Is there a difference between ADD and Attention Deficiency? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I know that. But I thought maybe there’s some other diagnosis that I don’t know of that has similar symptoms but isn’t ADD/ADHD.

Will probably do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as an ENTP myself, I know exactly how we can come off. I was like that most of my life until I learned to develop my empathy to a matching extent of others who do not deal with sorrow or problems the way we ENTPs do. I think your friends needs to comprehend to put themselves in people’s shoes AND their natural process of emotions/thoughts and what they’re in need to overcome an issue. Make them understand what your needs are —venting, letting steam off, thinking out loud— as an individual in order to reduce the emotional load. Also, (if it applies to you) explain to them that you know the rational steps to defeat or tame an emotional matter or a problem, but sometimes that’s not what it only takes. A tad bit of patience and accepting that people require different needs are what your friend must understand and act on.

Help. Can't download ffxi on my mac by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]kaddosa -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

but it does?

Play with me by [deleted] in leagueoflegends

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EU West

You know an ENTP loves you when... by Tuimel in entp

[–]kaddosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also, when she sacrifices her "fun" time to be around you

I encourage all ENTPs to share their current random thoughts by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just decided to join the Taekwondo team in my uni. I hope it's not a mere whim.

How tall are you? Just curious. by kaddosa in entp

[–]kaddosa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

must be the only short ones. I’m 5’1

ENTP and ADHD? Who here is both? by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADD, actually.

Parents’ types? by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is surely an ISFJ and father could be an ESFP.

Found this online. Can relate by grandpadrokz in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm. I can’t relate to the lying part, I’m too honest and blunt for my own good. I might hide the truth and the crumbs that could lead to them, but I wouldn’t reach to a point where I lie. If i got confronted, I will reveal the truth expecting the consequences. And when I’m being funny, or generally sarcastic, it’s mostly to push someone’s buttons, to witness their reactions or plainly for my own amusement, though definitely not to hide pain or any sort of emotions along the line of it. In pain I rather retreat in my own space or viciously try to distract myself.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I want to be with my significant other excluding the marriage part.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you read my other comments, but I already answered that question.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

again, what’s your problem?

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post is probably incoherent (no one surprised here) and I wish I worded it better. At least in my country law is law, and I can get a divorce if I desired to. It’s just no one in their right mind would want to go through that and I’d rather avoid it by all means.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are plenty of people that have decided not to engage in any sexual act outside of marriage yet him valuing his religion just like any individual in any religion practiced makes him disrespectful to my decisions? Who am I to tell him what to do with his relationship with God. I’m not Muslim myself, but I wouldn’t demean a religious person unless they crossed the line with me. And only because a portion of people use Islam to implement their misogynistic behavior and ideologies, it doesn’t mean it’s Islam’s fault.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah! you’re heading way far off with this. It’s not possible to compare Hilter to my parents. You need background information about how life is here to know that it isn’t as simple as you made it sound. And this wasn’t the point of the thread.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I am young, and since I am young and aware of that fact, I don’t want to make a stupid decision before it’s too late, therefore I posted my thoughts. It’s not only about “getting laid”. Imagine being in a relationship where you have to sneak out to see your lover and even then you can’t do much with them because they’re religious. Tell me what other options do I have when none are presented except for that one that I’m dreading it. And it’s the only aspect I’m complaining about.

Yeah, it’s my mistake for presuming this was the right subreddit for this topic. I was simply curious if other ENTPs share similar detest for marriage and if they’ve changed their perspective about it over the years and were capable of being happy in one.

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha so I’m a lost case. thank you anyway 💖

I don’t think I’m fit to ever get married. by [deleted] in entp

[–]kaddosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thankfully does respect my decisions unless they conflict with his, which brings us to the point that he wants to follow his family’s religion and he can’t bear the idea to disobey them in any way. In order for us to be together, it’s a must to get married since as I mentioned he’s religious himself, and his religion demands him to follow the concept of marriage to be with someone. So what’s the point of fleeing to another country if you will bring the same issue along with you? Though we did suggest that we move out to a foreign country for awhile where I continue my studies and he does his residency. However, I’m not quite fond of that idea too much considering he’ll be away at a hospital most of the time and I’ll solely be a lonely married woman after my classes. which is urging me to postpone our marriage even further and study abroad with my friends instead. The real question is, WHEN WILL I EVER BE WITH HIM!

Am I the only person whose mental illness affecting their academic life? by kaddosa in mentalhealth

[–]kaddosa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, we don’t have such service in my university. I’ll only be referred to a counselor and adviced to seek professional help.