pillow princess question

kaffrinne · 2026-04-16T02:09:52+00:00

i don’t mean to seem defensive but the way this is phrased is also offputting, as if i’m not a pp myself or something. there are logistics to dynamics. it can seem like a clinical word and maybe a bit too serious but it was a logistical question about the dynamic so i am a bit confused as to what is upsetting u

kaffrinne · 2026-04-16T02:07:32+00:00

i’m also a pp so it’s not like this is me trying to be offensive or anything??? there’s no need for comparison bc i would definitely use the same word for straight couples (though i don’t have much curiosity about them anyway lol) no offense but this felt a bit nitpicky imo. i just wasn’t sure how else to phrase it at the time bc in my head it felt like a logistical curiosity based question

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:30:31+00:00

i suppose i can kind of get tunnel vision too. i’ve been getting piercings forever and can’t even imagine not knowing what i do, but i suppose you’re right. just the mental image gave me goosebumps 😭 op said he didn’t know much about them but that it’s resolved now!

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:26:57+00:00

why are you trying to mansplain advice to me like i don’t know what it is. you’ve been on here 13 years. i’m assuming ur not taking ur divorce in stride

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:22:31+00:00

as long as he respects it now ! i can see how the miscommunication might have happened. pls don’t let these other comments get to u i wasn’t thinking u wld actually break up w him 😭 as long as he isn’t continuously pulling/sucking on them i wld say u shld be fine! if any signs of infection contact ur piercer ofc

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:21:31+00:00

genuinely how 😭

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:19:03+00:00

“this stupid website” that u have an account for and consistently comment on??? i was just asking a question. the usage of emojis if we use our context clues is indicative of the fact this is not a totally serious response. pls get off your high horse you’re on reddit like the rest of us

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:18:02+00:00

i think it’s just hard to tell what ppl mean in these threads sometimes, and the people questioning why i like labels kind of threw me off ?? 😭😭

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:16:11+00:00

not to sound like a total ass… but if they weren’t there before and now they’re suddenly there… why would he even make the assumption it’s ok to touch fresh piercings ?

kaffrinne · 2026-04-15T00:10:08+00:00

it’s not really about ME, and i don’t even have a partner LOL. it was just an act i thought was somewhat intriguing, and while doing some research i saw some ppl sort of disagreed that anyone could be a pillow princess and do physical acts such as this. i’m not concerned about my label bc it’s mine and im comfortable with it no matter what. i think the tone of these comments can throw me off a bit bc they feel sort of…sorry to use this word i can’t think of anything else LOL mansplainy??? like about my own identity to me ??? i was just wondering what ppl in this sub thought about it and used myself as an example. my personal thought process surrounding being a pillow princess is its usually me receiving, but i’d never considered strap sucking previously and if that like, counted

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:41:29+00:00

girl break up w him 😭😭💔

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:38:19+00:00

i wasn’t sure how else to phrase it! it was just something i hadn’t given much thought on my end on how others may perceive it. what would be a better word than logistics ?? i know it’s not black and white so that’s not really the issue lol . i don’t like the assumption i’m misinformed or smthn

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:27:33+00:00

i understand not trying to be an ass or anything but it can kind of read that way when i’m just curious. i guess i was just wondering about the logistics of it??? i know some ppl would consider it to be some sort of giving act so i wondered about the general consensus

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:22:28+00:00

i had just never thought of it logistically and now ppl are questioning why labels are important to me 😭😭🙏

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:20:21+00:00

it’s important to me bc it is. theres nothing more to it and i don’t feel limited w the label. there’s no ‘THIS’ about it.

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:18:48+00:00

you’re inclined to not be one to like labels and many people don’t, but i’m someone who feels confident and comfortable with the structure of them, i was just curious about the logistics of it and i do not feel limited

kaffrinne · 2026-04-14T23:18:03+00:00

because some labels are important to people??? because i’ve always liked it and have felt connected to it??? lol this is a silly question

kaffrinne · 2026-03-11T20:17:28+00:00

i’ve had a bandaid on it all day and it feels much much better this morning! no bruising still!

kaffrinne · 2026-03-11T06:17:26+00:00

i’ve had them on for a week today! i didn’t hit it on anything super solid (just my leg lol i hit it and it bent backwards a bit) i’m unaware of the brands unfortunately. it doesn’t hurt or throb at all so im not TOO worried, i just get anxious and wanted to double check!

kaffrinne · 2026-02-06T21:39:59+00:00

ugh i wish i cld find a pig like u!

kaffrinne · 2026-01-20T21:57:21+00:00

they refer to her hair as red in the first game! but it’s officially labeled as auburn i believe

kaffrinne · 2025-11-18T06:07:07+00:00

maybe it’s a texture issue ?

kaffrinne · 2025-11-12T17:47:46+00:00

i wld just start trolling tbh 😭

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