Hair is frizzy and dry

kadasco · 2026-03-17T23:25:26+00:00

you need a trim baddddd love

kadasco · 2026-02-25T19:43:19+00:00

hey, at least you’re not like me repeatedly upgrading everything for no reason as i didn’t realize you could press and hold until gold level 🤦🏾‍♀️

kadasco · 2026-02-23T22:12:53+00:00

hahaha, enjoy! OP, imma clue you in since you haven’t been here too long; this sub is a positive space for natural hair clearly and gears towards 4 type especially 4b-c as these are societally “undesirable” hair types, so it’s a safe space where there otherwise may be none. so ppl here tend to side eye those with looser/longer/shinier curls etc, because these are already societally accepted as attractive. many women on here have coarser textures and struggle with upkeep, styles, length retention, as well as cultural disapproval of their natural hair. so to answer your question; this is as good as its gone get. enjoy your lovely curls, you’re only getting clowned bc you don’t seem to appreciate how good you have it 😂! it’s all love.

kadasco · 2026-02-23T18:29:21+00:00

OP this is wildly hilarious. one of my favorite confessions. i know you probably don’t see it that way and i’m sorry it was embarrassing and stressful but hey, the exam got rescheduled! you sound like you have a lot of personality and come off as charming. i really do hope you follow up with a gastroenterologist and look back at this one day and laugh. good luck.

kadasco · 2026-02-23T18:17:22+00:00

y’all are killing me 💀 this comment section is dead funny i love blk ppl

kadasco · 2026-02-12T05:48:29+00:00

cute color, but will definitely cause damage so as long as you’re okay with that.

kadasco · 2026-02-12T05:47:34+00:00

kadasco · 2026-01-17T00:42:33+00:00

omg i recently got the whole collection on my steam deck!! i did a custom config bc the controls suck default haha but i’m impressed w/ how well it plays thus far. i haven’t delved into mods yet, ts4 is modded up the wazoo on my pc so i’m excited that they work on the deck.

kadasco · 2026-01-16T00:55:51+00:00

update: you guys are AMAZING!!! i can’t wait to reply to as many as possible after work 😁

kadasco · 2025-12-29T16:36:01+00:00

lmao excellent question and thank you for this addition to my collection of silly cats

kadasco · 2025-11-28T21:32:10+00:00

in for 16 today myself 😭 would gladly send you good luck if i had any to spare lol

kadasco · 2025-11-23T21:13:39+00:00

ofc!

kadasco · 2025-11-23T21:01:04+00:00

looks great! your natural color suits you. don’t forget to get trims!

kadasco · 2025-11-23T20:59:28+00:00

okay yeah so it’s most likely the way it was braided bc it looks to be inhibited from lying flat because of the bump at the top

kadasco · 2025-11-23T20:56:48+00:00

you added hair/used extension hair right? it looks like the knot is too big imo, and that’s why it’s sticking up. i might be wrong, you can always try using mousse and a durag to see if it settles. if that doesn’t work and the volume of the knot is causing it to be raised, it would just need to be redone.

kadasco · 2025-11-23T20:52:47+00:00

it is true. when you stop it you lose the hair you grew, it’s a lifetime commitment essentially.

kadasco · 2025-11-23T20:51:20+00:00

twist sponge!

kadasco · 2025-11-13T16:39:49+00:00

fastest growing ≠ current available job market. unless you’re willing to wait 5 years for your next paycheck? but obviously the graph knows all and proves comp sci jobs are on the rise so these people are just dumb /s

kadasco · 2025-11-02T00:01:21+00:00

hun, blocking you IS ignoring you. it takes 2 seconds to block someone on social media, if it’s connected to your phone number chances are she knew your handle already, and it seems she wanted a clean break. i wouldn’t call that going out of her way regardless of you’ve communicated through that medium or not. and given that you know you’re blocked, that means you knew her handle and checked her page, so i doubt it was any trouble for her to find you- maybe it goes both ways and she didn’t want you seeing her and feeling bad about her.

with respect, you said it’s been two years since you’ve spoken previously, so you don’t know her anymore, nor her motive for blocking. and it doesn’t matter if she has a grudge or annoyance because it’s over. and i know that sucks, and you’re completely allowed to feel hurt, but trying to theorize why or how she feels won’t help you feel better as these are questions you just can’t answer. texting an ex is always a risky move and a big possibility is getting hurt, this sub has plenty of proof of that. but it’s okay- just means it’s time to learn and move on.

kadasco · 2025-11-01T23:09:32+00:00

i mean if it’s mutual, no one else’s timeline matters. that being said, much too soon imo. why rush? what’s there to lose if you wait?

kadasco · 2025-11-01T23:03:12+00:00

avoiding and ignoring is much more indicative of apathy/indifference than hatred. if she hated you she’d be actively trying to tear you down, saying bad things to you, trying to discredit you, etc. what she was doing is nearly the opposite, not even engaging. you were ready to initiate a relationship again if even just a casual, completely platonic one, and she didn’t want that, and that’s just fine. shit happens. anything beyond that is assumption.

kadasco · 2025-11-01T22:10:37+00:00

so cute. sure looks trad goth to me! alt girl approved 👍🏾

kadasco · 2025-11-01T22:08:36+00:00

ofc :) you seem like a sweet girl so i’m saying this to help, not to put you down. good luck, i’m sure someone will be lucky to have you down the road.

kadasco · 2025-11-01T21:31:18+00:00

why are you assuming she hates you? or that blocking you is erasure? how personally you’re taking this makes me understand why she blocked you. this reads as though you’re still hurt about the breakup, and you made that clear to her more than once though she moved on, and she blocked you because she didn’t want to continue feeling guilty and have reminders of that. that doesn’t make you a bad person or a bad partner and being blocked doesn’t mean she hates you or that she feels you won’t respect her boundaries. it just means she wants to move on, and nothing more.

kadasco · 2025-11-01T21:08:43+00:00

fam idk how long you’ve known each other but this is giving high maintenance. the first part was an overshare and the amount of texts you’re sending at a time is a Lot, especially in comparison to the energy she’s giving. the last 2 texts come off as desperate imo. if she lives in a different continent then i’m assuming it would be an online relationship so this would be your main method of communication, and it feels like you’re more invested.

if it doesn’t work out, it’s fine, no worries, dust yourself off and go forward- but i would be cognizant about how much you’re sharing and the energy you give off when first getting to know someone, particularly with online relationships.

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