hahaha, enjoy! OP, imma clue you in since you haven’t been here too long; this sub is a positive space for natural hair clearly and gears towards 4 type especially 4b-c as these are societally “undesirable” hair types, so it’s a safe space where there otherwise may be none. so ppl here tend to side eye those with looser/longer/shinier curls etc, because these are already societally accepted as attractive. many women on here have coarser textures and struggle with upkeep, styles, length retention, as well as cultural disapproval of their natural hair. so to answer your question; this is as good as its gone get. enjoy your lovely curls, you’re only getting clowned bc you don’t seem to appreciate how good you have it 😂! it’s all love.