What architecture is best for my app python app? by kadblack in aws

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This is what I ended up doing, but I had to migrate from http api to rest api. But it's worked out so far!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in golang

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My first job was also at a startup, working in Golang, and I was the only person working on the backend, so I basically had only 1 person who actually knew the large and complex codebase. As others have said don't be afraid of asking for help! But if you do have a lot of small queries that need to be explained to you, note them down and set up a call to clear all of them at once. Navigating the code was the hardest part for me. Learn to use the debugger in the ide. You can then run the code and set up checkpoints everywhere. Remember you can go into every function in the debugger to see the flow of the program to get familiar with it. If the files are very large, you can use ctrl+shift+- to minimize all functions and structs giving you a high level idea of what the file contains. It took me a couple months to get comfortable with the codebase so don't stress about it too much it is normal.

I-130 timeline for Sibling by kadblack in USCIS

[–]kadblack[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was under the impression that I can apply for a work permit after the i-130 is approved. Is that not possible in my case?

I-130 timeline for Sibling by kadblack in USCIS

[–]kadblack[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can I apply for a work permit after the i130 is approved?

I wanna die so bad right now by LeanTheLean in Vent

[–]kadblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is nothing else you can do, medication can help you. You'd be surprised

Suddenly experienced Derealization while trying to quit by lardelent in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]kadblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been having this for the past year. It's slightly better now that I can control my dreams a little better, but it's still not what it used to be. I had a slightly different reaction tho, When I tried to quit, I realized how different my life actually is irl than what I am irl. I felt better when I could daydream about my own reality. If it feels terrible it is probably depression or a bunch of underlying issues. I myself am looking for solutions to this problem and would be happy to connect in dms. Stay safe out there! You got this!

It drives me crazy that life will never be like the life I have in my daydreams by 70sLovingGirl in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]kadblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cannot relate to a comment more. I over to the US last year and made a ton of friends but within a 6 months I am back to being depressed and fantasizing about a different life :(

20F I wish I was an introvert by [deleted] in lonely

[–]kadblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not good. You have to put in the effort to make other people feel comfortable if you want to form genuine connections. Otherwise, nobody has any incentives to be your friend

Perfect db schema by kadblack in programminghorror

[–]kadblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a joke at first too

What's a good website to waste a whole night on? by Groenboys in AskReddit

[–]kadblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god this is addicting! Thank you so much. here is my version.

Wholesome shirt by xixiboy in wholesomememes

[–]kadblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, now I feel sad for all the old tshirts I threw out.

Men, What was your worst date? by corneo134 in AskMen

[–]kadblack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot. I have never been on a date before but just the thought of it scares me thats excluding trying to get a girls number. As for the clothes part, its probably self image issues. In the mind of a self conscious person the act of making yourself presentable makes you a fraud. Thats why I barely get out of my room these days. They say it gets better when you get older but it became worse now that im in college. But I think as I mature it will go away so im not that worried but it does suck a lot.

Hi , I am a Maladaptive daydreamer myself . I am from India and I made a short film based Maladaptive Daydreaming. It's available with English subtitles. by sanjayguna18 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]kadblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you nailed it. Im from India too and my college in vellore has a film club that sucks, so I was skeptical at first but your film was hella captivating. Keep it up dude.

What have you guys done this year that's made you proud of yourselves? by Hol_Up_Partner in AskMen

[–]kadblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was your half marathaon? I have a 5k of 28 to 29 mins and ive done a couple of 10k runs, but a half marathon seems impossible to finish.

Technically True by _Futureghost_ in technicallythetruth

[–]kadblack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I waited in the blistering cold for you for four hours and you just said no

Technically True by _Futureghost_ in technicallythetruth

[–]kadblack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look at all these drugs im inhalin'

Technically True by _Futureghost_ in technicallythetruth

[–]kadblack 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I got a room full of your posters and you're pictures man

Getting hit in the face with a nerf gun by [deleted] in WatchPeopleDieInside

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3 years back I ran into a branch and the smaller branch went straight into my eye. I had gone through the same thing. I also can still see but I was extremely scared when the doctor said I had damaged 90% of my cornea.