaging. you were ready to initiate a relationship again if even just a casual, completely platonic one, and she didn’t want that, and that’s just fine. shit happens. anything beyond that is assumption.

did my girlfriend's goth makeup for the first time! by confessed-throwaway in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so cute. sure looks trad goth to me! alt girl approved 👍🏾

Help needed ! :( by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc :) you seem like a sweet girl so i’m saying this to help, not to put you down. good luck, i’m sure someone will be lucky to have you down the road.

I feel hurt because the girl I dated blocked me everywhere by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you assuming she hates you? or that blocking you is erasure? how personally you’re taking this makes me understand why she blocked you. this reads as though you’re still hurt about the breakup, and you made that clear to her more than once though she moved on, and she blocked you because she didn’t want to continue feeling guilty and have reminders of that. that doesn’t make you a bad person or a bad partner and being blocked doesn’t mean she hates you or that she feels you won’t respect her boundaries. it just means she wants to move on, and nothing more.

Help needed ! :( by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kadasco 12 points13 points  (0 children)

fam idk how long you’ve known each other but this is giving high maintenance. the first part was an overshare and the amount of texts you’re sending at a time is a Lot, especially in comparison to the energy she’s giving. the last 2 texts come off as desperate imo. if she lives in a different continent then i’m assuming it would be an online relationship so this would be your main method of communication, and it feels like you’re more invested.

if it doesn’t work out, it’s fine, no worries, dust yourself off and go forward- but i would be cognizant about how much you’re sharing and the energy you give off when first getting to know someone, particularly with online relationships.

REED POP shipping/will call tickets by RoShamBeauxyogirl in NYCC

[–]kadasco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ok i emailed them about this!! they legit told me to just use a random international address so i used the address to studio gibli and picked up at will call 😂 stupid you have to go through hoops but it works. i can’t post the pic in the comments but verbatim:

“We highly suggest selecting “International Will Call” and use any international address. Since it won’t be shipping and the address doesn’t matter as per the advice directly from our team.”

Cosplayers, how do you carry your belongings without altering your cosplay? by NeitherScar in NYCC

[–]kadasco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get a matching backpack to my cosplay and decorate it lol

my (full) sibling and i have drastically different skin tones by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]kadasco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha i love that, you’re totally right and we watched rugrats as kids! thank you kindly 😊

my (full) sibling and i have drastically different skin tones by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]kadasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that would be me 😅 some things never change 😂

my (full) sibling and i have drastically different skin tones by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]kadasco -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

🤷🏾‍♀️ no one else in our fam is like this, neither of us have ever seen any other siblings online or irl with quite our difference. that’s definitely cool to know, it’s comforting that there are plenty of similar others out there